Learn the Daytime Pickup ...Without Failing Or Getting Rejected By Women!
Let me make something clear...
There are dozens of ways to start a conversation with women.
You can tell jokes, ask their opinion, say something situational, and so on and so forth….
They
all work… I’ve tried them all.
But here’s the question,
What’s the FASTEST and MOST EFFECTIVE way of starting a conversation with women?
Back when I was learning this, I was looking for an approach that cut right through the bullshit. I needed something that I could use anytime, no matter where I was. After a little bit of tweaking, here’s one of my favorite ways to start conversations with women.
The conversation starters I’m about to share with you will work ANYWHERE. It will work in coffee shops, gyms, malls, beaches, parties, Laundromats, college campuses, and even bars and clubs!
Warning: These techniques are extremely powerful and advanced. Use at your own risk of women stalking you afterwards.
Here’s how it works:
Whenever I see a girl I’m attracted to, my heart pumps faster, and I slowly make my way towards her. I suddenly feel this fire ball of energy inside of me. Tension begins to fill up my body. Confidence begins to radiate through every part of my body.
The first thing I do is get her full and undivided attention. This is a very important step in my overall structure and let me tell you why. If you don't command her full attention then she won't process your verbal communication effectively.
Let me give you some examples:
If she's walking the opposite direction, I would slowly walk in her pathway so she would be forced to come to a complete stop. It's basic law of physics: An object in motion will stay in motion unless an outside force causes it to stop.
If she's walking to her car, I run after her and tell her to stop. I act like she dropped something on the ground. If you pull this off correctly, she will stop.
If she's sitting down I make sure to sit down as well, make myself comfortable, and then deliver my conversational opener.
If there's no chair beside her, I make sure to grab one and place it right next to her. I want to meet her and I will meet her. There are no possible excuses in my mind. So after I get her attention, I say something like:
“Hey… (pause)
I begin to smile as my eyes are locked on her eyes.
I continue with “I’m a complete stranger and I know this is really random but… I was just passing by… and I saw you standing there… I just wanted to tell you that you are… Really… Really… Beautiful. Tell me about yourself”
She smiles, we shake hands, and I relax from that point.
Now let me break down the opener and explain to you why and how it works.
Breaking Down The Opener
Step 1: Pace her ongoing reality
Pacing is an essential skill that you should master. I use this to
overcome any objection that might pop up in her head. When I say
things like “I know this is totally random…I’m a complete stranger”
it actually serves several purposes.
• It makes her more comfortable. It shows her that you’re sensitive to her needs and that you understand her concerns. By addressing potential objections you demonstrate social awareness.
• It’s like an unspoken bond. Women love guys that know what’s going on without a woman having to tell him. It conveys that you’re intuitive and socially intelligent by nature.
• Gives her a chance to agree with you. Saying things that she can affirm as true; only build your credibility in her eyes. Every time you say something that she agrees with, she gives you a silent nod.
Step 2:
Tell Her the Reason Why You Are Attracted to Her
Honesty is the best policy. I found that being upfront, honest, and
sincere is the way women like to be approached. The only reason why
other men can’t pull this off is because they’re not coming from a
place of power. Tell her you like her because you want her to know.
Not because you want her to feel obliged to be nice to you.
Here’s what this accomplishes:
• Sets up the proper foundation for the interaction right from the beginning. When you use this approach, you instantly demonstrate that you’re honest and sincere. You tell people what you think about them. This is a very powerful frame to come from.
• Creates the feeling attraction. This approach is so powerful that it creates attraction within seconds. When combined with the proper non-verbal communication and delivery, this approach can be very deadly.
• Gets right to the point. It skips through most of the games and takes you were you want to be…
Step 3: Give Her a
Chance to Talk About Herself
You want to get her involved in the interaction as soon as possible.
This is done by saying stuff like
“Tell me about yourself?”
“I just wanted to know if there’s more to you than meets the eye, what’s your story?”
“Who are you?”
“Where are you from?”
Letting her talk about herself gives her the chance to impress you. It also…
• Gets her committed to the interaction. As soon as she starts answering your question, she slowly becomes committed to the interaction.
• Gets her to subconsciously accept you as a potential partner. After the opener, everything you say begins to be categorized in “The Potential Partner” context. Even boring rapport questions will work after the opener. That’s because she’s processing the whole interaction differently. Since you created so much attraction, everything you say will be in the “I’m getting to know you before we date” context.
• Gives you a chance to introduce yourself. After she says anything that might impress you, you can say “I like that; I’m (insert your name here)”. Shaking her hand is very important. It makes it official that you two are in a social interaction.
There you have it!
A simple and effective technique you can use to approach women Right Now and create INSTANT attraction within seconds of meeting her.
Let me ask you this…
What did you do the last time you saw a woman you wanted to meet?
Let me suggest this…
Next time you go out, find a woman that you like and use this technique at least once. You’ll be glad you did.
OK, I have a question:
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Your Friend,
Oliver Turner
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