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I would think that
your streak of good luck is just beginning.
Dear
Rob,
Well I've got a problem as everybody who writes to you has got. Let
me tell you the whole story.
I know a
girl, for something about 3 years, and I always liked her, since the first
time I've saw her. But, along these years she was always dating... And
reading some of your answers I realize I've done a lot of wrong things, but
it doesn't matter now, what matters is that now she's available.
But the
problem is that I was always her friend, because I couldn't be more than it.
And even liking her I always date other girls, trying putting her out off my
mind, never worked, but I was trying at least.
And now, when
I really believe I just forgot her she comes with that and tells me she love
me. Not like, love.
And I just
don't know what to do. Because nobody has ever told me that. And because of
it, she is more and more present in my life, like sending me e-mails,
calling... keeping in touch, and to make things worse even more in one of
these flirt times I told that I love her too. But I don't know if that's
really truth, she is hot but now I can have it, it doesn't see that huge.
And, some
times I just feel like I'm a stupid for don't enjoy this wave of luck, but
I've already tried to kiss her when I had the opportunity but I couldn't,
you just couldn't. And I don't want to be a mean guy.
So... What
should I do? I now it's complicated, but... What do you think?
Henry
P.S.: Just to
let you know... You're getting famous... I'm from Brazil, Rio de Janeiro to
be honest. Can you believe it? Internet it's swell.
Dear Henry,
I would think that your streak of good luck is just beginning.
It's not all that complicated:
The girl you wanted for 3 years is suddenly available, even tells
you that she loves you, and suddenly you're just not that interested
in her anymore.
Happens all the time. The chase was more fun that the winning.
Now that you're
available, she's available, what is your next step?
Well, you date her. Slowly. Grow your interest with her again.
Moving from the friendship arena into the lover's room is a big
step. So my advice to you is go slowly.
Date her but start
with the casual things that you both have done before, now just do
them only the two of you. Go for walks, go and have meals together.
Don't force the relationship ahead too fast. You have a real
advantage starting this relationship since you are both comfortable
together.
Keep things comfortable.
And avoid talks of past relationships, OK?
If you're still not sure then I'd come right out and ask her about
why she wants a relationship with you.
Put all of your cards on the table and just ask her.
Bare your feelings too. But just enough to keep her talking.
Don't wussy out again and start trading "I Love You's" until you're
more along in your romance, if that is where this leads you, OK?
Best Wishes,
Rob.
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