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Ask Rob! The
Advice General
Dear Reader, I am often asked to give advice concerning getting back together with someone you've broken up with. My first and only answer is "Stay single". Don't get back with them. You broke up for a reason and if the reason was valid there really is nothing that person can do to make things right. He/she may apologize and you may forgive... but that shouldn't lead to restarting your relationship. And if you broke up for a bad reason, that tells me that you (or they) can't really handle a mature relationship and you/they should be single until a new level of maturity is attained. Teens have it tough and here is one such letter (edited for clarity):
Rob, My friends give me advice but it's not good enough for me. Well you see I'm already in a relationship.... and I have been with him a time before this. He did me real dirty and we ended up breaking up...well at first I thought it was the end and that I'd give anything to have him back. so I distanced myself from him and it took him 2 months but he came back begging for a 2nd chance. Being the good person with a KIND heart I said yes. Well its only been 3 weeks and I don't feel the same!?!?! A friend who'd been through the same problem as me said it took her sometime to feel the same when her and her boyfriend got back together... but 3 weeks seems to long!!!! I don't want to break up with cause I still care, I just cant respect him any more!!! But there's also something other then that I forgot to say :-) There's this one guy at school, and I'm not that type of girl who cheats but he always stares at me... and it looks like he wants to say something but never does. I find him to be so interesting. lol That's how I felt about my boyfriend before all this. But all he ever does is smile and looks at me. He has said about 18 words to me but do you think I should work things out with my boyfriend or go talk to the guy at school???
Hi,
Dear Reader, For Women
For Men
* Rob is not a professional counselor, just
someone that wants to help. His advice and opinions are his own and
should be treated as advice that can be followed or ignored. He'll
give you the best advice his experience allows. And you'll have
someone that'll listen to your troubles without being too
judgmental. And if you don't like his answers, just delete them! *
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