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*** Question From An Ebook
Reader ***
Dear
David:
I have been using the techniques like C&F and have had a huge success.
Honest to God, i now have several girls on the ropes, and i have the luxury
of choosing my choice. It is wonderful. You are a genius. (i figured your
ego needed a little boost)
Now i have a situation on my hands. There is a new girl at my workplace, who
is very attractive and funny. We get along great. The other day i told her
about a concert that i am going to and she begged me, not just begged but
pleaded with me to get her a ticket. Then within the next 5 minutes she was
asking me for my number and email address. That is right asking me. I made a
smart remark along the lines of "I've only been training you for 3 days and
you are already hitting on me, damn that has to be a new record...(dramatic
pause) Most girls only take a couple of minutes to see my un-resistable
charm." I realize it isn't the greatest line ever but it worked. She was all
over it. And retorted with "I always was the stubborn one." So now she is
emailing me, and calling me and always talking to me and flirting with me at
work. So far so good, here is where the problem kicks in. The other night i
am walking out from work and locking the building and she looks over rolls
her eyes, and sighs that her boyfriend is here to pick her up. the next day
she came to work and was telling me that she and her boyfriend are going to
be breaking up soon and she doesn't know when. What do i do? I mean to me
all the signs are there, how do i field this one? Do i even DARE field this
one? HELP
n.s ND
>>>David D:
OK, two rules of thumb:
1. Don't dip your pen in the company ink.
2. Avoid women who are involved.
Why? Because it's usually just plain short-sighted to do these things.
Some boyfriends are jealous and crazy, and if a workplace romance goes bad
(which they usually do), then it can create all kinds of weird vibes. Trust
me.
I have to comment, though... you're technique and flirting is FANTASTIC.
You're really onto something with this line of humor. I love it.
*** Question From An Ebook
Reader ***
Hey Dave, well, like everyone else that's written I must say your book
helped, even before when I read your letters every week they helped. I've
had a lot of success. Well I would of never expected myself to email you,
cause there was really no point, cause your book helped a lot, but sadly...
that day has come, where I need help.. oh yes. Ok, Thanks to you I got jiggy
with it, got girls, but I fell head over heels with this one girl. Make a
long story short. I went out with her, she'd always have fun, but still I
wasn't always at my full potential cause she was the one that made me feel
all tingly inside and I had just gotten your book. But, there was this one
occasion where I listened to my friend.. he said "tell her you like her"..
but I knew I shouldn't cause you always say never tell a girl you like them.
Well, you guessed it. I told her that. And everything started going down
hill after that. And to make matters worse, I finished everything off with
her, and well said some things I regret. After that happened and tried to
forget about her, but she IMed me once saying she wanted to give me back
something I had given her for her birthday, but she didn't want to give it
to me personally. Still had fun teasing her, but nothing. Then I went out
with some girls got #'s to keep my mind off her. Went on vacation. but
nothing. 2 months without her drove me crazy, so I emailed her a couple
times 3 to be exact. Made them as cocky and funny as they could be. But no
cigar. Now I'm just doomed. Sure people have told me to move on, and
probably you'll say that. But I've tried, but I feel like she's the one. But
she despises me, or so I think. So Dave, is there something you can tell
this grasshopper to try get her back or try to do to I don't know.. it's
tough though.
Sincerely,
B.
>>>MY COMMENTS:
Ouch.
As you know, you've done a VERY VERY VERY bad thing...
YOU TURNED INTO A WUSSY!
Here's your homework:
Take out an entire blank notebook full of paper and write the following by
hand:
"I will not act like a WUSSY. I will not act like a WUSSY. I will not act
like a WUSSY."
When you've filled the notebook you may stop.
Get it?
WOMEN AREN'T ATTRACTED TO WUSSIES.
And of course you've gone and made the situation worse with each move you've
made... probably to the point where there's not much you're going to be able
to do about it.
Just get on with your life, and let this be a lesson to you and anyone
reading this. Don't act like a WUSSY! Don't tell a woman you "like" her too
early on. Don't call her too often. Don't act clingy and needy. STOP THAT!
When you act like a Wuss, women lose their ATTRACTION for you... and they
can't even explain why it's happening.
So stop that!
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*** Question From A Newsletter
Reader ***
Hi David,
I was wondering if you could offer any wisdom on what you've gained from
writing and responding to online personal ads. I'm not having a great deal
of luck so far. Specifically, my questions are:
1. How brief should your descriptions of yourself and/or your ideal catch
be? I've heard it said that "brevity is the soul of wit", but you also want
to be memorable, right?
2. When writing descriptions, should you stick with C&F? I've noticed that
humor often doesn't translate well in written form, so I wasn't sure how to
go about all that.
3. I think I read in a previous newsletter that you recommend not posting a
picture. At the same time, I tend to avoid ads without pictures due to
having one too many blind dates which ended with me throwing a stick and
shouting "fetch!" in order to distract her long enough to get away. Don't
you think that by committing a picture on your ad, women might pass you up
for the same reason? Or am I mistaken?
An apprentice,
J.
>>>David's Comments:
You've asked some questions that really require more of an in-depth
treatment... but here are a few pointers that have taken me YEARS to figure
out:
1) You'll get more responses in general by replying to personal ads placed
by women than you will by placing your own ad (Unless you're a master of
writing personal ads).
2) If you're going to use the personals, look at the new ads that are placed
daily, and respond as soon as a woman places her ad. Attractive women
typically get 50-100 responses per DAY to personal ads, and it's very easy
to get overwhelmed. You'll notice that a lot of women take their ads down
after just a few days... this is why.
3) Be charming and funny (also known as COCKY and funny) in your replies (or
in your ad, if you write your own). Say things like "I was looking through
all these ads here on the internet thinking to myself "Look at all the poor,
desperate, lonely women..." and then I saw your ad and thought to myself
"Hey, here's a poor, desperate, lonely woman that's actually CUTE..." so I
thought I'd write and see if you're as interesting on the inside as you are
in this picture..."
4) I mentioned in one of recent newsletters that I got an email from a guy
who had his picture taken with some dolphins... and that he's getting tons
of responses from that. I've never done it myself, but it sounds like a
great idea!
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