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Dear Reader,
Raging lust can drive inexperienced people to make mistakes in
their relationships. Age really doesn't matter although this is
usually more of a problem with the hyper-hormone set.
I
am often asked to give advice concerning getting back together
with someone you've broken up with. My first and only answer is
"Stay single".
Don't get back with them. You broke up for a reason and if the
reason was valid there really is nothing that person can do to
make things right. He/she may apologize and you may forgive...
but that shouldn't lead to restarting your relationship.
And if you broke up for a bad reason, that tells me that you (or
they) can't really handle a mature relationship and you/they
should be single until a new level of maturity is attained.
Teens have it tough and
here is one such letter (edited for clarity):
Rob,
Look I need your help, I don't know what to do any more.
My friends give me
advice but it's not good enough for me. Well you see I'm already in
a relationship.... and I have been with him a time before this. He
did me real dirty and we ended up breaking up...well at first I
thought it was the end and that I'd give anything to have him back.
so I distanced myself from him and it took him 2 months but he came
back begging for a 2nd chance. Being the good person with a KIND
heart I said yes.
Well its only been 3
weeks and I don't feel the same!?!?!
A friend who'd been
through the same problem as me said it took her sometime to feel the
same when her and her boyfriend got back together... but 3 weeks
seems to long!!!!
I don't want to break up
with cause I still care, I just cant respect him any more!!! But
there's also something other then that I forgot to say :-)
There's this one guy at
school, and I'm not that type of girl who cheats but he always
stares at me... and it looks like he wants to say something but
never does. I find him to be so interesting. lol
That's how I felt about
my boyfriend before all this. But all he ever does is smile and
looks at me. He has said about 18 words to me but do you think I
should work things out with my boyfriend or go talk to the guy at
school???
Hi,
You need to break up with this guy.
AND stop being so dependent.
If you value yourself only by the guy you're going out with you're
going to have a lot of heartache.
My suggestion:
Break up with boyfriend number one.
Ignore the guy that's staring at you.... sounds freaky to me and
just because a guy makes eyes at you you're considering changing
your boyfriends?
UGH!
Stay single until the week before Valentine's Day and see who comes
after you.
Feel free to date anyone BUT the guy you broke up with.
Never give a guy a second chance.
Best wishes,
Rob.
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that'll listen to your troubles without being too judgmental.
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