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What Women Want

Elena SolomonWhat Women Want by Elena Solomon

A while ago, a guy wrote to me saying that if he knew what women wanted, he would write a book and retire rich.

What women want was a secret to a man for a long, LONG time.

Mel Gibson and his famous movie “What Women Want” haven’t quite answered this question. In fact, this is exactly the answer to the question in his own words:
“After about 20 years of marriage, I'm finally starting to scratch the surface of what women want. And I think the answer lies somewhere between conversation and chocolate.”

I don’t know about you but this answer doesn’t quite cut it for me. If I were a guy, I would need something more specific to succeed with women!

Fortunately for you, after reading this article, it will no longer be a mystery. Because I am going to tell you EXACTLY what women want. (I was thinking about writing a book and retiring rich… but decided to give this secret away for free for the good of the humanity.)

OK, let’s get to our nitty-gritty, shall we?

Generally, women want many things, including hot gossip and Italian shoes, but as far as men-women relationships are concerned, this is the one and the only women’s request:
They want strong, powerful, overwhelming EMOTIONS. They want to be swept off their feet.

If you manage to deliver THAT, all other women’s desires and requirements become irrelevant: money, looks, height, education, status, or anything else men habitually put on the list of desired attributes - NONE of this really matters.

YES! A woman can fall hopelessly in love with a man who isn’t good looking, doesn’t have money, doesn’t have education, who is short, bald and old, as long as he manages to deliver these powerful EMOTIONS that women are craving.


Because her requirements for money and status come from intellectual, or CONSCIOUS part of the brain - and the emotion of love, or attraction, comes from emotional, or SUBCONSCIOUS part of the brain.

In other words, she cannot help it.
She cannot decide NOT to be in love.
(Have you ever tried it yourself, to stop loving the person who you know isn’t good for you and who only brings you suffering and problems? How successful were these attempts?) She doesn’t ‘step into’ love - she ‘falls into’ it.

It is absolutely imperative for you as a man to evoke strong emotions in a woman in order for her to fall in love with you.

And they don’t have to be positive emotions only - vice versa, an emotional roller coaster works the best. In other words, hate is NOT the opposite of love - it’s its associate and partner. Indifference is the opposite of love. It is easier for you to make a woman that hates you, to fall in love with you, than a woman who has no feelings whatsoever towards you.

What most men do not realize is that a woman does not have to LIKE you, in order to fall in LOVE with you. Yes, you’ve read it right: she may NOT like you but still fall in love with you. Quite often, the reason why she doesn’t like you is the very reason why she falls in love with you.

You should be.

What I realized is that although we LIKE people that are ‘like us’, we LOVE people that have something that we DON’T HAVE. We are powerfully attracted to people that are DISTINCTIVELY DIFFERENT from us. The MORE different they are, the STRONGER is our attraction to them.

Since they are different from us, which means they aren’t ‘like us’, chances are this difference is something that we don’t actually like.

The powerful emotion of attraction that overrides all women’s requirements to a potential partner and makes her do the things she would not tell her mother about, is only evoked in a female by a DOMINANT MALE. In other words, the male she cannot control.

Women have in-built mechanism that reacts on the dominant male by making them weak at their knees and feeling swept off their feet - experiencing these all-powerful EMOTIONS they are after.

They respond to a predetermined pattern of behavior by falling in love with the person who exhibits this behavior. And this pattern can be learned - this is what is commonly known as ‘dating skills’.

Do you want to drive women crazy about you - to the extent they disregard your looks, finances and social status?

It is possible and attainable.
And the best thing, you CAN do it.

Elena Solomon is a dating coach.

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