And WHAT to do about this...
What are the signs your girlfriend is cheating on you?
I mean, let's be honest...
Why would a girlfriend admit that she's cheating on you?
There's no benefit in it for her. In fact, it's the opposite:
If she openly admits it, you turn into the Incredible Hulk and start destroying things and then you dump her ass — unless you're a dumbass and you "forgive" her.
But what message does she hear?
"Oh! He'll tolerate me cheating on him. The sucker won't even dump me. This is great! Now I know I can do it again. And what's more, if some jerk I screw behind his back throws me out, my boyfriend will let me cry on his shoulder."
So unless, she's out to get revenge, a woman will never admit that she's cheating.
Not only that, you want to know the worst part?
Even if she is cheating and you "accuse" her of it, guess what?
It just makes YOU look insecure and crazy!
In fact, she can turn the tables and blame you for accusing her of lies, even when they're aren't lies!
So how do you know when a crazy chick is cheating on you?
Well, you can catch her cheating red-handed — I mean, red-faced — which is unlikely since women are generally great at hiding it.
However, there are reliable clues you can look for...
So whether you think your current girlfriends cheating on you, or perhaps you just want to know what to look for so you're aware in the future, here are the major signs of a cheating girlfriend:
SIGN #1: Your Gut Sends You Signals
Does your gut tell you something's wrong?
The very first indicator is your intuition or your instinct. You know when you get that gut feeling that something just isn't right?
Even though you may not have any other signs of a cheating partner, your gut is generally incredibly accurate — unless, of course, you have trust issues to begin with.
I think we're raised to believe in logic. But our intuitions overrule logic, so if you're getting signals from your intuition, DON'T try to shut them out, thinking it's 'only in your head'.
It's probably not.
SIGN #2: She Changes her Appearance
Did she change something major about the way she looks?
If you notice a sudden change in your girlfriend's appearance, like new or sexier clothes, a drastically different hair style, or a sudden preoccupation with her weight...
... this is one of the huge signs your girlfriend is cheating.
Women know that the best way to get a man's attention is by LOOKING attractive.
So why would she suddenly change her appearance?
You got it! There may be another guy in the picture.
SIGN #3: She Talks About Another Guy
Does she talk endlessly about another guy with admiration?
If you have a sister, you may have noticed when and how she talks about a certain guy, who she obviously has a crush on.
She tells you little stories about things he does or gives you small details about his life.
Well, if your girlfriend is suddenly discussing some guy she works with or met in this same way, this could be an indicator your girlfriends cheating -- or more accurately, it probably hasn't gotten that far.
She's just infatuated.
But if she suddenly STOPS talking about him or bringing him into conversations, this is one of the signs your girlfriend is cheating.
SIGN #4: Physical Contact or Sex Decreases
Does she seem uninterested in sex with you?
This one should be obvious.
Remember, my friend, if a woman isn't sleeping with you, in all likelihood, she's sleeping with someone else.
So if a woman rejects your advances or moves away from you when you initiate physical contact, this is one of the major signs of a cheating girlfriend.
Especially if this begins happening regularily without an obvious reason and it is also very different than how things were eariler in the relationship.
If she's distant and you're getting that gut feeling that something isn't right, there's a good chance your girlfriends cheating.
SIGN #5: She Gives You Too Many Details
Does she give you detailed explanations of her affairs?
If your girlfriend suddenly starts giving you detailed explanations of what she did last night or where she was, this is another of the signs your girlfriend is cheating.
Sure, women can talk a lot. But doesn't a complete narrative of what she did seem a little strange?
Especially if it's out of her character.
Perhps this will sound odd, but...
It may be that she's feeling guilty and trying to prove she WASN'T cheating — even though you haven't and didn't even suspect it.
But if your girlfriend is trying to cover for herself without you even giving her a reason, she probably has one.
SIGN #6: Unexpected Gifts or Favors
Is she suddenly being extra nice when she wasn't before?
Most women who cheat do feel guilty about it.
So another of these signs your girlfriend is cheating on you is if she starts doing extra special things for you.
Things she didn't do before.
If your girlfriend surprises you unexpectedly by buying you things or doing little favors for you, she may be feeling guilty about what she's done or is doing.
And she's being extra nice to make herself feel better about it, and perhaps even justify. After all, she's doing all these "nice" things for you, so in her mind that makes it OK.
SIGN #7: Mutual Friends Act Strange
Do your mutual friends seem to behave oddly around you?
Most friends don't want to get caught in the crossfire, so even if they know your girlfriends cheating, they won't say anything.
Good friends will, even though they know it may make the situation uncomfortable for them.
But most will start acting weird around you.
You'll pick up an uneasiness when they're around you and you may catch a few 'knowing' eye contact exchanges between them.
So if you're getting a weird vibe from friends, this may be another of the signs of a cheater partner.
SIGN #8: Things Just Don’t Add Up
Did you find out later she lied about something?
Finally, things just don't make sense or add up when thinking back.
Perhaps your girlfriend said she was going somewhere, but later you find out she wasn't even there...
Or much later, she mentions she was somewhere she 'shouldn't' have been without her thinking about what she's saying.
And it just doesn't click probably.
This is another of the signs of a cheating girlfriend.
Again, trust your gut. And though we're taught not trust these unseen 'powers', your intuition is probably the most reliable thing you can use.
It's the most reliable of the signs your girlfriend is cheating.
Instantly Short-Circuit Women from Cheating!
But what if it would never come to a girlfriend cheating on you?
What if there was something you could do right now that would actually prevent a chick from ever even wanting to cheat on you?
Well, there is.
But to do it, you first need to know why women cheat in the first place...
See, women don't generally cheat because they're "lousy whores". They cheat because they weren't being fully satisfied by their boyfriends or husbands.
This doesn't just mean in the bedroom. It means they weren't satisifed with the DYNAMIC of the relationship itself, which is setup BY THE GUY.
See, guys who know how to setup relationships in a SPECIFIC way that completely fulfills a woman never runs the chance of being cheated on.
Because he knows what women NEED from him as a man to be satisfied. And as long as these needs are fulfilled, she has NO reason to look elsewhere.
Now, what if you could easily learn what these needs are and how to fulfill them?
This would mean you would always KNOW where a woman was at.
This would also mean you'd completely eliminate the slightest possibility of a girlfriend being unfaithful to you.
So how do you do this?
By learning to give a woman EXACTLY what she needs emotionally.
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See you there soon.
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