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What Every Man
Should Know About Meeting Women ...Without Failing Or Getting Rejected!
In this article I'm going
to describe three scenarios that have to do with How to meet women. As you
read them, I want you to pay careful attention. Let's see if you've ever
been in any of them:
 Scenario 1: You see an attractive woman you'd like to meet. You try
to think of the perfect words to say. Then you decide that it might not
work, so you just let it go. You might even try to play “Cool” hoping that
she would notice you and become attracted to you. You’re waiting for that
smile, that extended “eye contact” but it doesn’t happen. You end up going
home, kicking yourself in the foot for the rest of the day or even for the
week thinking to yourself “damn, I should have said something”.
Scenario 2: You see an attractive woman and immediately you tell
yourself one of three things: “She’s not going to like me because I’m not
good looking enough” “She’s not going to like me because I don’t have the
wash board abs” , “She’s not going to like me because she just doesn’t go
for guys like me”.
Scenario 3: You find yourself in a conversation with an attractive
waitress, cashier, or even of girl that you really liked. Everything seemed
to be going well. She seemed extra friendly towards you. She smiled a lot,
you guys connected, and it just good. Then the moment comes for you to get
her number, get a date, or go for the kiss but for some reason you just
didn’t know how to take it to the “Next Level”.
All these scenarios have one thing in common… They don’t get you the results
you want with women and dating.
I should know, these 'how
to meet women' examples are from my own life. These happened to me over and
over again. This was my life four years ago.
The Story Of How I
Learned What Works To Meet Women
Eventually, I reached the
point in my life where I decided that I needed to learn how to meet women
and become successful at it.
So I ended up spending three years mastering the art of meeting women in day
to day normal places.
I learned how to be interesting to women, how to start conversations easily,
how to give them an incredible experience around me, how to get a date, how
to get them home, how to have them for a night or start a relationship with
them…
It took up most of my time and money.
I went out 3-4 times a week just to meet women. Most of my time was spent
researching, coming up with techniques, and putting those techniques to the
test. I've tried all types of approaches to meeting women during the day.
Enough to learn what works and what doesn't.
It came to a point where I could meet any woman, anytime, anywhere.
I learned a few incredibly valuable lessons. Here are a few of them:
 Five Incredible Tips
On How To Meet Women That You Can Use To Improve Your Dating Life Today!
How To Meet Women Tip #
1- Meet Women In Normal Places
Do you think you'll find love while perched on a barstool? Think again.
According to the Encyclopedia of Exes:
"Only 9 percent of women and 2 percent of men say they've found a
relationship at a bar or club—blame it on the beer goggles. So if you're
lonely and looking, you're better off hitting on cuties at Starbucks."
This means that 91% of women prefer to meet men outside of bars and clubs.
That’s majority of the female population! Most of the guys out there are
looking for women at the wrong places!
What shocked me the most was that nobody was aware of it.
Nobody was taking advantage of it.
Nobody knew how to do it.
If you want to become successful at meeting women, then you should learn how
to meet women in normal places.
How To Meet Women Tip
# 2 - Begin With The Basics
There are different stages you will go through when learning how to meet
women.
When you become a master at meeting women, you can walk up to any woman,
anywhere, at anytime and say ANYTHING and it will work.
Before I go on, I want to warn you about something. Right now, there is one
thing that will prevent you from succeeding with women.
It is the same thief that has robbed you of the success with beautiful women
that you know you have always deserved.
It’s the one fear that raises its ugly head whenever you want to learn
something new, or when you push yourself to master what you already know.
You know what I’m talking about because you face it every day.
Can you guess the “two-word” silent Thief I’m talking about?
It’s not a person. It’s not a place. It’s not even a thing.
It is the human condition that shows-up in your life with an intention to
protect you, but in reality it repeatedly robs you of getting what you want
and even worse, to what you have…
I’m talking about your “Comfort Zone.”
This is the same reason why you feel sick to your stomach before you
approach a really attractive woman for the very first time.
You don’t know what’s going to happen. It’s something you’ve never done
before. It’s scary. It’s the fear of the unknown.
It’s something that’s been depriving you from becoming successful all this
time.
So now, let me give you a quick start guide to demolishing your comfort zone
and start meeting women within the next 24 hours.
 The 4-Day Challenge
Location: Go to the nearest mall or a place with a lot of people.
Duration: 30 minutes each day
Day 1: Eye Contact
Go out for 30 minutes and hold eye contact with every person you see. Make
them look away first. Don’t forget to smile.
Day 2: Hey, How’s Your Day?
Go out for 30 minutes and say “Hey how’s your day” with everyone you see.
You can start off with people working in the stores because they will be
friendlier.
Day 3: Asking For The Time
Go out for 30 minutes and ask 10 people for the time. Afterwards say
“Thanks” and walk away.
Real World Example: “Excuse me, do you have the time?”
Day 4: Getting Directions
Go out for 30 minutes and ask 10 people for directions to the bathroom,
movie theatre, or restaurant of your choice. Afterwards say “Thanks” and
walk away.
Real World Example:
“Excuse me, I need your recommendation. What’s a good place to eat around
here?”
Follow up question: “How do I get there?”
How To Meet Women Tip # 3 -
Make a Killer First Impression
One of the important things you have to do when you meet women is make a
killer first impression.
Having said that, here are 3 helpful tips to increase the power of your
presence and make that good first impression:
- Learn how to smile. There have been several studies shown that women
prefer men that smile while initiating a conversation with her, rather than
being all serious and mysterious. Smiling makes women feel comfortable. It
eases women up at times when they’re nervous. A genuine smile can take you a
long way.
- Communicate with your eyes. Did you know that there is a way to use eye
contact to increase the effectiveness of your communication? It’s very
important to hold eye contact at certain points in the interaction. Holding
eye contact builds trust and comfort.
- Facial expression. Your facial expression can communicate messages of its
own. Facial expressions are used to convey emotions like anger, joy,
disgust, fear, sadness, and surprise. This helps to getting your message
across more
effectively. Practice using a variety of facial expressions when you tell
people stories. It makes a big difference. It really does.
How To Meet Women Tip
# 4 - Make Your First Impression Last
After making a good first impression, you have to focus on making a lasting
first impression.
If you can become unforgettable and make women remember you long after
you've met them, then you're way above your competition!
Here a powerful technique you can use to meet women and make a lasting
impression:
Always provide positive emotions. People tend to gravitate towards people
that make them FEEL good. Your job is to provide positive emotions like fun,
excitement, happiness, comfort, and etc. Once you find a way to provide
these emotions, you’ll INSTANTLY be magnetic to women. You’ll notice that
women want to be around you more often. They'll call you and even pester you
to hang out with them.
How To Meet Women Tip
# 5 - Always Move Things Forward
At this point, instead of
asking "How to meet women", you should be asking yourself "What do I do once
I've met her?"
It's easy. Get her number so you can see her again.
Here's some valuable tips on getting a woman's phone number:
It’s better to exchange numbers. It’s better to exchange numbers than to
just give her your number. When you give her your number, you leave it all
up to her to make the move and give you a call back. Guess what that does?
It drastically DECREASES the chance of anything happening by 50%! Why,
because not all girls will call you up. Some girls just never call guys up.
Some girls will throw your number away. Some girls might like you but forget
to call you. And some girls will simply just lose your number. So it’s best
always best to exchange numbers because it gives BOTH of you the chance to
call each other up.
- Simple yet effective lines. Any line will work if you say it at the right
time. You job is to get her to want to give her number to you. When you
reach that point in the interaction, any line will work. Some of the lines
I’ve used are
“Let’s exchange contact information”
“Give me your number”
“I really had fun talking to you, but unfortunately I have to get going, how
can we continue this conversation?”
I've used these lines over and over again. They work like magic.
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Your Friend,
Oliver Turner
Disclaimer: ©2007-2008 Oliver Turner.
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