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Ask Rob! The
Advice General Not wanting a girlfriend means he's looking for a shallow, short-term relationship when you want to have more. You won't change him, don't fall into that trap!
Dear
Rob, I've become good friends with this guy in such a short period of time, since the beginning of my school year basically. I've gotten to know him better and I started having feelings for him. When I told him about it, he said he didn't want a girlfriend because this is our last year of high school and he wanted to have fun. My friends get confused because every time I'm with him he flirts with me and they think he likes me. I let the whole "I like him" thing go, I tried moving on and forget everything. A few months ago, there was this joke about us sleeping together when we go to NY with our school, I didn't think he was serious but he was. A few days before Valentines day, he said he'd be my boyfriend for the day because he knew I didn't like that day since I'm single, and as a joke I said to him "What are you getting me for Valentine's day?" and he said, a big kiss. Anyways to get to my point, he kissed me on Valentines day after school but I didn't think he'd do it. When I had asked him, "where's my kiss" I was laughing so when he kissed me I laughed. On instant messenger later that night, he was complaining because we didn't do it right. He wants to redo that kiss sometime this week. I am really confused, I don't know if this guy is just using me to get in bed with him or if he really likes me. He
talks to me as if he does like me, but then again when I look at him
with other girls, he flirts with them as much as he does with me.
The thing that I don't understand is, why would he kiss me if I
wouldn't mean anything to him? Why would he even want to redo the
kiss? I really like this guy, I don't want to be just a ticket in
bed. Do you think there's any hope or is he just leading me on?
Hi Jill,
Dear Reader, For Women
For Men
* Rob is not a professional counselor, just
someone that wants to help. His advice and opinions are his own and
should be treated as advice that can be followed or ignored. He'll
give you the best advice his experience allows. And you'll have
someone that'll listen to your troubles without being too
judgmental. And if you don't like his answers, just delete them! *
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