Girls, girls, girls... the first rule
you always have to remember is that after the first date the guy has to call
you to see how you enjoyed the date!
Never, ever, call
him first, text him, email him… anything like that.
When he contacts you first, you have the power over
him to decide what the next steps of the relationship will be.
If you call him first you give up that power!
appear needy, maybe even suffocating!
Don't be desperate, wait for his call.
Sure, you might have to wait three or four days to get that call
(note: guys, you're supposed to call within two days to see how the
date went!) but waiting is a part of the game for control.
The person that bends or breaks first loses!
Of course there may be mitigating factors, who
calls when isn't a hard and fast rule… take for example after your
first date you can call him first if:
- He's been in a serious accident
- There has been a death in the family
- He won the lottery (if you won you might be able to do better,
don't call him!)
- He's shipping out for military duty
But there are
distinct rules in the game of dating and this is the most important:
Don't worry of he doesn't call right away!
Guy's know how to play the dating game so let them
think they have the control they seek. By knowing and understanding
the basic of first time dating, where you go, for how long and how
you end the first date (small kiss on the cheek is acceptable, no
more unless it's just a hook-up you want!) you can keep the control
of the way the relationship will evolve.
And if he calls right away after saying goodbye, he
may be the needy one, the suffocating one, the one that ends up
needing a restraining order to keep him away.
understand the rules for dating. Or at least they think
You need to understand the rules they think they
know and use them for your advantage.
How else do you
expect to "Catch Him & Keep Him"? By being easily available? By
saying yes to all his suggestions? By answering all his calls and
messages as fast as possible?
Girl, you need to
add some control over yourself and some mystery to your
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