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So long as I have been a syndicated writer for singles on dating,
for the life of me I cannot understand why so many men simply can’t
ask a woman, “Do you have a boyfriend?” It’s as if he will be
perceived as weak or something. Do you think it is? I got a little
bit of news for you…IT ISN’T! You think that, not the women. It’s an
assumption that’s all wrong.
Your buddy may say, “Well, just ask her out. Why do you even have to
ask her if she has one?”
I already know what you’re thinking: “Well, then I will feel really
awkward if she does have one.”
Ok, if you can’t seem to get over this little hump, you can try
interjecting a question into the conversation, like, “What does your
boyfriend think about that?” or, “Is your boyfriend here? I don’t
want to get you into trouble?” and then give her a big smile.
Assume she has a boyfriend, and interject such questions.
She may ask, “What makes you think I have one?” Come back with
something along this line, “Well, you are so easy to talk with, and
you seem really nice, so I just naturally assumed. … You mean you
don’t have one???”
Or, you can get a pair of balls and simply ask her, “Are you single?
… Because I’d love to get to know you better, maybe over lunch
sometime this week???”
It, WILL NOT, make you look weak! Only “little boys” think that, and
women do not like little boys! I mean, think about it, how does this
question make you look weak, or whatever it is that you are may be
thinking right now?
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