Drop everything you've been learning about attracting and dating women... and concentrate FULLY on getting to that connection phase, where a woman basically, though non-verbally, invites you to talk to her.
What signs should you be looking for?
The very first indicator is your intuition or your instinct. You know when you get that gut feeling that something just isn't right?
Is she just a tease or girlfriend material?
Have you ever met a woman who seemed like that special or perfect woman, the kind most men secretly dream about finding one day but she really wasn't?