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Learn
the top reasons why guys don’t approach the women they want--and what
YOU can do to turn around your success with women. - Based on the
ebook "Any Woman, Anywhere..."
Question #1:
Hey,
I'm having great success! After reading the first part of your book, I
got this girl whom I've liked for awhile to give me her number. The only
problem is that I keep getting mixed signals from her. Even though I got
her number, I'm not sure if she wants to actually be my lady. How do I
keep myself from falling into the friend category forever? And she has a
boyfriend, so what do I do?
K.C, Washington, D.C
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My Reply:
First off, nice job following my tips and getting her number..
Secondly, SLOW WAY DOWN DUDE.
You go from getting her number to worrying about whether or not she
wants to be your "lady." Dude, the jump from getting a number to getting
a girlfriend is just about as wide as the grand canyon.
And your not going to leap the whole thing with a single jump.
So slow WAY DOWN.
Stop worrying about whether or not she wants to be your lady, and focus
instead of building attraction
in her and having fun. If you have fun and build attraction, she may
(down the road) want to be your lady.
But I'll tell you what:
If you come across as a guy who is WORRYING about how she feels about
you, this hurts your chances BIG TIME.
It gives HER the power. And it makes you come across as NEEDY, which is
a big time attraction killer.
So take a deep breath, calm down, and focus on having fun when you're
with her, and building attraction.
If you don't know how to build attraction, review the bonus eBooklet on
Attraction that came with my eBook. It's got tons of great tips.
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Success Story:
Hello,
I just want to thank you for all this advice. Two days ago I was at work
and a beautiful lady walked in to my office. She was asking for
directions to the nearest shopping mall and without me asking for
anything she give me her phone number and she told me that may be we can
out some time. I never knew that could happen to me.
Thanks,
Leo
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My Reply:
What?
Don't tell me you're SURPRISED that after reading my tips women are
handing over their numbers to you...WITHOUT YOU EVEN ASKING FOR THEM.
I mean, didn't you see the guarantee on my website:
"My eBook is guaranteed to have women give you their phone numbers
automatically, without you even asking for them. Just read the book, and
it'll happen like magic.
Guaranteed."
Seriously guys, what's up with all these fellas writing in lately with
stories of women offering their numbers without even asking for them?
And how come this doesn't happen to me???
I think I'm starting to have a complex about it. What's that saying?
"When the student surpasses the teacher, the teacher should pack up his
bags, move to Hawaii and become a surf bum."
Well, maybe next week. For now, there's still some guys I want to help.
Nice "work" Leo.
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Question #2:
How u doing kev??
I see many hot girls every day but i don't know how to start the talk :(.
And something else, even if I start the talk i don't know what to talk with
her about.
I hope u can help me kev.
Mr. X, Malaysia
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My Reply:
First step is go get my eBook. It's lays out step by step how to start
conversations with women you've just met, and how to keep the conversations
going.
But for now, let me share a very interesting story:
This last week a friend of mine was on a business trip. On the way through
the airport he noticed a cute worker at the security checkpoint. He said one
thing to her, and instantly she was smiling.
You know what he said?
Would you LIKE to know what he said?
I thought you would.
What he said was:
"Are you checking me out...again?"
A simple statement, right?
Okay, so what's going on here:
He used something I talk alot about, which is TEASING women into feeling
attraction for you. He was also setting up the "frame" of attraction by
starting a sexually charged conversation. And, the whole thing had an
element of humor in it.
Whenever humor works its because there is a piece of truth in it. The truth
in this situation is that the woman actually was looking at him.
Was she checking him out? Probably not.
But by interpreting what she was doing in a sexual, assumptive way, he
pushed the attraction buttons in her.
INSTANTLY.
Now, are these magical words?
Absolutely not. If you go out and try the same thing, are you going to have
the same success?
Maybe, maybe not. It depends on how you communicate, as well as how much of
your inner psychology you have handled.
Some guys just need a quick technique like this, and because they have the
psychology stuff handled they go out and instantly have success.
But most guys need to work on it more. Because without the inner psychology
stuff addressed (like confidence, need for approval, etc.), she'll see right
through the technique, see that you haven't developed into to a masculine,
strong man yet, and it simply won't "work."
If you think you still have a ways to go into developing into this strong
man that naturally attracts women, here's two piece of advice:
1) go get my eBook to get an education
2) take action anyway. Don't wait. Don't use your lack of confidence as an
excuse NOT to take action. The interesting thing is taking action is a big
step in building your confidence.
So do it. Oh, and one more thing:
After flirting with the security woman, my friend went on to have a fun,
attraction-based conversation with a woman sitting next to him while waiting
for the plane, and another one with a woman who was busy reading a magazine,
and of course another one with the two women he choose to sit down between
on the flight itself.
Do you want to be this type of guy who easily has conversations like these
with women where you go?
I know you do. Who wouldn't?
The question is when are you going to do something about it?
Maybe you've been receiving my newsletters for some time, and the next step
for you is to go download my book right now. Or maybe it's to call me for
one on one coaching over the phone.
But whatever it is, DO SOMETHING. TAKE ACTION.
And reading my newsletters DOESN'T COUNT.
There's 2 sources of knowledge:
1) Education
2) Experience
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