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You never
know how cool a woman is going to be until you actually approach her, have a
conversation, and express your interest.
Article Courtesy 'Any Woman Anywhere' by
Kevin B. [www.anywomananywhere.com]
Have you ever wanted to
meet a woman you saw somewhere, but by the time you figured out what to
say... she was gone? If you want to learn how to approach any woman,
anywhere...
READ THE BOOK.
"Any
Woman, Anywhere..." by Kevin Bates
This Article:
QUESTION:
"I was in a nightclub and I saw a hot blonde chick. I approached her said hi
what's your name. She replied "Askeen" and I told her my name. I told her that
she was gorgeous. Tried to get her number but then her girlfriend grabbed
her and said see ya later. Then they went on the dance floor. Askeen said
she was in a relationship with her girlfriend and that it has been 6 years
long. My bro said she was lying and that she wasn't interested in me. Where
did I go wrong?
Kevin's Reply:
First of all, if you're talking to a girl in a club and she tells you she's
in a "relationship" with her "girlfriend," most likely she's blowing you
off.
She's telling you she's a lesbian so you'll GO AWAY.
Now, when this happens in a club, I want you to have one and only one
thought in your mind:
NO BIG DEAL.
In that kind of environment, women are getting hit on left and right. And
unless you have your game hitting on all cylinders, you will find women who
simply blow you off.
But again, just think:
NO BIG DEAL.
Dating is a numbers game, and no place is it more a numbers game than in a
club. So when this happens, don't take it personally, DON'T try to figure
out what happened.
Instead, just move on to the next lucky woman.
What you'll find is that you'll go from one woman who didn't respond to you,
to one who really does, even when you change NOTHING in your approach.
Now, if you talk to 10 women and each and every one of them blows you out of
the game, THEN start asking yourself what you can change in your approach.
Oh, and just one more piece of advice:
It helps not to hit on LESBIANS.
Maybe that could be your opener:
"Excuse me, you're not a lesbian are you?"
That's definitely something different. Lol.
SUCCESS STORY
Hi,
Just thought I'd mention, whilst I haven't applied every single aspect of
your book, what it really did do was make me think, and gave my confidence a
boost.
I eventually did go up to a girl, something a year ago I wouldn't have even
considered - I never approach women. She was in a cafe, she was gorgeous (I
would traditionally have thought her "above me"), and we had an exchange of
smiles. Some of the words in your book echoed in my head, and almost as if
on autopilot I suddenly found myself standing by her table, offering to buy
her a coffee sometime.
To my amazement she enthusiastically accepted, and actually offered me her
number - I didn't even have to ask. We've dated a few times now, and its
progressing very nicely indeed. She's stunning, and I'm one lucky man
(actually, no, she's one lucky girl.
I don't know exactly what part you played in it, but I definitely felt the
need to thank you.
So, Thank you.
T.P.
Kevin's Reply:
Nice.
It's amazing how close to success most men are, if they only take a chance
and say something, ANYTHING, to the women who interest them.
When you say the words from my book echo in your head like on "autopilot"
doesn't surprise me.
Have you ever hung out with buddies, and later you catch yourself saying the
types of things they would say, and using words THEY would use?
Psychologists call this "Social Learning."
Basically, humans are social creatures and we're wired to very QUICKLY learn
the cues of those around us to help us fit it with the group and survive.
This can help us (for example, when you hang out with guys who are
successful with women and their skills "rub off" on you).
Or it can hurt us (when you hang out with guys who bring you down and come
up with excuses why it's impossible to succeed with women, and you start
believing them).
So sure, when you study any of my products enough, you'll find yourself
AUTOMATICALLY doing some of the things I talk about.
How great is that?
QUESTION:
Hi Kevin,
I bought your e-book and I read it. I still can't overcome my fear with
women. I know that women are attracted to me. But I can't make conversations
with them. When I do, it is usually small talk that get's nowhere.
There is a girl in a department store that is hot. She is a 9. She seems to
be attracted to me (by her body language). and I can small talk her, but
cannot seem to get past that to getting her number. I seem to be such a
wuss. any help? I read and re-read your book. It is so tough to actually
take the small steps you outlined. I am in a kind of inertia or 'wuss'dom.
Anything to jumpstart and get over this? -G.
Kevin's Reply:
Yeah, I'll help you. If the girl you're talking about works in Orange
County, California, just tell me the department store, and the department
she works in, and her name, and I'll PERSONALLY go get her number for you
(after I "get to know" her myself, that is).
Lol...
But seriously, here's something that I talk about in my book but you must
have somehow missed:
When learning any skill, especially a complex one like picking up women, it
helps to CHUNK THINGS DOWN.
In other words, break up the thing you want to learn into smaller parts that
are easier to "digest."
If you had to eat an elephant, would you try to swallow it all down in one
gulp, or would you bust out a fork and knife and slowly get to work, bite by
bite?
So, one way you can "chunk down" the process of getting numbers like this is
to start with simply giving a woman a compliment on her looks. |
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