Carlos Xuma of
Dating Dynamics author of 'The
Dating Black Book'
Do you know about the RULES for men? Do you
want to know how to counter her tests and games?
Do you know where to touch women to give them the chills and turn them
on to you? Do you know when to touch them? Do you know how to interpret
a woman's questions and interests, and turn them in your favor?
Do you want to stop shooting in the dark with your dating and finally
get some understanding of women? Some real tangible results?
It's tempting to wing it. It really is. Some guys think that they'll
"Figure women out" when they get to a certain point, except that point
never comes. Different women seem to want different things. (Or maybe
they're the same things?) It's too damn confusing.
It doesn't have to be anymore.
THE DATING BLACK BOOK breaks this strategy down in its entirety, from
preparing to meeting to passing their tests. It's the most complete
strategy out there. I'll even tell you how to interpret their behavior
and figure out which kind of woman you're dealing with - and most
importantly, how to avoid the bad ones.
BIG NEWS:
"Hello Carlos. Great news for me. I'm engaged to a wonderful woman
just last week thanks to your superb coaching on how to connect with
the female species... You're da Man!" L.W.
Just shows you that you can make this stuff work to any goal you
want...
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QUESTION:
Hey Carlos.
I enjoy your material better than others because it seems to be based
in the real world. Been listening to the audio program for a while now
and I'm learning a lot and noticing (positive) changes in how women
are reacting to me.
I have 2 questions/comments.
I always try to make eye contact and smile with every attractive woman
I see. I almost never get a smile back, they almost always break
eye-contact and look at the ground. I take this as a rejection of
sorts but I guess I don't know if this is how women would respond to
any man they don't know. Will a woman maintain eye-contact if she's
interested?
Also, you suggest in your material not to come on like a steam-roller
but to be honest that is when I always have done best with women. The
more I act like Pepe Le Pew, the more women seem to like it. When I
try to act stand-offish I blend into the background and become
invisible. Maybe it's because I'm not that physically attractive and
it's seems interesting to them that an "average-at-best" guy is coming
on so strong, I don't know.
Any comments?
J
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Yes, gentlemen... welcome to the real world. That's the place where I
live and work, not in this fictional place where women are supposed to
fall for guys who send flowers and poems.
I'm glad you're also getting the benefit from the Advanced Audio
Coaching, as so many other guys are. It's not surprising, really,
since there's so much information in each one that you can't help but
improve just listening to it each month. I commend you for actually
taking steps to improve your se*x life.
I always say that you shouldn't go to the extremes, but do whatever
works for YOU. I just don't want guys to steamroll so fast that you
miss clues and signals along the way. Move forward with confidence and
purpose.
As for eye contact, women will always break off and look down. It's a
submission gesture, and it's usually a good sign.
A woman will only hold eye contact for so long before she breaks it
out of discomfort. The important thing is that you hold it long enough
that she feels the WHAMMY. But this is only the start.
You've demonstrated dominant male behavior, but you have to reinforce
it by interacting with her and progressing.
For the average guy, a strong, confident approach is perfect. Keep it
up!
As for the Pepe le Pew, there's a good way to use this to your
advantage.
(For those of you who are not aware, Pepe le Pew is that suave French
skunk on the Warner Brothers cartoons who is always trying to seduce a
certain cat.)
Make Pepe a humorous character that you can use to make her laugh, and
at the same time move in on women. They like playfulness, and I can't
think of a better way to use humor with your seduction approach. Use a
corny French accent as you call her your "leetle buttercup of
sweetness ..."
You also hit on a key secret there - women respond to your assertive "Pepe"
approach because it's CONFIDENT.
(How many times have I told you guys this?)
When you move forward as an assertive, dominant Alpha Man, you trigger
attraction in a woman's mind. Physical attractiveness is NOT NECESSARY
for a man. Confidence is.
Think of all the guys you know who are butt-ugly and still getting
laid.
It's true, guys. All you have to do is build up that Alpha Man
attitude and you can have the women you want.
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QUESTION:
sorry for my english but I'm from a distant but amazingly loyal to USA
country
Ok. I've read some of your last mails. You really know what you are
doing. I see that for many guys you appear to be a king of guru.
I think such a knowledge should be taught at school and that's not
only my opinion. For many men it would be much easier to live if they
knew how women 'work', let's say 'the rules of the world'.
It should be taught especially because the behaviour of the women has
surely changed since books, which are obligatory at school, were
written:) Somebody surely should make the education relevant.
But let's get down to business:
I've met a girl. (I've just got an impression you have seen this
sentence for some times :) But she isn't a common girl who I would
have no problems with.
She is from... er...
somewhere from Russia. She's moved out a lot in her life. She's
unbelievably interesting person. not one of those stupid chicks
hanging around or those "intelligent" who's never drink any beer.
Now she's here.
Needless to say she is very cautious in meeting new men and reserved
in talking with them... It's difficult for me to understand her sense
of humour, yet I have a few 'succeses', difficult to make a
conversation longer than few sentences and generally difficult to...
'work her out' (I'm not sure if it's the right meaning but I hope you
know what I mean)
The situation is difficult because I've engaged more than
other...competitors shall I say?:) but... it's like an assault on a
good fortress, I got too far, little hope for a victory... and at this
stage I can very easily... fail.
I'm certainly not a wimp or something (smile) but I've got a strange
feeling she knows men more than I suspected and such a surprise could
have some depressing effect. She's either 'tough', experienced
personality or I can't attract her attention.
And sorry for such a long e-mail...
and best regards.
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You got it right - this SHOULD be part of every man's education
growing up, but it's NOT. And I'm here to change that. Men are going
to be woken up from sea to shining sea.
Ahhhh ....
Another guy that understands what's going on, and it's not even his
native language!
A pretty girl gets LOTS of attention from other guys, so you have to
stand out. You have to be extra confident with her, and be sure to let
her know you are NOT intimidated by her.
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