A lot of guys fit the profile
of 'Bad Boy' and my question to you is: if women understand that he's a Bad
Boy why do they keep dating him?
The Bad Boy: what woman, at some point in her life, doesn't crave for the
guy with the adventurous look in his eye; the guy that stands out from the
other guys because of his hard looks, simmering eyes and hard body.
It's easy to fall for a guy that offers excitement and
adventure.... but it's hard to keep him for long a she wanders
through his life, not looking for any particular woman, just a
partner for a few whirlwind months before he tires of her and finds
The key to being wary of dating a Bad Boy is, firstly,
identifying him. This really isn't all that hard because you
sub-consciously are attracted to him for the these reasons:
- Tall and good looking
- A risk taker
- Seeks adventure
- Outspoken to the point of brashness
- Teasing to the point of drollness
- Doesn't care much for the consequences of his actions
The Bad Boy easily captures a woman's heart and he is often
chased by more than one woman at a time. Infatuation leads to "Bad
Boy Blindness" and warnings from friends that he's a "Player" often
And, while there are some women lucky enough to catch a Bad Boy
and keep him, training him into the fulfilling image of loving
husband and father, this happens more rarely than women believe.
A word of caution: if you need to "fix" a guy to make him a
better partner, watch out. Changing a guy's behavior is a drawn-out
process and may at any time backfire into accusations of smothering,
neediness and jealousy.
It's better to leave the Bad Boy to some other woman, allow her
to have the couple of weeks/months of heady, raging romance that is
moving forward like a plane without a pilot, destined to crash on a
mountain peak at any time.
Sometimes the catch isn't worth the effort of keeping it.
And you'll see this when it's hard to keep up with his
flirtations of other women, his abrupt changes in personality and
his lack of commitment and readiness for spur-of-the-moment
Finding the man to take your heart, and hold it carefully for the
years to come, is no easy task.
You have to battle through the players, the Bad Boys and the
other jerks that make up the majority of the single men's population
to find a real catch of a man.
There is help, your girlfriends and family members will have
some, limited, experience with them and there are great books you
can read too.
You might want to check out what could be the world's best collection of ideas, strategies, insights and research on the subject of how to avoid the Big Mistakes, and other big mistakes in my ebook, "Catch Him And Keep Him".
It's full off specific ways to communicate with a man that will instantly amplify the attraction he feels for you and help move things quickly and smoothly from "casual" to "committed" in no time flat.
I've spent the better part of the last year making sure my ebook will give you REAL WORLD ANSWERS and solutions to the things you're dealing with when it comes to men.
You can start by watching this video.
Thanks for reading and best of luck in life and love.