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If you have serious doubts of commitment, follow your heart and take a step back from the relationship.
Dear Rob,
I fell for a guy, he’s my classmate then. He courted me this summer, then he became my boyfriend unexpectedly because something happened unexpectedly too.
The first time he was my boyfriend, I didn’t feel that he loved me. He say’s “I love you to” me, but that’s the only sweet thing I can see about him and I’m usually the first one to say that to him. We broke up after 8 days because he said that he still loves his ex girlfriend and I got really hurt because of that.
Then after awhile I forgot him because he doesn’t text me anymore. Then my friend talked to him, so my friend got his attention and he suddenly thought to text me.
When he started to text me again we became close friends until he started to court me again, after 1 month I agreed to be his girlfriend again.
Now that we’re together again I can feel that he really loves me.
Then he told me the truth that the first time we were together he didn’t really love me then I told him that he made me look silly in front of him back then. Then he said sorry to me about what he did. So now, whenever we fight I feel sad that I think that we should just break up.
I want us to stay together long but the only problem is his attitude. He also said that he only wanted us to be together for every summer not when there is school.
Hi,
You don’t need this loser dragging you around do you?
He’s already said what the ground rules are for your relationship, and you don’t like them.
Dump him and you may feel a little loss from him not being with you but trust me, he’s just using you and he’s said so to your face.
Follow your heart, end this now.
Best wishes,
Rob.
PS
Real couples don’t argue about petty things like the two of you do, it’s immature and unhealthy.
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