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Five signs that when
you’re talking to her in person she will say yes when you ask her
for a date.
Dear
Reader,
The biggest hurdle most guys have about asking a woman for a date is
their own self-confidence; their own fear of being rejected. Once
you can conquer that fear of women you can ask anything of anyone.
Look at yourself and how you talk with other men. Basically you
treat other men you talk to as equals. I have to ask, are women that
different?
No, they aren’t.
Once you can speak with women honestly, comfortably and as an equal,
your personal success with women will skyrocket.
And, as a bonus, you’ll be able to ask her for a date within minutes
of walking up to her and starting a conversation.
Now that
we’ve got that out of the way:
THE FACTS
A woman’s body language will tell you when it’s the right time to ask her
for a date.
Small touches on the arm, on your shoulder. When she’s standing facing you,
she’ll pull her shoulders back, chest forward, and arms open at her sides or
if she’s seated her arms will be comfortably placed on the table, maybe
apart, maybe with fingers playing with her fingers or hair.
A woman will look at you, in the eyes, and turn her head downward. Then up
again, to be certain you’re still there, showing interest in her
Crossed arms are a sign of defense, she’s protecting her from you. Use
humorous, cocky conversation at this time to relax her. Looking away, over
your shoulder or twisting away to look behind herself or away from you are
also defense and defiance body language motions. You’re not gaining any
attraction points here, you may have to take a walk and try again later. But
don’t give up, just give her a “pause” from you.
When a woman is defensive or defiant, she’s looking for a better catch, a
more interesting man.
By taking a “pause” from her you’ll allow her the space and time she needs
to confirm to herself that you are the right catch.
THE
FIVE SIGNS
Watch her body language for these signs:
Eyes looking at yours, quickly, then looking down for a short time,
then back at you;
Small touches to your arm, shoulder or hand;
Sitting close together she’ll brush her leg against yours, slightly,
not hard;
Laughing with you as you make jokes and actively responding to your
conversation;
Keeping her arms in an open posture, playing with her hair, fingers,
straightening her clothes, the glass on the table and other open,
nervous, preening movements.
FINAL COMMENT
Within a few minutes of getting the “green light” of her body
language you should be asking for your first date. A simple
get-together for a coffee or snack within the next three days. And
don’t forget to her phone number or email to follow-up with her on
the second day to confirm the date!
Have a great time!
Rob.
Dear Reader,
Over the years I've had the opportunity to read many "self-help"
books that deal with a variety of situations that occur between men
and women. Please take a moment and visit these suggested websites, where applicable:
For Women
For Men
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