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Don't ask out a girl
that's currently dating. Homewreckers and cheaters aren't
particularly welcome in the real world.
Dear
Rob,
I have this friend and her name is "Girl".
She is like my best friend but I've been wanting to go out with her
ever since I met her but she already has a boyfriend named "Jeff"
and I can see she is not really happy with him.
And if I ask her out and she says no what will that do to our
friendship.
Should I ask her out or not? And if I do, then how?
Sincerely,
Wanting to be more than just friends
Hi Wanting,
No, you do not ask her out since she's already dating. I'd suggest
getting yourself an available girl to date. Look around and stop
being so focused on one girl.
Maybe, just maybe, if she sees you dating someone else, or she does
break up with her current boyfriend, you can step in and ask her
out.
But with her dating someone else, and you supplying the emotional
support and friendship she can't get from him, she's got an easy
life.
Always, if you want to date a friend that's already dating someone
else, you have to step back and give her the chance to miss you.
Stop being her support that she isn't getting from her current
boyfriend and if there is anything real between both of you she'll
see it and break up with the guy she's dating currently.
Once she realizes that you're not as available as you were, and she
asks you why, you can tell her honestly that you want to be more
then friends and it's not right for you to be involved as a friend,
and wanting more, while she's dating someone else.
She will appreciate your honesty and she just might dump that other
guy. But it won't happen while you're hanging around, that's for
sure. And to make a move while she is involved with someone is just
pathetic.
Best wishes,
Rob.
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