You're About To Learn Secrets That Most Men Will Never Know About Having The Ultimate Confidence With Women
By Oliver Turner, Author of "Daytime Pick-up Revealed"
So, you want to learn the secret to building confidence with women? You've come to the right place.
I'm about to share with you some proven tips for becoming more confident with women and dating.
When you become confident, women will start to notice you more. You'll notice that women will start giving you compliments and start approaching you too. You might even find yourself attracting women before you even open your mouth!
Here's the bottom line...
If you learn how to build confidence with women, your dating life will never be the same again. You'll meet more women than you can possibly handle.
Here are some tried and tested tips on building confidence with women.
Confidence With Women Tip #1 - Develop The Attraction Mindset
Have you ever had the feeling that you’re not worthy to even talk to someone?
Have you ever hesitated to approach a woman just because you had that damn “Why should she even talk to me? I’m not her type… and besides, I don’t know what to say” speech playing in your head?
Let me ask you this, how can you be so sure she thinks that way if you haven’t even approached her yet?
Ok, but I’ve approached girls in the past and they’ve shot me down more times than I can think of…
Just because you had one bad meal in your life doesn’t mean you should stop eating right?
Every girl is different. Every situation is different. If you believe that everything you say or do is valuable, then it will be valuable to others.
Starting now, I want you to believe that your presence alone is valuable to others.
I'm sure there's a time in the past when you were yourself and everyone just loved you. The time when, all of a sudden, people were hanging off every word you said. The time when you were relaxed and comfortable with yourself.
TRY THIS OUT
I want you to start looking back and remember the times where you were indeed valuable to other people. I want you to remember the times when you made several people feel good about themselves.
Got that memory? How does it make you feel?
Have you ever surprised someone with something really special before? How did you feel like before you gave it to them?
Felt good didn't it?
That's how you should feel before talking to anyone. You're doing them a favor by talking to them.
Try this out, next time before you talk to someone, Imagine that you're about to give them a million bucks in the next five minutes, how does that change the way you act towards them? Try it out.
Confidence With Women Tip # 2 - Embrace Social Freedom
In other words, take what’s yours and never apologize for who you are and the things you do.
There’s one thing that you will realize later on…
You can do anything you want, whenever you want, wherever you want. And you can get away with it.
Once again, we’ve been programmed by society to look up to others for “permission” to do something we want to do.
Remember the time when you were in grade school? You had to ask permission every single time you went for a trip to the restroom.
Well, by the time you got to college, you just probably stood up and went straight for the restroom didn’t you?
Another example is the very famous Bill Gates. Do you think he ever asked permission if he can start up a business and drop out of school as it took off? Nope, he just had a plan, executed it, and never looked back.
So what do you want to do? What’s stopping you?
You are your own boss. You have permission to go after the things you want in life. You have permission to be the best that you can be. And you have permission to date ANY girl you want regardless what ANYONE says. You have permission to change your beliefs.
I want you to live life like you OWN the world. Everything is yours. You do not need anyone’s approval before you do something.
You do not need permission to dress in a certain way. You already have it in you. It’s about time to free yourself from the prison that your mind is in.
Here are some tips you can start integrating in your life:
- It’s always better to ask for forgiveness than to ask for permission. Next time you go out to the malls and you see a bench with an open spot, just go ahead and sit down. Don’t ask anyone for permission just do it. Next time you’re out on a date instead of saying “Where do you want to go?”, try driving to the place and say “We’re going here, it’s a really cool place, you’d love it”
- Make your own decision and take your own stand. Don’t wait for others to tell you what to do. Don’t look for others to make decisions for you. You can do them yourself. Always voice out your opinions. Don’t be afraid to state your opinions just because someone else thinks otherwise. Don’t be afraid to spark tension. Always say what’s on your mind, if you don’t agree with someone simply say “I Disagree” and leave it at that.
Confidence With Women Tip # 3 - Learn Advance Techniques For Building Confidence
Once you're comfortable with the techniques for building confidence with women, it's time to take it up one more notch...
That’s where I come in…
It took me years of trial and error, experimenting, and vigorous practice in order to come up with an effective, system for approaching and dating women during the day.
If you wanted to figure out & master this whole process by yourself, then be prepared to put in hundreds of hours practice.
This doesn't include the nights you'll go home frustrated and emotionally drained from not getting the results you want in your dating life.
But it doesn't have to be that way for you... There's an easier and faster way to get this part of your life handled and become a master pick up artist.
It's called 'Daytime Pick-up Revealed'.
I've basically compiled all my priceless techniques to meet any woman, anywhere, at anytime , into a comprehensive and informative e-book packed with hundreds of tips and tricks you can use instantly!
It's JAM PACKED with dozens and dozens of specific strategies for overcoming fear, approaching women, getting phone numbers and email address from women quickly, great in expensive or even free date ideas, and advice on how to take things to a "physical" level smoothly and easily.
In addition, I'd also like to invite you to sign up for my free dating tips newsletter. It's the ultimate resource for becoming a successful pick up artist. It's at: www.captivatetoconnect.com - and it's a free website for men to join! Your Friend,
Oliver Turner
Disclaimer: ©2007-2008 Oliver Turner. http://www.captivatetoconnect.com This article may not be republished under any circumstances without express written consent of the author and Cheerful Attitude Web Design Ltd.
