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Be Rejection-Proof: Captivate To Connect With Women

Learn the Daytime Pickup ...Without Failing Or Getting Rejected By Women!

Have you ever had any of these happen to you?

• You walk up to a woman and she ignores you and acts like she’s not interested.

• You were talking to a woman and she brings up the fact that she has a boyfriend and she’s not interested

• You walk up to a woman and she acts all aloof and cooler than you.

If you said YES to any of these questions, then you’ll be armed with a rejection-proof armor by the time you finish reading this article.

So let’s get the ball rolling.

When you approach women, one of three things will happen:

First Scenario: She loves it. She smiles. She becomes extremely flattered. She wants to get to know you.

Second Scenario: She kind of likes it. She's not really enthusiastic about it. She's just being polite and sticks around for a bit to see what you have to say.

Third Scenario: She gives you an objection, tries to walk away, or doesn't give you the time of day. Most men crumble and walk away with their tails between their legs whenever they face the third scenario.

I just laugh it all off.

This might surprise you…

I absolutely love the third scenario because it’s a lot easier for me. I know beyond a shadow of a doubt that I triggered some deep level attraction within her (more about this in future articles).

Here’s a brief explanation that might boggle your mind.

Women test men for strength and leadership at all times.

If you pass the test, then she’ll feel attraction for you and spend time with you. On the other hand, if you fail it and just walk away, then your chance to get with her goes down the drain.

It’s that simple.

In the past, I’ve had women react negatively to my approach.

But here’s a dirty little secret:

If you know how to handle a “Test” that women throw your way, then you’ll be creating massive amounts of attraction out of thin air

Here’s some word-for-word responses to common tests women throw your way:

The Boyfriend Objection

Scenario 1

Guy: Starts conversation

Girl: I'm sorry, I have a boyfriend

Guy: Awesome, So what do you like to do for fun?

*Commentary: In this situation, I’m not even acknowledging her objection. I’ve discovered that Indifference by far is the most powerful way to overcome this objection.

Scenario 2

Guy: Starts conversation

Girl: “I'm sorry, I have a boyfriend”

Guy: “Yes… and I love sushi, it’s my favorite food.”

* I agree with her and quickly change the subject. This usually does the trick. I don’t Know why it works, it just does. Maybe because I’m randomly bringing up stuff just like she does. Hmmm… possibly.

She Walks Away While You're Talking To Her

Guy: Talk, Talk, Talk

Girl: Talks and walks away

Guy: (smiles) “Oh come on now; you're way too classy to be walking away when someone is talking to you. But if I'm making you uncomfortable in anyway, then just walk away. Go on now.”

Girl: “Sorry, I didn’t mean to be rude…”

Guy: “It’s cool. Anyways, what do you do for fun?”

* As you can see, I set up an expectation for her. I tell her she's way too classy to walk away, and of course she wants to be perceived as classy so she will stay for a bit. I also tell her to walk away which is reverse psychology and then I act like it never happened by asking her a question, which re-engages her back in the conversation.

She's Rude Or Ignores You

Guy: Talk, Talk, Talk

Girl: Says something rude like "Why are you talking to me", doesn't look at you, or something to that effect.

Guy: “Why are you acting like this? I don't know where you're from but where I'm from, people are real. If you're not going to be real, I'm just going to walk away”

(I act as if I'm about to leave).

“I know this is not who you really are. This is just a protection shield.”

Guy: “I understand. Come on, look around you. There are a lot of creepy guys out there that try to get something from you all the time. I'm not one of those guys so don't treat me like one of them. I know you might be a cool person deep down inside. So let's give this a shot one more time, I'm Oliver.”

Girl: “I'm Michelle. Sorry I was being rude; I was just having a bad day.”

Guy: “No worries. So what do you do for fun?”

* See how I called her out on how she was behaving? It demonstrates
that I am a man who demands respect in an interaction.
If you use just one of these techniques, then you don’t have to worry
about getting rejected by women.

Let me ask you this:

What did you do the last time you saw a woman you wanted to meet?

Let me suggest this...

Next time you go out and come across a woman that ‘tests’ you, then use one
Of these proven techniques to pass and you’ll be glad you did.

OK, I have a question.

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Your Friend,
Oliver Turner

 

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