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Ask Rob! The
Advice General When a woman is engaged to be married, all the fooling around should have stopped then and there. If she forces you to give her permission to continue this behavior, it's time to end the friendship before you're also sucked into her lies.
Dear
Rob, At the same time she is also with another man anytime she is not with her fiancé. They go out on dates, they have sex, they do the sweet sappy love letters and text messages to each other. He even bought her a star for Christmas and spent another $300 on her for a spa treatment package. She says that she loves this guy dearly and cannot imagine the rest of her life without him. So I am stuck in the middle of helping her plan her wedding with her fiancé while she is also in love with this other guy. She says she wishes she could just have them both and not have to make a decision. She says she knows its wrong but she just can't stop "When I'm with this guy I just can't tell him no". What is a best friend to do? I can't tell her anything, she won't hear it. I tried to tell her that I don't want to be a part of it anymore, that I can't sit down with her and help her plan her wedding while she is also telling me about being with this other man. But after telling her that she doesn't want to be friends anymore. She says I'm judging her and abandoning her and that I'm just a fair-weather friend. I
don't know what else to do. It breaks my heart to see her do this to
herself and to her loved one(s). Should I just chalk this up to a
friend lost? You
have tried to talk to your friend, your "Maid of Honor" about her
cheating ways, to no avail. When your best friend starts to cheat in their romances and you're aware of it, it's time to lay down the laws of your friendship, tell your best friend to make the necessary changes to their life or lose your friendship. She has put you in an impossible position. No doubt when her life crashes around her and she loses one or both of the men in her life she will come crying to you for consolation. This is no longer your place. You
must end your friendship and let her ruin her own life without
dragging you into her sordid mess of a life. You
are not a fair-weather friend, she's placing her own selfish
interests ahead of everyone else in her life.
Dear Reader, For Women
For Men
* Rob is not a professional counselor, just
someone that wants to help. His advice and opinions are his own and
should be treated as advice that can be followed or ignored. He'll
give you the best advice his experience allows. And you'll have
someone that'll listen to your troubles without being too
judgmental. And if you don't like his answers, just delete them! *
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