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My Girlfriend Is On Social Networks - Should I Worry?

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Any type of pre-occupation that takes time away from your relationship can be a concern, but just keep communication with her, join her online worlds of fun and you'll be fine.

Dear Rob,
I want to ask so many questions but I’ll start with what I think may be a simple one.

What are your thoughts on the ‘social networking’ sites and their impact on relationships.

My fiancée has stated she is on them only for friends and networking and we are not listed as together on these sites.

She maintains it's for work, her art and such.

I’ve just heard too many stories of these sites having a negative impact on relationships because of the fantasy cyber world it creates and she has even mentioned her ‘cyber world’.

Should I be concerned?
Jeff.

Hi Jeff,
As long as she’s honest with you, I wouldn’t be concerned at all… my wife is on a few and likes to connect with people that we otherwise wouldn’t be in touch with.

Keep the lines of communication open and don’t get jealous… although she should note that she’s “Taken” somewhere in her profile.

But I do suggest that if she talks about her social networking friends you suggest that the three, or four, of you get together for a pub night or a dinner somewhere.

Become a part of her online life and worries will melt away.
Best Wishes,
Rob.


 

 

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