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You have to match your
interest in her with her interest in you. If she's ignoring you to
be with other male friends, you don't have a chance.
Dear
Rob,
I read some of your work and enjoy your advice.
I'm in what I call complicated relationship which I thought could
work out on my own, which is not working so I need your advice.
I met this girl just over four months ago and fell head over heels.
I never let this happen to myself before, needless to say I was kind
of enjoying the single life since my last relationship two years
old.
The first couple months were great getting to know each other and
talked very openly to how we felt for each other, it was going
great. Then she got to a unsure place which again we talked about
and sorted out, so I thought. She told me she was still very much
interested just to take things a little slower. Her career means a
lot along with spending time with her friends.
I realize this because she's younger and I feel the same way for my
own needs. There is a five year difference in age between us, myself
being older which doesn't bother either of us. I guess I'm to the
point were I'm confused to how much I should chase her. A couple
years ago I would of been gone knowing that it takes two and not
wanting to waste each others time.
The problem now is I never dated a girl I liked this much before,
never knew I could like a girl this much. Again from what she tells
me she feels the same way.
We went out for New Year's Eve a couple of days ago and she ignored
me most of the night hanging out with her guy friends, which I've
never met.
She didn't give me a chance even to be around her, I spent the night
with two of her friends while she danced and chatted it up. The
night ended earlier for me with a kiss, hug and a drive safely home
for we live an hour away from each other.
I haven't spoken to her since. I could go on much longer but I hope
this is enough for your judgment.
So their it is Rob what do you think. Thanks for your time of
reading my problem.
Hi,
That is one sad story.
You’ve offered her so much, and so she could be a good friend, she told you
the same things.
But let me tell you, her interest in you is nowhere near what yours is in
her.
By her ignoring you on New Year’s Eve, she was screaming loud and clear
“Leave me alone!” you just couldn’t hear it because you’re so wrapped up in
your own feelings about how she should feel for you.
That’s right, you like her and you think she likes you, more than is really
happening.
I wouldn’t bother calling her again. She’ll just use you for another drive
somewhere so she can meet up with the guy’s that really has her interest.
The hug and kiss on New Year's Eve? That was the clincher. She’s done with
you.
Best wishes,
Rob.
Dear Reader,
Over the years I've had the opportunity to read many "self-help"
books that deal with a variety of situations that occur between men
and women. Please take a moment and visit these suggested websites, where applicable:
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