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You never
know how cool a woman is going to be until you actually approach her, have a
conversation, and express your interest.
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SUCCESS STORY:
Hi,
Since reading your stuff I have picked up twice in two weeks. The first
chick was hot as hell but she turned out to be a bit of a dump.
But the next chick is awesome. Really a top chick. She is easy to hold a
conversation with and she's into the same stuff I'm into. I picked her up in
a club. I have never every done that before." -C.R.
Dude's Comments:
A couple of fundamental principles are illustrated in this brief story.
Principles most guys aren't aware of and that's why so many guys keep
struggling with women.
Let's go over a few of them:
First we have "The Book Cover Principle"
Simply stated, you can't judge a book by it's cover.
Yes, of course we've all heard this one before but there's one simple and
important reason we've all heard clichés like this, it's because, generally
speaking,
THEY'RE TRUE!!!
And with women, the prettiest ones - the ones with the most attractive
"covers" - often are the ones with the most issues, the greatest
insecurities, the least loyal, etc.
Yes there certainly are exceptions, but generally speaking, the
exceptionally pretty ones have more issues that your run of the mill kind of
girl.
There's a variety of reasons for this that I won't go into here...
But the fact is that dealing with these pretty but messed up women will turn
your little pekker southward quicker than a cold northern wind... EVEN IF
the woman is physically a 10.
I think one of the best experiences a man can give himself is dating a hot
but screwed up woman.
That's the best way to stop getting sucked in by a woman's "beauty power."
But even if you REALIZE that beauty is often only skin deep, the reality is
that our bodies and minds AUTOMATICALLY shift into "full alert" when we're
around a hot woman.
Hell, we're guys, we're suppose to get excited about pretty women, right?
But there's a difference between being excited at a level 5, so that we're
alert on the inside but appearing calm on the outside.
And being excited at a level 10 where we are totally freaking out on the
inside, stumbling over our words, and resembling a high school freshmen on
the first day of school.
You want to be at a level 5 of excitement, not a level 10.
Which brings up another fundamental principle:
"The Balance Principle"
The idea of maintaining "balance" in all your interactions with women will
really help you take your success with women, and even your success in life,
to the next level.
Some examples:
Balance your niceness with having an edge.
Balance your chivalry (opening doors, etc.) with sexually charged
conversations.
(By the way, if you don't know how to create a "sexual charge" with your
conversations with women, you need to learn how. It's one of the most
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Also balance your desire to be totally calm with the reality that you will
always be a bit more excited around really pretty women they you are around
grazing cows.
Unless you're really into cows.
But I don't judge.
The other principle of today's success story is:
"The You Never Know Until You Go Principle"
In other words, you never know how cool a woman is going to be until you
actually approach her, have a conversation, and express your interest.
In this case, it took C.R. only two women to find a cool one.
He got lucky. It takes most men a lot more than just 2 women to find a great
one.
But the point here is that you'll never know who that great woman will be
until you take the initiative to meet her.
(And if you want to learn a simple, 3 step approach to starting a
conversation with any woman, in any situation, and have a GREAT chance of
sparking attraction and walking away with her number in just 2 minutes,
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Here are 3 simple - yet powerful - tips I felt inspired to share with you. These come from the "don't EVER let me catch you doing any of these
things with a woman" category:
TIP #1: Don't ever ask your date, "So, how do you feel about me?"
I just watched an episode of 'Elimidate' where a poor "nice guy" did this,
and I want to make sure you never make this same mistake.
It will put you in the WUSS category faster than you can imagine.
You can get the same information you're looking for, and avoid all the
negative consequences, by simply saying at the end of the evening, "I'd like
to see you again."
You'll get the answer you were looking for without any downside.
"How do you feel about me" is weak, it's seeking her approval.
"I'd like to see you again" is strong, it's stating what's true for you
regardless of what she thinks.
In every situation with a woman, figure out what the strong, masculine,
assertive thing to say would be, and SAY IT.
TIP #2 After you kiss a woman, don't ever ask her how the kiss was.
Unless, of course, she was so OBVIOUSLY turned on by the kiss that you're
not asking it to get reassurance, but you're asking it rhetorically (where
you already know the answer).
When a man asks a woman how a kiss was, he's usually looking for
reassurance. He's feeling insecure. But when you're feeling confident, you
don't need to ask because you already know the kiss was awesome.
Confidence is good, acting insecure is bad.
Got it?
By the way, most insecure behavior will fall away naturally once you're
dating enough and learning from your mistakes. It takes time.
TIP #3: When a woman calls you on your behavior or criticizes you, fight
back.
You know what strong women think of guys who don't defend themselves them
they get criticized?
You got it: WUSSIES.
So be a man. Be willing to defend yourself against the women you date. Don't
hide behind the facade of "being nice" or "being a gentlemen."
If a woman is being a bitch to you, stand up for yourself.
She'll respect you more for it.
And where there's respect, ATTRACTION is just around the corner...
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