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Dear Reader,
Life involves meeting people. Meeting
people usually, at some point, will involve dating. Dating, whether you
like to admit it or not, will involve breaking up, or at the minimum, no
more dating a specific person.
Yes, life is hard.
Yes, life will involve telling someone
"Hey, I don't want to date you anymore!"
Yes, for every prince there are a
thousand frogs. For every princess there are a thousand witches. For
every "Leave me alone!" situation there is an answer.
Here are my suggested ways to breakup,
stop dating, get yourself back to the single person, "I'm not with you
anymore" state that you've been craving:
You're in a different place
than I want to be
- Of course, you mean being together - but you describe it as
different career goals, different family goals... heck, maybe even
different music styles. Change what you listen to will hasten the
departure, sometimes. Changing what you eat can have the same
abrasive effect. Yes, you used to like steak, but now? - Nothing
with a face - see you later, dater!
Something smells funny
- For your first 3 dates, at a minimum, everything smells great. Now
it's time to move on ... allergies are active, sneezing and watery
eyes are happening. Could you be allergic to everything the other
person is wearing? Perfumes, deodorants, laundry soap? How much will
they change before you can flee back into the single life. Invest in
some glycerin for the watery eyes (available in most drug stores)
and some fiber from your furnace filter for an effective scratching
material that will look like hives when rubbed against the skin.
Can you forget that much and
still be a functioning person?
- Organization is the life-blood of social living in these hectic
times. You have your cell-phone, your PDA, your computer calendar
program. You always know when to be where. But, if you forget
things... miss dates, phone calls, burn stuff on the oven, your
dating value will crash like the last 'Black Thursday' stock market
crash. You may want to read this again so you don't forget it.
So here you have it. The recommended
things to say to a date, so you don't have to date them anymore.
Remember what you've read here today.
You're now ready to be single again.
Go, be single.
Best wishes,
Rob.
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