What To Say When A Woman Won't Give You Her Number: Any Woman Anywhere by Dating Advice Guy

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Any Woman, Anywhere

Article by author of 'Any Woman Anywhere' [www.anywomananywhere.com]

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Developing the ability to meet women and get phone numbers is one of the most powerful things you can do to improve your success with women.

As I've said before, if you're not meeting women, you're not dating women either.

But most guys have it all wrong.

They don't plan on the fact that many women will give them objections to giving out their number or going on a date.

Don't make this mistake yourself. Otherwise you're going to freeze, and you'll have no idea of how to handle this situation.

And she'll simply WALK AWAY.

So preparing responses to objections will really help.

The ABSOLUTELY GREAT thing about objections is that they aren’t nearly as bad as most men think. You might have nightmares about women laughing in your face, or snickering to their friends, or basically making you feel about three inches tall.

This simply doesn’t happen. Rude women are usually hard to find, and usually the worst that happens is they’ll ignore you or look at you funny. This happens less than 10% of the time if you follow the steps I teach.

Objections are normal. Never take it personally when you hear one. Once you approach enough women and hear enough objections, you’ll become DESENSITIZED to them. They won’t sting so much. In fact, it’s likely you’ll get to the point of being able to handle them without missing a beat.

Most guys who are successful with women have had many wonderful experiences with women that wouldn't have happened had they not overcome at least one objection.

That’s one of the secrets:

ALWAYS attempt to overcome at least one objection.

Here's another secret:

Having a playful and lighthearted attitude toward objections improves your chances of success. When YOU have an easy-going attitude toward objections, it makes it easier for HER to have an easy-going attitude toward saying yes.

Often your willingness to try to overcome just one objection can make the difference between being alone, or having all sorts of fantastic experiences with a great woman.

In my book I have a complete list of the most common objections men get from women, and great responses to each one. Here I'll share with you just a couple:

Objection #1: “I don’t give out my number. Give me yours instead.”

If you give a woman YOUR number there’s less than a 10% chance that she will ever call (unless you’re Brad Pitt). Even if you’re getting a great vibe and you really believe she’s sincere when she tells you she’ll call, it just doesn’t matter. Women are conditioned NOT to pursue.

So unless she gives you hers in exchange, don’t give out your number. If you don’t have direct experience, and you doubt this, try giving out your number when you meet women, and see how many call you back.

So, you can say something like:

“It’s just a cell phone number, silly,” and then look at her as if you're expecting her to give you her number. When YOU have the attitude that her objection is silly, it helps HER see her objection as silly as well.

Along these same lines, you can say:

“I think we both know that a woman is very unlikely to call a man. So Sara, I’m a good guy, and if you ask me to never call you again, I won’t continue to call I promise. Don’t be silly.”

Here's another direct but playful approach:

“You know, I don’t give my number out because I know that nine times out of ten when a man gives a woman his number, she doesn’t call. So for this one time I’d like for you to bend your rule, just for little ole me. I promise I won’t call you more than twelve times a day. Scouts’ honor.”

Here's a direct, mature, being-totally-upfront approach (without any playfulness):

“Listen, let’s be honest. I think you’re absolutely gorgeous, and I’m interested in seeing you again. I want to know if you’re interested. If you are, great, give me your number and we’ll talk again, and if not, well that’s okay too.”

Or, you can set up a date right there on the spot:

“Not a problem. Let’s skip the phone altogether. I’ll meet you tomorrow evening at 6 p.m. at Starbucks. Here’s my number in case something comes up and can’t make it. Call me. Otherwise I’ll be there.”

Some women may be worried about you stalking her if she gives you her home number. In these cases, ask them for their cell phone number, not their home phone: “Well, if you’re worried about safety just give me your cell number.”

If they are REALLY worried about you stalking them, you might have to ditch going for a number altogether and just get an email instead: “Well, if you’re worried about safety just give me your email.”

YOU NEED AN EDUCATION

If you're looking at this newsletter and thinking that this advice makes sense, and that you you're not dating as often as you'd like, then you need to get an EDUCATION.

And you need to educate yourself in one or more of the following VERY important areas:

You need to learn how to get over your fear of approaching women, or...

You need to learn how to ask for numbers and suggest dates so women say yes, or...

You need to learn how to overcome objections, or...

You need to learn how to have dates that women will brag about to their friends the next day, or...

You need to learn what women want, how to build attraction, how to keep conversations going, how to make women laugh, how to take things physical...

and on, and on, and on.

And it doesn't matter if you're looking for one night stands, consistent dates, or a future wife. When you learn how to do these things masterfully, it'll help you achieve your goals with women...WHATEVER your goals may be.

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Every day I get emails from guys who are having more success with
women because they read the book, like this one:

"I had the greatest feeling ever..."
"Hey Dude, you got some of the best advice ever.

Today at the pizza palace down the street I saw this super hot woman, and all my buddies were teasing me saying "I bet you won't go talk to her."

I began to think about your advice, so I said "Screw it. What can I lose." I went up to her and made a comment on how cute she was, and she started to laugh and said "Oh really? Your cute too." Then I said "What did you say your name was?" and she said "Vanessa". I asked her for her number and she gave it to me, and before I could get up she grabbed my arm and said "Make sure you call me".

When I went to go sit down, my one friend said "Good job, nice going. She's hot," and I said "Yea I know that's why I went to go talk to her" like I didn't almost pee my pants! But even if I had peed my pants I had the greatest feeling ever. It was COOL MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!"

— V.R.

But hey, the book isn't for everyone. If you're not going to buy my book, do yourself a favor and take some other action to improve your skills with women. Because every day you don't get this part of your life handled is a day some other guy out there is having the success with women YOU want.

It could be you. But you must do something NEW to get NEW results. I hope this something new is investing in your skills by giving my book a fair try.
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