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Ask Rob! The
Advice General Hanging in the background waiting for the right time to ask a girl out makes no sense. You've got to take the first step and ask her now. And be sure to have a plan!
Dear
Rob, I
never used to be very social, and she barely even knows I exist. I
have never really been one of the popular kids, like she is. I have
liked her since grade 6, and I asked her out in grade 8, only to be
put down. I've tried so many times to get over her but I'm finding
it too hard. I am considering asking her to the movies or something
sometime soon, but I don't know how I should go about doing this.
Second, if she happens to say yes, how could I go about transportation? I don't have my G2 yet, nor do I have a car anyways. I'd feel pretty humiliated showing up in a cab, but is that what I should do? I
also tend to run out of things to say when I'm with girls. I ask
about what music they like, if they have pets, and other things like
that, but I still seem to run out of topics. I don't have trouble
saying things, only if I already know what it is I want to say.
Hi Lonely Boy, But it is you and only you that has to make the first step. Maybe as an ice-breaker you can ask her if she has a MySpace page, then you can check that out and leave comments for her to read. Nice things. You might ask her for some study help for a class test you both have. If you have after school sports or other activities that you can invite her to come and watch you play/do, then that is also a great opener for you. Then,
meet her again and have a short date somewhere, shopping is best.
Leave going to a movie for the second or third date you have with
her. Keep things simple, activities that you both can do together. Ask
your mom or dad about their first dating experiences, how to ask her
out, etc. With their help you may be able to arrange for them to
give you rides. But if a cab is the solution, so be it. Better than
picking her up on your skateboard or bike, right? Never ask for a date through IM, or email unless it's like the 5th or 6th date. You need face-to-face communication to ask for the first few dates. And if she says no, ask a different girl. Jealousy works well with teen girls and if she sees the fun she's missing out by rejecting you and the success you're having with other girls, she'll quickly line up to date you. Best
Wishes,
Dear Reader, For Women
For Men
* Rob is not a professional counselor, just
someone that wants to help. His advice and opinions are his own and
should be treated as advice that can be followed or ignored. He'll
give you the best advice his experience allows. And you'll have
someone that'll listen to your troubles without being too
judgmental. And if you don't like his answers, just delete them! *
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