Let's go back to ten thousand years ago, just for a second...
So the men are out hunting wild animals to bring back food for supper
time. This was DANGEROUS work. It was "kill or be killed," if you know
what I mean.
Do you think while these guys were staring a wild boar in the eyes, they
had time to chat about the "social dynamics" of their tribe?
Hell no...
But meanwhile, back at home, the women are gathering berries and other
things to put in the Pig Stew for dinner.
Do you think they had time to talk?
You betcha...
Picking berries doesn't QUITE require the mental focus of hunting down
wild game. So while the men were away - the women talked and talked and
talked and talked. And they got REALLY GOOD at it.
So today, when it comes to reading the subtle signs of social dynamics
and communication, women are SAMURAI WARRIORS.
... and most men are the LAMBS they lead to the slaughter.
But we don't HAVE TO be...
===== "THE UGLY TRUTH" =====
The reality is that you'll NEVER really know, FOR SURE, why she didn't
pick up your call - or why she never returned your voice mail. You'll
never know what she was doing - or WHO she was doing. (Ouch...)
But the goal here is for YOU to become that WHO... that REASON WHY...
So when her phone rings - with a call from some OTHER guy - she doesn't
pick it up because she's busy hanging out with YOU.
You want a complete "Role Reversal."
But if you can't get past the phone, you'll continue to be in the
"losing position" in this game. If you try to call, and she's too busy
with another guy to pick up your call, one thing is for sure - HE knew
how to handle the phone.
You can too - and get in the position you want - if you learn a couple
of critical phone strategies. I've got a bunch, but I'll share just two
with you right here in this newsletter..
===== "BLAST THROUGH THE BARRIER" =====
The phone is usually the BRIDGE from the pick up...
to the date.
But does it have to be?
What if you could BLOW UP the bridge... put on a jet pack... and fly
right over the "gap" created by the phone?
You can.
And one way is by setting up the date right there on the spot.
You do your 3-Step Pick Up as I always recommend, but instead of rushing
away after you get her number - ask her, "How spontaneous are you? I
know this killer coffee shop right down the street. We should run in
there, grab a cup and talk for a few..."
Or, if you don't have the time right now - let's say you're meeting her
on your lunch break - an alternative could be "Do you have plans
tonight?
I know this killer coffee shop right down the street.
We should meet for a cup and talk for a few..."
The key point here is that you are setting up the meeting BEFORE she
leaves your sight... BEFORE there's any chance of getting sucked into a
perpetual game of "Phone Tag."
Because when you make plans face to face, your connection with a woman
is much more SOLID that if you get her number and call a few days later
to set up the meeting. Solid, concrete plans EARLY ON create a solid,
concrete chance of actually meeting her later.
===== "THE TECHNOLOGY OF TEXT" =====
But maybe you were so nervous when you met her that setting up a "date"
on the spot was beyond the realm of possibility for you. You got her
number, but that's it.
Fine. So you call, and you get her voice mail...
WHATEVER you do, DON'T leave a message.
Why not?
Because giving a woman control of the situation - any situation - is
DANGEROUS. If you have ever let a woman drive your car... while you sat
white-knuckled in the passenger seat...
you know what I mean.
Never put a woman in the DRIVER'S SEAT.
YOU should be controlling where the interaction goes - NOT HER.
If you leave a message, she'll know for sure that you've called. And now
she can wait as long as she'd like to call you back - if EVER.
Maybe she has a busy life (which you should, too) and she got caught up
in other things. Or maybe she just gets off not returning the messages
men leave. It strokes her ego. Either way, now you're mentally "waiting
by the phone" for her call.
Of course you're not PHYSICALLY waiting by the phone (You are? Are you
kidding me? Crap!), but you're certainly not in a "position of power."
So don't leave a message if she doesn't pick up.
Instead, wait a day, then use the wonderful "Technology of Text"...
Use your cell phone to send her a TEXT MESSAGE.
When she gets your text, she will be COMPELLED to READ your message
because she knows she doesn't have to actually TALK to you. In other
words, reading your text is a much LOWER RISK behavior than answering
your call - so she's much more likely to do it.
Let me ask you a question:
Have you ever IGNORED a call on your cell phone?
Of course you have.
Why?
Because for whatever reason, at that moment, you didn't want to engage
in a live conversation with the caller.
Duh.
But have you ever received a text message that you DIDN'T read?
Of course not.
Why not?
Because it's UN-INTRUSIVE. You can read it and easily not respond back
if you like... or put off responding until later... MUCH later. Reading
a text message is "low-risk" - there's no down-side. In fact, it's TOO
EASY... so a woman's knee-jerk reaction is to quickly read the message
you sent.
She can't HELP HERSELF.
Remember back in high school when you used to pass notes back and forth
in class?
How likely was it that when a girl got a note, she would neatly put it
in her pocket and save it until the end of the day to read?
Can you say, "Not a snowball's chance in HELL"?
Some habits never die... and just like when she was back in school, a
woman cannot resist the temptation and curiosity to see what you wrote
in your text "note".
She will read your message ALMOST INSTANTLY.
So, your question becomes what to say in your text to engage her, pique
her curiosity, her attraction, and her emotions - all in a line or two
of text.
Here's what you do:
Say something really interesting and unique, something no guy has ever
texted her before, something like, "Hi Sara. This is Bob. How are you?"
Yeah, right...
What you REALLY need to do is pick out something about her that you can
TEASE HER about. Look back at your interaction and think of a slightly
condescending or challenging nickname you can call her.
If you can't think of one, "Brat" or "Dork" will do. So you text
something like:
"Hey Brat... what are you up to?"
Now... imagine HER REACTION when she gets this text. Her phone vibrates,
and she sees it's you - some guy she gave her number to a couple of days
ago.
"Mmm, I wonder what he's got to say..."
She reads your message...
"BRAT! He's calling me a BRAT! Damn, that's ballsy. I sort of like
that..."
So she texts back:
"Brat? who are you calling Brat?"
She's engaging in the game that YOU set up. At this point, it's ON.
So "amp it up":
"Man.. I LOVE IT when you get FEISTY..."
She'll reply back, then you transition to live conversation - QUICKLY -
and in a challenging, playful way.
YOU [TEXT]: Is your phone ringing?
HER [TEXT]: No
YOU [TEXT]: That's weird... Because I heard there's this really hot,
interesting guy who's about to call you.
YOU [TEXT]: I'd pick up if I were you...
... and IMMEDIATELY call her.
The instant you're tickling her "funny bone" with the last cocky
message, her phone vibrates. She'll pick up... because you're timing
will be PERFECT. And when she does - she'll be VERY interested to talk
to you.
Or, if that's a little too "cocky" for you, use this alternative to
transition from text to a live call:
YOU [TEXT]: Is your phone ringing?
HER [TEXT]: No.
YOU [TEXT]: Oh yeah?
.... and IMMEDIATELY call her.
Next time you get a woman's number, try this Text Technique - I'm sure
it'll work wonders for you.
The fact is there are literally HUNDREDS of techniques, trips, and
mindsets that'll help you succeed with women - where in the past you've
failed.
If you know what they are, you'll breeze smoothly past each test a woman
shoots your way.
If you DON'T, you'll get stopped in your tracks - IMMEDIATELY.
Where's the best place to learn these strategies?
I thought you'd never ask....
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