Dating After Divorce
Your Guide To Quickly Getting Back Into "The Dating Game" After A Divorce Or
Breakup
By Ken Kennedy
www.Double Your Dating.com
Making the comeback as a single
man into the dating scene does not have to lead to additional relationship
failure or heartbreak.
Straightforward changes to a man's
behavior will allow any man to regain the control he once had over his own
life and his future relationships.
These "Universal Rules" are a
guideline on the strong points of regaining "dating control" for men that
find themselves single after breakup or divorce.
Universal Rule #1: Women want men that make
decisions.
Decision making is one area
that the average man can successfully do in the business world and in the
relationship world he easily surrenders to satisfy the woman in his life.
This "surrender" of power and masculine decision making ability ultimately
does not satisfy the woman and the man finds himself alone, whether in or
out of his relationship.
Universal Rule #2: Women dump men that they can control (sooner or later,
once the man has surrendered all she wants from him).
When you provide you should
provide because you want to, not as a requirement of the relationship. When
you become the "slave of offerings" once the woman no linger gets the
satisfaction of your gifts and providing power then you will be used up and
set aside.
Universal Rule #3: Women will test you at odd times to see if you're willing
to give up the control of making decisions, don't fail these tests.
Tests come in many forms and
many ways. Generally they are small questions, seeking to evaluate the
conditions where you will pass the decision making authority to her. The
questions support the man to allow the woman to decide small things, then
larger options in the relationship. These tests must not be passed over
lightly. The man should always be on guard to protect his decision making
authority in the relationship, whether casually dating or more intimately
involved.
Universal Rule #4: To "date all the women"
you must show through your actions that your dating is a casual
experience.
Follow the "rules of contact"
to keep dating on a casual level. Phone calls and emails are separated by
days, not hours. Follow-up phone calls and emails are short, to the point
and not involved conversations. During a date conversations that turn to
taking the relationship "to the next level" should be played with and joked
about unless you've passed the 4 month mark of dating and are feeling
serious about the woman. Relationship power must not be decided by the
woman.
Universal Rule #5: Time does heal all
wounds. After your divorce is final (or your separation is legal and by
law you can date again without damaging your divorce settlement) you're
dating style must be "casual" Do not get deeply involved, do not find
yourself in a "rebound romance".
Time will allow you to not make the same
mistake again in your life. Time. Take the time to enjoy the company of
a wider variety of events, adventures and women in your life.
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