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I've got a question
for you:
Do you know how far the average man gets with a woman?
Not far at all.
Let's take a bar or a nightclub, for example:
Many a man's success at a bar is no better than brief conversations
with three or four women, all of which materialize into zilch.
When the average collective male gets a woman's digits, locks lips
with a stranger, or pulls a female from the bar to his bedroom, he
thinks to himself, "I got lucky," because it doesn't happen to him
often.
To find out why most men do poorly in the single scene trenches,
keep reading. The answer might surprise you.
Before revealing one the most mutilating mistakes 90% of men make
with women, I want to let you in on a secret that dawned on me a few
years back.
And contained within the words you're about to read is one of the
biggest – if not the biggest – keys to succeeding with women.
When a successful ladies man approaches a woman lumbered with a
wretched heart and she proverbially mauls him with the words, “Get
lost loser!” things usually take a bazaar turn for the better.
Within minutes, the ice queen is laughing and flirting and putting
her little paws all over him.
What's goin' on here? What's up with the sudden and drastic shift in
attitude? Does he possess some secret pickup line?
Perhaps.
But… something more subtle is taking place.
If a woman, for example, hisses a crippling putdown, he doesn't pelt
away wearing an existential funk ten times the size of his deflated
ego.
He, instead, charges forward like a vicious bulldog unscathed by her
less than flattering words.
“What allows him to lope forward?” you may be wondering.
Here's a story that might shed some light…
Once thought impossible, in 1985 Ted Arcidi bench pressed over 700
pounds. Others followed, and benching 700 plus lb. became a
difficult yet achievable feat for a lifter.
Yet from 1985 to 2002 the collective lifter believed the human body
wasn't capable of enduring an 800 lb. bench press.
Then in 2002 Ryan Kennelly shattered that theory by benching over
800.
But here's what's eere:
The number of men currently benching 800 plus pounds hovers into the
double digits.
Some say this progress is due to lifters wearing super-shirts,
which, supposedly, help bounce the weight off their chest.
This might be part of it. But there's another key ingredient – one
that relates to attracting women.
Here's a hint…
Think of your favorite sport: football, baseball, gymnastics,
boxing… and so on, for example. Within that sport at some point in
time there was at least one barrier athletes believed impossible to
break.
But then, eventually, an athlete blasted the barrier to smithereens
followed by a barrage of other athletes annihilating the barrier
too.
Here's my point:
By Ryan Kennelly doing the impossible - benching 800 pounds - he
broke a mental barrier in the minds of many a power lifter. That's
why so many athletes followed Ryan in breaking the 800 lb mark.
When It Comes To Attracting Women Many Guys Have Mental Barriers.
When a woman barks, “I'm not interested!” or chirps “scat loser!” or
hisses “I wouldn't do you if you were the last man on earth!” most
men feel succeeding with her is an impossible uphill battle. But the
ladies man doesn't just think success with her is possible; he
thinks it's highly probable. He isn't burdened with the mental
barriers of most men because success for him is normal.
Here's a big secret
about women…
Almost always, how a woman responds to a man is corollary to how she
assumes other women respond to him.
As Soon As A Woman Senses That It's Normal For Him to Succeed With
Women, She Begins Perceiving Him As A Prize She's Compelled To
Possess!
That's why the ladies man can go from being verbally assaulted by a
rhymes-with-witch to making out with her a few minutes later. You
might be thinking: “Having no mental barriers is great and all. But
I have them. Most people have them. And how in the world is success
going to be normal for me if I haven't had much of it?”
The Biggest Key To Smashing Mental Barriers & Making Success Your
Normal, Everyday Reality Is Pushing Your Comfort Zone. The biggest
mistake men make, holding them back from heaps of success with
women, is not pushing their comfort zone.
We all have a different comfort zone. Perhaps just looking a woman
in the eyes or saying “hi” to her is a big feat?
Maybe you feel comfortable starting conversations with women but the
idea of kissing a woman a few minutes after meeting her makes you a
bit queasy?
Whatever your comfort zone is, you probably could benefit from
expanding it. We all could. Here's how I took my comfort zone from
very small to mammoth in size.
Years ago I was painfully shy. Even the thought of approaching
female strangers made me shudder with fear.
So I set a goal for myself of looking three women in the eye and
saying “hi." This was so far out of my comfort zone it took me
twelve hours to complete. But I made myself do it.
Soon my comfort level grew and saying “hi” to three women became no
big deal. My next objective was to say “hi” to ten women in a single
day. This was quite a feat but I did it. Then my mission was to
actually engage a woman in a conversation. Scary stuff for me but
sooner than later, the mission was accomplished
After that, I set a goal of approaching three different women and
engaging them in conversation over the course of a single evening.
Then five. Then eight. Then twelve.
My next ambition was to rub a woman's back minutes after meeting
her. Strange, I know. But I knew a ladies man from high school who
used to do this. It blew my mind. I wanted to be able to do what he
did.
Soon this became well within my comfort zone and I found myself
always giving women I'd just met back rubs.
Then my objective was to… gulp… kiss a woman I'd only known for a
few minutes. I kept practicing this until it became the norm for me.
Then one night I was out with a friend of mine who witnessed me kiss
six women that night. He was blown away and inquired, “Did you get
their phone numbers?”
But the sad reality was:
I Didn't Even Get One Of Their Numbers!
Back then it seemed weird and felt uncomfortable asking for a
woman's phone number – even when I'd already kissed her. But I
pushed my comfort zone, and started asking for women's phone
numbers. I got really good and accrued a pile full of numbers. Yet I
was petrified to call any of the numbers.
I forced myself, though, to call two numbers a day. And soon I
mastered talking to women on the phone and setting up a time to
meet.
Next I learned how to take them back to my house and get intimate
with them. And the story goes on.
Here's my point…
I didn't attempt in one night to go from barely feeling comfortable
muttering “hi” to the opposite sex to confidently planting a kiss on
a woman within the first few minutes of meeting her.
I took it one step at a time. I did what the Japanese call “kaizen,”
which means incremental improvement. Each day I'd push my comfort
zone a tiny bit. Over the course of a few months I achieved massive
improvement.
But there's one thing I haven't mentioned and want to come clean
about…
When I was starting out I didn't have a mentor who'd figured out all
of the pieces to attracting and succeeding with women.
Not only did I have the challenge of pushing my comfort zone, but
also had to figure out on my own the best ways to progress from one
step to the next with women.
If I'd known then what I know now, I would have gotten where I
wanted to be in a fraction of the time. The good news for you is
that I've put all of the secrets I've discovered from countless
hours of trial and error into a book.
You'll get a complete education on attracting women where many men
just like you have been successfully mastering the exact steps to
consistently approach, engage, attract, and become intimate with the
women they desire.
Push your comfort zone this very moment and start succeeding with
the women you want by getting your hands on a copy of my book.
You'll be glad you did.
I don’t care if you
are bald or short or fat or broke…or whatever it is you feel is
preventing you from succeeding with women. ATTRACTION is not what a
woman prefers or how she judges you. ATTRACTION is how she responds
to you establishing yourself as the Prize combined with creating the
emotion inside her of wanting and reaching for more of you. As long
as you are able to establish yourself as the Prize, get them
emotionally wanting more of you, and suck them into your reality,
success with beautiful women is in your reach. If you are ready to
master these skills and start ATTRACTING the women you desire, pick
up a copy of my book today at:
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'Till next time,
Swinggcat
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