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She Smiles Back, Now What?
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Ask Rob! The
Advice General
Once you make the connection it's time
to act. Get her number or email and move forward with your plan for
that first date. Don't wait for her to act. Women want to be chased
not expected to make the first moves!
Dear Rob, We used to work in the same shopping complex and a co-worker told her my feelings. She reacted and showed interest towards me by coming to the place I worked as I was a checkout operator she would come to me for service. But we never speak spoke as I was too shy and we usually just smiled to each other. This went on for a while until we didn't see each other, however she went to the same church for mass as me. I moved on with life went out with a few girls, and 7 years later I am now single again. I've joined this bible study to get closer to God and meet new people. Now I have started to see Anya at mass and decided to go up to her after mass as I built up the confidence because I didn't want to die wondering of what could have been, so I spoke to her briefly and said things such as "it's taken me 7 years to build up the courage to speak to you". The rest was small talk, however I invited her to this bible study and gave her my phone number. She called me 5 days later and said "Ray to be honest bible study isn't my thing", I said that was cool but "I would really like to take you out sometime" she laughed and I said "don't be shy you have my number" and she laughed. That was it,
2 weeks ago, should I chase her up next time I see her at mass, or
let her call me and ask me out or should I take her as not calling
me as not being interested?
Hi Billy, Make
the call if you have her number or talk to her about getting
together the next time you see her. Be sure you have a place and a
time available to ask her out. Don't call or talk to her without a
plan. And keep the call/talk short and to the point. You just want a
date, not a life story, at this point. The
first date can be another, more intense coffee, a lunch or maybe
even a dinner. My personal preference has been to do something
unique. Sure everyone needs to eat, but have you gone bowling
lately? Strolled through a local museum? Minigolf? Window gift
shopping? Even take your camera for some lakeshore photographs?
Maybe even a walk in a busy area of town to 'people watch'. The idea
here is that everyone eats, but you don't have to feed her. Try
something different and you'll score much better on her interest
gauge.
Dear Reader, For Women
For Men
* Rob is not a professional counselor, just
someone that wants to help. His advice and opinions are his own and
should be treated as advice that can be followed or ignored. He'll
give you the best advice his experience allows. And you'll have
someone that'll listen to your troubles without being too
judgmental. And if you don't like his answers, just delete them! *
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