Some men's true intentions are very bad for you
This article: We all have good days and bad days... but do your bad days attract the wrong man into your life?
As human beings we are victims of our emotions. If we are not in control of our emotions then we are subject to them. If we do not have power over our emotions then they have power over us, leading us into unwanted events, and unusually bad circumstances.
If you're having a bad day and you're surrounding yourself with negative energy often times you'll be approached by a guy and he will be trying to be helpful in how he introduces himself, to look for a way in through your bad emotions, bad circumstances, and he'll hope to be able to get closer to you.
It's easy to start enjoying a man's company when he is " helping you" get through the tough times, but it's not the most ideal way to start any relationship friendship or otherwise.
Being dependent on someone when you're old enough to take care of yourself is something that you shouldn't make a habit of or better yet you should try rarely to do.
This negative energy that you give off sends the wrong signals and attracts the wrong man.
In this case the wrong man is " the fixer", this man is willing to help you with your problems as long as your problems are a way in for him. And it's often these type of men that dump you when you're no longer dependent on them or worse they try to control you, and as they try they allow you to continue your downward spiral so that they gain more and more control over you.
Not the basis of a healthy relationship.
So I'm not going to tell you to stop talking to all men when you're sad or angry. I'm not going to tell you to avoid relationships when you're sad or angry or when you're just not in a plain old good mood, what I am going to say is take care that it's not negative energy that's bringing people into your life.
If the man is truly helpful in your life he will understand that not everyone flies like a straight arrow. Hopefully he'll even understand that he is not a straight arrow all the time either. Emotions control us. We don't always control them, although we would like to.
Starting and maintaining a healthy relationship involves the understanding and care of two people that know what emotional changes occur throughout our lifetime. Although it's ideal to attempt to control our emotions and for the most part, we manage quite well, it's not always a permanent solution.
If you want to read more about maintaining healthy relationships while controlling negative energy I invite you to read "Catch Him and Keep Him" by Christian Carter - A woman's guide to finding Mr. Right... and keeping him hooked for good.
If you'd like to take your success with men and dating to the next level, and find how to create the foundation for the relationship that you've always wanted, then go here.
Thanks for reading and best of luck in life and love.
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