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I want to share with
you a few emails I've gotten from fans of my site which I find to be
quite troubling...
Hi Thundercat,
When I would learn these openers and what to say the women instantly
could smell that it is NOT ME who had originally these ideas. It
wouldn't be myself who created these lines. They would reject me
faster as I could imagine. So how should this whole thing work ???
Honestly Thundercat, if I would try one of these openers they would
instantly laugh and reject me because
they could smell that I learned these sentences.
This type of e-mail is not an isolated instance. I get many e-mails
from guys saying things like:
"I like your tactics, but they won't work for me."
"If I tried something like this, I'd get laughed at and rejected."
"If I actually approached a woman with this material, I'd
spontaneously combust, scanners-style."
Well, you get the idea...
When I e-mail these guys back asking if they've actually *bothered*
to go out and try my techniques, the answers are usually always:
"No. I just KNOW it won't work."
Well, for those of you out there who think this way, I have a secret
I want to share with you...
YOU ARE NOT A SPECIAL CASE!
Seriously, most guys who have the toughest time with women think
that no matter what they study, it won't work for them because their
case is unique and different from every other guy out there.
Well, I'm here to
tell you you're wrong.
I've learned through experience that most guys are not very
different from each other, just as most girls aren't very different
from each other. In fact, a friend of mine summed it up best when he
said:
"All women are different. But not THAT different."
The same goes for us dudes.
We all have the same
fears and insecurities. We just deal with them differently. Most
guys deal by shutting down and not even trying to improve.
Rather, they take the easy way out and just blame the world, other
women, their circumstances, etc.
They even blame themselves, yet they prefer to beat themselves up
rather than take responsibility to IMPROVE their circumstance.
There's a name for that type of guy, and it's:
L-O-S-E-R
But the thing is, they don't have to stay that way. All it requires
is a little hard work and effort on their part to CHANGE THEIR LIFE
FOR THE BETTER!