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the top reasons why guys don’t approach the women they want--and what
YOU can do to turn around your success with women. - Based on the
ebook "Any Woman, Anywhere..."
If you've ever liked a woman a lot, did everything you could to be
really nice to her, only for her to suddenly stop returning your calls
or give you the "let's just be friends" speech, consider that it may be
due to one fact alone:
Many women are attracted to the "bad boy" type.
While some women have grown out of this stage and are looking for
something (and someone) of more substance, many women are still deeply
entrenched in the attraction towards these "types" of men.
Now, if you're reading this right now, I'd be willing to bet my house,
hell even my neighbor's house, that you are NOT a natural "bad boy"
type, are you?
I didn't think so.
But don't get discouraged. Because if we look closer, the mysterious
things that give "bad boys" their mystique and power with women can be
broken down into sets of behaviors. And the cool thing is when we break
things down into a set of behaviors, it allows us to "model" or copy
these behaviors to reap similar rewards.
You might be thinking, "Wait, I want to just be me. I don't want to have
to be "fake" around women in order to succeed."
Listen, modeling these behaviors has nothing to do with being someone
who you're not, or being fake.
Listen, what if I were to tell you that guys who succeed with women tend
to have manners like opening doors for women, pulling out their chairs,
etc.
If you went out and paid attention to this on your next day, would you
feel you were being fake?
Of course not.
Why?
Because these behaviors are UNIVERSAL. They exist independent of any
particular guy using them. They've existed since the beginning of time,
and they'll continue to exist.
Why?
Because they work.
And there's nothing "fake" or disingenuous (that's your word of the day
:o)) about using them yourself.
Regardless, I think you'll see in a moment that once you understand what
is at the root of the "bad boy" persona, you'll see that there are
plenty of new behaviors that will suit your specific personality AND get
you to the same result that "bad boys" enjoy over and over again:
Being able to push a woman's attraction buttons.
Get it?
Good, then let's get on with it:
When an attractive and/or secure woman interacts with a man, and the man
kisses her ass (like most of us men have been trained to do from a
variety of sources, including our well intentioned parents, the not so
well intentioned media, etc), she is INSTANTLY repelled.
She sadly thinks, "Oh great, just another nice guy who doesn't do it for
me."
So why this gut level reaction?
Well, before tackling that one, let's get on thing straight:
It's a fact that many attractive and/or secure women DO have this gut
level reaction.
Do you believe me?
I hope so. Because even if we don't exactly understand why these behaviors
push the "repel" button rather than the "attract" button, we can go ahead
and stop these poison behaviors, even if we don't understand exactly why
they are so poison.
Okay, so know that we "get" that ass-kissing kills attraction in attractive
and/or secure women, why is this?
Man, an entire book could be written on this, but let me share just a simple
concept:
CHALLENGE.
When you kiss ass, you eliminate the possibility of women seeing you as any
sort of challenge.
In fact, ass kissing is the EXACT OPPOSITE of being a challenge.
There's no game to getting you. You're just too damn easy.
My personal theory is that when you do this, what you're communicating to a
very deep, biological part of women is "I'm lower status than you." But for
whatever reason, the lack of challenge is not INTERESTING to attractive or
secure women.
So, what specific ass-kissing behaviors am I encouraging you to eliminate
immediately?
Well, for starters:
Showering women with compliments.
Smiling at what they say out of social courtesy, when really you weren't all
the impressed with what they said.
Asking out of the blue if they'll be your girlfriend.
Calling all the time, wanting to talk lots on the phone.
Etc., etc.
So let's compare these ass kissing behaviors to how "bad boys" would act:
Bad boys give NO compliments.
Bad boys don't smile out of social courtesy or just "to be nice." In fact,
if a woman says something that a bad boy doesn't agree with, he'll speak his
mind. He doesn't hesitate to challenge the women he interacts with. And he
probably teases the hell out of women, too.
Nice guys won't tease, because:
Number 1: They are too wrapped up in their own insecurities and think
teasing would jeopardize their "chances" of being liked or scoring, and
Number 2: They don't get that teasing and having an edge is what attractive
and/or secure women REALLY LOVE.
In demand women have guys drooling and being overly nice to them all the
time. And they find this boring.
What they really like is a guy who's a challenge, who isn't easy. A guy who
isn't direct about his interest.
Fact is, when something is a challenge, our interest immediately goes up.
And this is twice as true for women in the context of romance.
THEY LOVE IT.
The trick is how to do it in a charming or funny way.
So where can you learn exactly HOW to be a challenge, exactly how to push
those attraction buttons, and most importantly, how to do it in a way this
is consistent with you are (instead of being fake)?
Well, the best place I know of is the Internet's #1 eBook on success with
women, "Any Woman, Anywhere." (Yep, it just so happens I wrote it)
You'll learn how to turn acquaintances into dates, how to approach new women
successfully, how to set up dates expertly, the mindsets and behaviors that
trigger attraction...
and much, much more.
It's guaranteed to get you the results you want in 14 days or less, or your
money back. But before you decide, consider this:
At a fundamental level, there are two types of guys:
Those who take the action necessary to succeed with women, versus:
Those who don't, and so must settle with their lack of success with the
ladies.
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