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What You MUST Do When Women Complain

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What You MUST Do When Women Complain

Hey Man,

Let me share a somewhat embarrassing secret with you...

Before I had the slightest clue about what attracted a woman to a man, there was one single thing I did that would virtually "dig my own grave" every time.

And not only that, but after realizing how dangerous it is — as it guarantees a woman will ONLY want to be friends with you — I've also noticed that something like 90% of all men do it!

In fact, it's probably the MAJOR reason why guys end up as "just friends" with a woman they're interested in.

So what is it?

Well, let me ask you this:

How do you react when a woman brings you her "personal issues"?

Do you listen intently and try to understand her problem, so you can give her advice to help her?

Or do you passively listen to her complain about the "problem people" in her life and then agree with her that they're the ones at fault or the ones to blame?

If you do, this may be the most important letter you'll ever read about interacting with women so they naturally see you in a attractive way.

The Truth About Acting Like A Woman’s Therapist

Thinking back to when I would play therapist with the women I was interested in, here's the shocking lie I was telling myself:

"If I demonstrate how much I care for her by listening to her emotional or self-esteem issues and then give her the solutions, she'll realize just how much I truly love her and it'll prove to her that I am worthy of her love and affection.

"And when she notices how much I care for her, she'll realize what a "good" guy I am... and fall madly in love with me."

But the sad truth is...

This will rarely happen (unless a woman's really desperate).

Needless to say, my relationships didn't go far... or should I say "friendships"?

After all, if you've taken this approach in the past, you probably know as well as I do that it generally DOESN'T lead to anything "romantic".

I mean, what generally happens?

Well, after some time of doing this, you've probably noticed that she's not seeing what a "good" guy you are and falling for you, so what do you do?

If you're like me, you probably asked her if anything was going to happen between you, right?

And I'm willing to bet you got one of these responses:

"Let's just be friends."

"I don't want to ruin our friendship."

"I just don't look at you THAT way."

So what's going on here?

Why can't she see what a "good" guy you really are?

Therapy Sessions Do NOT Attract Women

After all, what's the core distinction between a friendship and a romance?

There's one KEY difference between them, and it's the absence or presence of ATTRACTION.

Simply put:

If a woman feels the emotion of attraction for you, she'll want to get romantic with you NATURALLY. But if she doesn't feel that emotion, she'll just want to be friends.

It's pretty much as simple as that.

Now, as you may have guessed, playing a woman's therapist does NOT cause her to feel that attraction for you.

In fact, it generally does the complete opposite.

Generally speaking, the simple math is that if you listen and accept a woman's whining and complaining, it EQUALS friendship!

So if you want a romantic relationship with a woman, avoid playing therapist at ALL costs.

“But isn’t it rude not to listen when
a woman expresses her feelings?”

Yeah, I've noticed that a lot of guys seem to think that it's "rude" to not listen to what a woman is saying. In fact, I probably did at one point too.

But here's the catch:

There's no obligation to accept any kind of behavior from any woman that you don't want in your life. After all, who really wants to fill their life listening and thinking about more problems.

I mean, don't most of us have enough of those already?

Why take on someone else's, especially when listening to them isn't going to change a damn thing...

And it's not even going to get you a romantic relationship?

So not only is it good for you to not listen to women's problems, but by refusing to play therapist, you eliminate all negativity from your interactions with them.

And guess what?

When you remove the negativity from the interaction, that leaves room for fun and positive emotions women enjoy... like attraction.

So learn to cut the negative drama off as soon as it arises!

Not five minutes later.

Not weeks later.

And heaven forbid, not years later!

Do it then and there, in the moment whenever it shows up in an interaction!

Of course, you MUST do this in a respectful and tactful way.

Because yes, if you handle this poorly like getting "self-righteous", most women will become irritable... so I wouldn't recommend that approach.

And if you really want to learn how to deal with the negative drama women bring into your life in a constructive way... and do it in a way that causes them to feel the emotion of attraction at the SAME time, flip to page 139 in my eBook, "Cool Guy With Women"...

You'll find 7 powerful ways to do this... along with my secret technique to instantly stop a woman from complaining with just 4 words.

Seriously, I use this one several times a week, and it's never not worked to this day.

Here's the link:

How To Become A "Cool Guy" With Women

Cool Guy With WomenI look forward to hearing about your upcoming successes.

See you there soon.

Your Friend For Life

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