No
matter what happens, you are responsible for your own feelings of
rejection
Here we are going to discuss how to approach some women (out of more than 3 billion) and never feel rejected whatever her reaction may be.
The following is practical advice that you can start applying right now.
Yep, it's about taking action.
Prepare a sheet of paper to write down how you can apply these principles in your life.
Don't' fight the last war: Make Permanent Peace with Your Past
What's holding as back the most and brings us misery is the past. Unnecessary patterns of thinking, formulas that worked in the past and no longer apply and negative emotions that are automatically triggered without having any control over them.
You must consciously get rid of all this garbage that was accumulating over the years.
Trust me, there is a lot of it. And it manifests itself by having shyness, negative emotions that seem to come from nowhere and by a bad internal dialog that tells us that we are not worth enough.
From my experiences of helping people get rid over the fear to approach women I would say that the root cause of all of this is the first years of people's life.
This is the period when parents were withholding love, criticize the child or say to him all the time that he can't do what he wants to do. This starts a pattern that makes the child wanting to get the love that didn't receive it when he was little.
Of course, there are lots of other causes but it boils down to his first years of life.
The first step to getting rid of this emotional baggage is to try out the following technique to eliminate anxiety.
It takes less than 1 minute to apply it and you feel a change in your emotions immediately. Click here to start and apply it.
Live a life of abundance.
You have a choice: to live a life of scarcity or abundance. If you live a life of abundance you automatically attract in your life events and circumstances that give you more abundance.
This is also part of the reason why rich people get richer while poor people usually get poorer.
The cool thing is that that abundance comes from within. The first step is to acknowledge its importance.
The second step is to identify in yourself what do you get by living a life of scarcity.
The third step is to eliminate all this internal emotions and beliefs that make you feel and believe that you live in an universe that isn't abundant.
To get started on this road, just Click Here and start applying the following technique to get rid of your first negative emotion that keep you from feeling more abundant in your life.
Don't want anything from her or from the interaction
If you want to get something from her or the interaction this means that you are in lack.
Wanting something means not having. Coming from a place of being happy instead of trying to get it externally is much better.
This will let you have a much positive vibe. And it will make you also be a more and more integrated human being.
Also, if you think about it, hot women find themselves all the time in the position of people wanting things from them.
It's so much a relief for them to talk with someone that doesn't want anything from her except for enjoying the interaction & having fun.
Don't give her status and don't judge her
especially in the beginning of the
interaction
Don't suppose anything about her life before you actually get to know her life. When you see for the first time a hot woman, if you get into the habit of having a dialog like (oh, how hot she is. I bet she has all the guys at her feet.”, „She is too hot for me.”, „She is just too rich to be attracted to me”, „She can't feel attraction for me” etc.) you already lost the game.
In that moment you just gave your power to her. Remember, they are people as well. And most of them are less happy that you may think.
Life was never meant to be a struggle
Life is how you make it: easy or hard. If all the people around you are complaining that getting girls is hard, making money is hard, rejection is bad etc. This will color your perception.
If you think about it, having more people believing one thing doesn't make that thing more true than it is.
Start identifying what are your beliefs that are making you believe that this life has to be lived in struggle mode. It may be that you think that you have to work hard in order to get girls, that you need to be rich in order to have plenty of women around you etc.
Once you identified them, work to get rid of them because they have no use any more.
Everything is a game, take nothing personal
In other words, there is nothing too important. Stop getting too serious about things and enjoy the ride.
You can be at the same time playful and still getting results. Imagine that your entire life is just a play ground and a seminar of learning. This attitude will help you easily get immersed in the present moment and not being affected that much by her responses.
Always Do your Best and Do More than you are expected to do or you expect of yourself
If you do your best in every situation you cannot regret it. If you don't regret your life at all you are in peace. You are not trying all the time to get in your past and to change what happened.
If you do more than you are expected, you create a kind of energy that makes you feel more and more abundant. Also, people become more and more attracted to you because everyone wants to spend time with people that give positive energy to them instead of people that drain them of energy.
Put the last principles to use and they will work for you.
So far I helped tens of people to get rid of the fear to approach women. They get rid totally of this unnecessary fear also because I help them via email until there is no more anxiety when approaching women and no feelings of rejection.
To find out more about it, Click Here and start by applying a quick(less than 1 minute to apply) free technique to eliminate any anxiety.
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