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If
you've ever wanted to be able to just walk up and start talking to a
woman you're going to find this article very interesting. - Based on the
ebook "Any
Woman, Anywhere..."
Where there's respect, there's often attraction just around the
corner.
*** Advice Article Of The Week ***
Hi,
Since reading your stuff I have picked up twice in two weeks. The first
chick was hot as hell but she turned out to be a bit of a ho.
But the next chick is awesome. Really a top chick. She is easy to hold a
conversation with and she's into the same stuff I'm into. I picked her
up in a club I have never every done that before." -C.R.
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Answer:
A couple of fundamental principles are illustrated here, so let me point
them out to you:
The Principle: You can't judge a book by it's cover.
You know I often say the reason sayings like "You can't judge a book by
it's cover" stick around so long, and the reason everyone has heard them
thousands of times is because...
THEY'RE TRUE!!!
If I could reach out through cyberspace and put my hand on your shoulder
the next time you start freaking out when you see a pretty woman, and
tell you simply to frickin' calm down, I would.
But I can't.
So I'm writing this article instead.
Often the prettiest women have the most issues. And often those issues
will turn your little peter southward quicker than a cold northern wind.
EVEN IF the woman is physically a 10.
But even if you REALIZE this is true, the reality that is coursing
through your body is nervousness and tension, because you're getting all
excited just because the woman is physically hot.
And you probably will always be this way to a CERTAIN EXTENT.
Hell, we're guys, we're suppose to get excited about pretty women,
right?
But there's a difference between being excited at a level 5, so that
we're alert on the inside but appearing calm on the outside...
and being excited at a level 10, so that we're totally freaking out on
the inside, and stumbling over our words and appearing like a high
school freshmen on the first day of school.
You want to be at a level 5 of excitement, not a level 10.
Which brings up another fundamental principle:
The Principle of Balance.
With all principles that relate to women, and even life for that matter,
the idea of Balance will take you far along the path of getting what you
want, and keeping your sanity.
Some examples...
Balance your niceness with having an edge.
Balance your chivalry (opening doors, etc.) with having conversations
with sexual innuendo.
Balance your desire to be totally calm with the reality that you will
always be a bit more excited around really pretty women they you are
around grazing cows.
Unless you're really into cows. But I don't judge...
The other fundamental principle today's success story shows is...
YOU NEVER KNOW, UNTIL YOU GO.
In other words, you never know how cool a woman is going to be until you
actually approach her, have a conversation, and express your interest.
In this case, it took C.R. only two women to find a cool one. In all
likelihood, it'll take you MANY more women. But the point here is that
you'll never know who that great woman will be, until you take the
initiative to meet her.
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Here's 3
simple yet powerful tips I felt inspired to share with you today. These
come from the "don't even in a million years catch yourself doing any of
these things on a date" category:
NUGGET OF WISDOM #1: Don't ever ask your date, "So, how do you feel
about me?"
I just watched an episode of Elimidate on TV where someone did this, and
I want to make sure none of my readers are making this mistake.
It will put you in the WUSS category faster than you can imagine.
To get to the same information without becoming a wuss, one option is to
simply say at the end of the date, "I'd like to see you again."
See how she responds. You'll get the answer you were looking for
anyways, without driving yet another nail into your coffin of wussy
behavior.
NUGGET OF WISDOM #2 After you kiss a woman, don't ever ask her how the
kiss was.
Unless, of course, she was so OBVIOUSLY turned on by the kiss that
you're not asking it to get reassurance, but you're actually asking it
rhetorically (where you know the answer is positive).
Usually when you ask a woman how the kiss was, you are looking for
reassurance. This is because you are feeling insecure. If you were
feeling confident, you wouldn't have to ask, because you would already
believe that the kiss was awesome.
Confidence is good, acting insecure is bad.
Got it?
By the way, most insecure behavior will fall away naturally once you're
dating enough and learning from your mistakes. It takes time.
NUGGET OF WISDOM #3: When a woman calls you on your behavior or
criticizes you, fight back.
You know what strong women think of guys who don't defend themselves
them they get criticized?
You got it:
WUSSIES.
So be a man. Be willing to defend yourself against the women you date.
Stop cowering behind the facade of "being nice" or "being a gentlemen."
If a woman is being a bitch to you, stand up for yourself.
She'll respect you more for it.
And where there's respect, there's often ATTRACTION just around the
corner...
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