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Courtesy 'Any Woman Anywhere' [www.anywomananywhere.com]
If
you've ever wanted to be more than just a friend to a woman in your
life, you're going to find this week's article very interesting. -
Based on the
ebook "Any
Woman, Anywhere..."
How would you to know what separates the guys who always seem to
be hooking up, from the guys who always seem to just be friends with
women? The answer might be VERY different than you think.
The biggest barrier to getting physical with a woman is NOT what you
think.
Let me explain:
Let's say you took the chance and suggested to a woman you’d like to see
her again. She said yes, and now your date or meeting is going well
because you’ve been following the attraction strategies I recommend.
She’s cute, and you’d like to begin to take things physical.
The question is: how?
Fear May Be Your First Obstacle
For most guys, especially those who have been conditioned to be “nice,”
fear will creep in and become an obstacle for you to even TRY any of the
strategies in this booklet. Let’s face it, most guys feel nervous when
they first try to touch a woman, go for the first kiss, start touching
her body for the first time, etc.
Just as fear is a major obstacle to you learning how to approach
successfully, fear may be a major obstacle to you learning how to get
physical successfully.
But however much of an obstacle fear is for you now, there is definitely
hope. I know, because there was a time in my own life when I was just
about as much of a wussy in this area as any man could be. And now
things are MUCH different.
Let me share with you two quick horror stories:
Horror Story #1: On Vacation In Argentina
I was fortunate enough to go on a ski vacation to Argentina, where I met
this really cute local girl on the mountain. I asked her for her phone
number and she gave it to me. We met later that night for dinner at this
great restaurant her family happened to own. After dinner we began to
walk on this pier on a beautiful lake.
Although this was obviously a “date,” I couldn’t get myself to hold her
hand or touch her in any way.
As we walked along the pier, we passed many couples who were embracing
each other; many of them were kissing passionately. The moon was out,
and the light from the stars glittered on the surface of the lake.
This was just about the most romantic situation anyone could ever ask
for.
We got to the end of the pier, and we stood there. This was OBVIOUSLY
the time for me to kiss her. We were in an absolutely gorgeous and
romantic environment, and there were plenty of couples we had passed who
were examples of what we should be doing.
We stood there.
Seconds ticked away.
And I froze.
I couldn’t make the move. Seconds turned into minutes. I knew she was
waiting for me to do something. But I couldn’t make a move.
I was scared I was going to blow it.
Finally she said we should go, so we turned and walked back down the
pier, passing all those couples that were holding each other, kissing,
etc. And this just compounded my utter shame that I wasn’t man enough to
at least make a move, any kind of move, with this cute girl who
obviously liked me, in the absolutely most romantic situation
imaginable.
Guys, fear with taking things physical doesn’t get much worse than this.
Or can it?
Horror Story #2: The Super Hottie in Texas
Let me share with you just one more completely embarrassing story:
I lived in Houston, Texas for a summer. I was at a bar with a friend,
and we made a bet that whoever won the pool game had to go up to this
really attractive blond who was standing with her friend nearby.
I won the bet, so although I was nervous I went up with her. I ran out
of things to talk about after about 60 seconds, so I asked her for her
number. Surprisingly she gave it to me.
A couple evenings later she arrived at my door step. We were going to
see a movie. Well, when I opened my front door to greet her, I realized
that it had been pretty dark in the bar.
Because this woman wasn’t very attractive.
SHE WAS DROP DEAD GORGEOUS. I mean an absolute 10. Perfect. Simply
amazingly beautiful.
That first date went okay. On our second date we ended up back at her
place, having a drink. When it was time for me to go, she suggested I
spend the night at her place.
SHE SUGGESTED I SPEND THE NIGHT AT HER PLACE!
So I go over to this amazingly beautiful woman’s bed and lay down. She
comes out of the bathroom and lies in the bed next to me.
But guess what?
I froze.
I could not begin to make any sort of move on her whatsoever.
After a couple of minutes passed, you know what happened?
She began caressing my chest with her hand.
And guess what?
I still could not make a move.
(You might be reading this thinking I’m making this story up, that no
man on the face of the planet could be this much of a wuss. But I swear
to you this happened exactly as I’m sharing it with you now.)
We feel asleep, and the next morning I left.
That next day was a very dark day for me. I couldn’t believe that I had
again had the perfect opportunity to get physical, and I couldn’t make a
single move.
I was downright depressed.
Oh, but wait, it gets even worse:
I call her a couple of days later, and somehow she says yes to seeing me
again. And again after the date we end up back at her place, and again
she suggests I spend the night.
Again, she lies in bed next to me and begins caressing my chest.
And guess what?
You guessed it. Again I froze and couldn’t make a move.
You can only imagine how absolutely suicidal I was after yet another
utter failure to be any sort of man with this super hot woman.
The Moral of the Stories
I share with you these stories of my life because I want you to really
understand that if fear is preventing you from getting physical with
women, there’s hope.
Things can change for you. And when they do, your success with women
will be literally transformed.
Because after I had the experiences from these stories, my life soon
began to change. I had felt so much shame and so much pain in utterly
failing as a man, that from this point on whenever I began to feel some
fear about getting physical I reminded myself how much pain giving in to
the fear had created for me in the past.
And this really motivated me to suck it up and make a move, even though
I was feeling fear.
This led to success. And more success. And more success.
I’ve grown so comfortable with expressing my desires as a man now, that
if I were to tell the women I date now about the stories I just shared
with you, I guarantee you they wouldn’t believe they ever happened.
Women now see me as a very confident, quite assertive man when it comes
to making moves and getting physical. I’m never pushy, but I am very
comfortable with getting physical and I never let an opportunity pass me
by if I want it. In fact, I create opportunities that most guys don’t
see.
So if fear is a challenge for you in getting physical with women,
realize you’re not alone and that with consistent practice and the right
strategy, you can completely turn this area of your life around.
If you're reading this and you're thinking you'd like to learn HOW to
take things physical more often, you really need to check out my ebook.
I lay out in great detail very specific steps to follow to take things
physical, including:
- The best date ideas for building attraction and getting
physical...even on the first date....
- The perfect time to start to touch a woman on a date...and when to go
for the first kiss....
- An amazing move that is the opposite of what you THINK would
work...and that gets HER to make the move on YOU....
- How to use something you would never think of - food - as a powerful
tool to take things physical for the first time...
- Why MASSAGE is the most often overlooked seduction strategy...and how
to avoid the most common mistakes...
All the details are below. You may even find a few free samples from the
book:
www.anywomananywhere.com
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