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I want to share with you a few emails I've gotten from fans of my site which I find to be quite troubling...

Hi Thundercat,
When I would learn these openers and what to say the women instantly could smell that it is NOT ME who had originally these ideas. It wouldn't be myself who created these lines. They would reject me faster as I could imagine. So how should this whole thing work ???

Honestly Thundercat, if I would try one of these openers they would instantly laugh and reject me because they could smell that I learned these sentences. Thanks.

My Reply: This type of e-mail is not an isolated instance. I get many e-mails from guys saying things like:
"I like your tactics, but they won't work for me."
"If I tried something like this, I'd get laughed at and rejected."
"If I actually approached a woman with this material, I'd spontaneously combust, scanners-style."

Well, you get the idea...

When I e-mail these guys back asking if they've actually *bothered* to go out and try my techniques, the answers are usually always:
"No. I just KNOW it won't work."

Well, for those of you out there who think this way, I have a secret I want to share with you...


Seriously, most guys who have the toughest time with women think that no matter what they study, it won't work for them because their case is unique and different from every other guy out there.

Well, I'm here to tell you you're wrong.

I've learned through experience that most guys are not very different from each other, just as most girls aren't very different from each other. In fact, a friend of mine summed it up best when he said:
"All women are different. But not THAT different."

The same goes for us dudes.

We all have the same fears and insecurities. We just deal with them differently. Most guys deal by shutting down and not even trying to improve.

Rather, they take the easy way out and just blame the world, other women, their circumstances, etc.

They even blame themselves, yet they prefer to beat themselves up rather than take responsibility to IMPROVE their circumstance.

There's a name for that type of guy, and it's:

But the thing is, they don't have to stay that way. All it requires is a little hard work and effort on their part to CHANGE THEIR LIFE FOR THE BETTER!

In my book, The Art Of Approaching, I give you SPECIFIC tactics on how to take the bull by the horns and improve your social life.

The Art of ApproachingNo one says it's gonna be easy. You gotta do the work. But right now, I'm offering free support by email, so you'll have some support as you take this journey to improve your life!

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So that begs the question: How do you approach them?

The Art of ApproachingIn my book, "The Art of Approaching" I go into this subject in detail. Inside my book, you'll find:
--Specific stories guaranteed to start a conversation with any woman you meet.
--Funny one-liners to get her laugh right away!
--Tactics to easily get 10-12 numbers a night.
--A step-by-step guide that teaches you how to overcome any fear or nervousness you may have when it comes to meeting women!
--Much, much more...

At the very least, walk up to these women and say to them "Hi." But if you really want to SUPERCHARGE your ability to meet the kind of beautiful, interesting women you've always wanted, be sure to check out my ebook.

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