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Dear Rob,
I
have been in a relationship for the last 11 months. Things have been
real rocky lately! I love her but sometimes I wonder if she loves
me? She says she does.
She says that I play with myself at night when I am a sleep. But
when I wake up she is the one doing it.
I don’t know what happened when I am asleep. This has affected our
love life we used to be very active and now she says she doesn’t
want to anymore.
She says she is about to leave me. I know she has been less than
truthful to me. She has problems with talking to me and hides a lot
of stuff from me.
Friday night she went out with some friends and never came home she
texted me that she was on her way home about 2am and never came
home. No call or anything!
I was so worried I went to look for her and was about to call the
police and check the hospitals when I checked the other apartment
her van was there but she wasn’t.
Saturday she said she is going to get something to eat but got a new
pack of smokes from the freezer and called about 15 minutes after
she left and said she was going to meet some friends and would be
home tonight.
She is always getting calls and flowers from other men! She says
that I am flirting and etc., with woman I work with but I try to
assure her that I am not. I know I look and have gotten better about
not looking according to her. Recently she has said I love you and
her ex-husband's name while sleeping and or drunk sleeping.
Please help!!!!!
Totally confused!!!
Hi
Totally Confused,
First off, you're not confused you just
need direction, so here's what you do:
Break up with her.
If she's not cheating on you already she's seriously considering it.
Move on before more bad things happen.
Hold your head high knowing that you're better than being treated
the way she is treating you.
No one deserves being lied to, and everything else that is happening
to you.
Take the initiative: get rid of her first.
Let her be the one that misses you.
Enjoy the single life for a while, have fun this summer.
If you can keep a level head you'll find someone special, some one
that won't cheat on you, soon enough.
When your girl starts getting gifts from other guys, when she's
spending more time out with friends that with you and when she
starts lying to you about what she is doing and where she is going
the warning signs are loud and clear. She's leaving you, her
interest in you is gone and now she's just looking for an excuse or
a safe place to land after your relationship breaks up, which is
happening sooner rather than later.
When relationships start to become too comfortable, too predictable,
and your partner starts to look outside the relationship for
excitement, you need to make some changes.
It's time for a serious talk about the direction the both of you are
headed in and I won't be at all surprised that she tells you that
she's grown away from you, fallen out of love.
And prepare yourself to be single, because that is what I see in
your future. Which is a good thing, because you deserve much better!
Best wishes,
Rob.
Dear Reader,
Over the years I've had the opportunity to read many "self-help"
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