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Ask April: Profile Propriety

"Ask April" Author of the best selling, "Date Out Of Your League" AskApril.com
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Q: Dear April,
I've been on this internet dating site and meet this really great guy that I'm crazy about. We've been out on about six or seven dates, do you think it's time for me to take my picture and profile off the website? I'm not really interested in meeting any one else, and I don't want him to either. What do I do?
Signed,
Internet Dating Etiquette Challenged


A: Dear Internet Dating Etiquette Challenged,
Until a man asks you for an exclusive relationship, and you agree to have one—keep your profile up there!

Lesson #1: Understand and remember that men are competitive by nature. No one wants to date the person no one else wants. Would you?

Lesson #2: The worst thing you can do is to become too available and too predictable—someone he no longer has to pursue and win. Men like to feel that they have won the prize.

So, no, do not take your profile down. You keep it right where it is, until he asks you to take it down, or until he asks you for an exclusive relationship (and you agree to give it to him).

Think about it, would a man take his profile down just because he had half a dozen good dates with a woman? No way. I suggest you check out my new book Think & Date Like a Man...If you want to win with men, you need to understand how they think and you need to learn to date like they do.

Here's what a man would do in your shoes:

1. A man would keep his dating options open, and make sure he was taken care of.
2. A man wouldn't take his internet dating profile down unless he was sure he had what he wanted, and that it was a lock. Men don't like to lose.
3. A man wouldn't get involved too quickly, or take a relationship too seriously, too soon... and neither should you.

If you'd like to know more about the dos's, the don'ts, and the how to's of online dating, take a few moments to read Modern Mating and Internet Dating.

And while we're on the subject of online dating, check out the funniest, most exciting dating sites you've ever seen: DatingDemocrats.com and DatingRepublicans.com.

 

Ready for even more bold, brutally honest, and always helpful dating advice? Visit my Web site, www.Ask April.com There, you'll find informative articles, expert columnists, interactive quizzes, and free giveaways! And don't forget to also check out my workshops, designed to help you find you real "soul mate"!

 

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© 2003, 2004 April Masini

BRIEF BIO
April Masini is a recognized and award winning producer, author, columnist, motivational speaker, relationship and success expert—with politically incorrect twist. Sure to raise eyebrows, generate buzz … and INSPIRE RESULTS!

Standing 5 feet, 8 inches tall, with a lean 127-pound body, and 38-26-36 proportions, it's not hard to understand why April Masini's impressive list of accomplishments is not the first thing that pops into a guy's mind upon meeting her. But April is much more than a blonde bombshell.
Though she started off her career as a model and actress, April has moved on to become a persuasive public speaker and President/CEO of Masini Television & Film Enterprises, LLC in Honolulu, and Masini Enterprises, Inc. in Los Angeles.


On January 26, 2004, April's no-holds-barred advice book, "Date Out of Your League" hit the stands, causing controversy with her witty, well-endowed, naughty alter-ego, High Voltage Blonde, her brutally honest, uncensored advice, and her sometimes politically incorrect message.... But controversy quickly turned into interest, and then followings, when the most widely read newspapers, magazines, and Web sites, around the world, began seeking out April's comments, opinions, and expertise.

In fact, April became so popular that in February, 2004, "Ask April" was launched simultaneously on two of FORBES Magazine's "Best on the Web" winners, MillionaireMatch.com, who not only won with FORBES in 2003, but was also singled out by the WALL STREET JOURNAL; along with aLoveLinksPlus, who took FORBES top award in 2001 and 2002. Then "Ask April" jumped the Pacific with MyNippon.com the hugely popular Japanese site devoted to romance techniques.

When April isn’t writing, this former model/actress is leading seminars, guest lecturing, or dedicating her time to Masini Enterprises—her multifaceted television and film production company whose accomplishments have been recognized, record-breaking, and award winning, with strong connections to everything from "Baywatch" and "Blue Crush" to "LifeStyles of the Rich & Famous" and "The Miss Universe Pageant."

 

 

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