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 Article Courtesy 'Any Woman Anywhere'
If
you've ever wanted to be more than just a friend to a woman in your
life, you're going to find this week's article very interesting. -
Based on the
ebook "Any
Woman, Anywhere..."
I'm going to share with you an interesting little story that JUST
happened to me, so listen up, and listen up good, my
"wingmen-in-training".
This week I'm going to share with you a major reason why most guys will
NEVER in their lifetimes be able to express interest in the women who
interest them. And because of this, they will always have to SETTLE for
the women they can get, because they haven't yet learned to step up, be
a man, and communicate to the women they are attracted to.
It was about 7 p.m., and I was at the pharmacy picking up some stuff. I
noticed this attractive woman in line.
As she walked outside, I said, "Hey, excuse me," and when she turned
around, I smiled and gave her a sincere compliment on her appearance.
We had some small talk.
Then I asked if she was single. She quickly replied, "Oh no, I'm
actually happily engaged."
I said, "Great, good for you. But where's your ring?" (I had noticed
before she wasn't wearing a ring).
She abruptly looked down at the finger where an engagement ring would
have been had she REALLY been engaged, and she said, "Ah, well, uh...I'm
having it exchanged."
I said, "Okay, well hey, great meeting you, and have a wonderful
night."
Now, question for you:
How would you have reacted in this situation?
How would you have FELT?
Would you have taken it personally that she lied to your face about
being engaged?
Or would you see it differently?
Maybe you'd see it as just one more woman you had to get past to get to
the quality woman or women you're looking for.
Maybe you'd see it as just one more woman who blew her chances to be
with a high quality man like yourself.
Maybe you'd see it as a success because you had the balls to walk up to
a random attractive woman and say anything at all.
My point here is you can't let these little bumps in the road hurt your
motivation to continually be approaching the women you're attracted to.
And you must find legitimate ways to look at situations like this as
WINS, even though you didn't get your outcome (her number).
How many guys would feel hurt, and start beating themselves up after an
experience like this?
Quite a few, actually.
Maybe even YOU, if you were honest with yourself.
Or maybe not.
But you have to find ways of dealing with these situations that make
them no big deal.
Otherwise you'll stop taking action the instant you run across the first
woman who doesn't treat you squarely.
And not taking action is the ONLY WAY TO FAIL.
Let me put this in perspective for you, by sharing with you what
happened within literally 15 minutes of that last story:
I was at a gas station. I pull up to the pump, I look over and see this
absolute 10 at a nearby pump. She's Latin, thin, and drop dead gorgeous.
I know that "He Who Hesitates Is Lost," so before I even put my credit
card in the pump, I leave my car and walk over to this gorgeous woman.
And I tell her more or less that I think she's gorgeous.
Do you know what her reply was?
She said, "Really?"
She was honestly SURPRISED that a random gentlemen like myself would
walk straight up to her and say this.
And she was obviously VERY flattered by the compliment.
Small talk ensued. She was very warm and friendly, and now I have her
number.
I don't
share this story to say, "Yeah, look at what I did, I'm the bomb."
I share this story because the skills you need to learn to transform the
"Meeting Women" part of this whole game are very simple, once you "get"
them.
And, to relate back to the first story, if you don't develop a bit of
"thick skin" you will never take enough action to have the sort of
success I just had at the gas station.
Seriously dude:
What would you give to have a 10 act warm and friendly to you, and be
VERY open to giving you her number?
I bet you'd do just about anything. But what are you doing about it?
Odds are, hardly anything.
Well, I have a suggestion:
One thing you could do right now is to get off your butt and order my
damn ebook finally!
Yes, you will learn how to meet women in gas stations, as well as
grocery stores, malls, restaurants, wherever the hell you may find
yourself.
Yes, you will learn how to tease women, how to be sexual, etc., in ways
that make women are actually EAGER to see you again.
Yes, you will actually learn so many damn things I'm tired of typing and
refuse to list them all here!
But yes, best of all, right now you can get a free trial of the book for
two weeks.
Get all the details here:
www.anywomananywhere.com
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