If you are unhappy
with your current level of success with women – don’t worry! You’re
about to learn secrets for generating ATTRACTION in women, compelling
them to chase you… and these secrets will work regardless of your
current weight, age, bank account, social status, or physical level of
attractiveness…(website)
I want to share a
secret with you that will blow your mind. Warning: When you first
hear this secret you might feel a bit disconcerted. If you already
have truck loads of experience with women you might think to
yourself, "Wow...someone else knows about this too!" If you are a
woman reading this, you might say to yourself, "No! - Now the male
world is going to be privy to the truth."
Many a man having at least some experience in the "dating game"
under his belt has encountered women whom felt ATTRACTION toward
him...yet wouldn't kiss him back. Almost a hundred percent of the
time men respond to this barrier in the same way, as if they were
one person with one brain. They think that if a woman won't kiss
them back, she will not sleep with them.
To get sexual with her, they assume, they need to kiss her first and
to kiss her they need to build an emotional connection with her.
Sometimes it's important to build an emotional connection, making
her feel comfortable with you, before getting sexual with her. Other
times, however, it's not.
There are situations when trying to kiss a woman or attempting to
build an emotional connection with her will cripple your chances of
sleeping with her. Most men, however, are incompetent with a dash of
stupidity in these situations. This is because men's minds are
designed to process information in a logical and linear way. Women's
emotions, however, don't work in a linear fashion.
Men intuitively think, in order to sleep with a woman they have to
go through a linear sequence of steps. When women put up resistance,
many men construe it as a barrier they must break down to progress
to the next step. This usually ensues in more resistance.
So this begs the question: "What is the secret way, Swinggcat, for
handling women who like you but will not kiss you?"
I discovered this secret years ago while out one night with a woman
lumbered with one of the most perfect bodies I have ever seen. She
was wearing low cut jeans. As she walked her jeans began to slip
down...down down they slipped, down around the cheeks of her rear, a
perfect rim of thing, held up by the crotch of her pants. Not only
was I aroused, but focused on my goal: To score with this luscious
*babe*. I managed to get her into my bedroom. We sat and talked on
my bed. I remember she was wearing this low cut top. "She's really
working those breasts in there, bouncy bouncy," I thought to myself.
We started to cuddle. I was aroused - indeed. I went in for the
kill, smacking my lips against hers. I was, however, unpleasantly
surprised as she pushed me away. I made a few tragic tries at
connecting with her. Then made a few more frustrating attempts at
kissing her but she kept pushing me away. This put my teeth on edge.
To ease the frustration I started daydreaming about a hot bath, an
all you can eat buffet...and something to keep me going - a picture
of myself on a king size bed with two really hot girls, them kissing
each other, me kissing them. Then I drifted back to reality, and
started to agonize: "It's going to be impossible to get this girl to
kiss me."
"To ease my mind," I thought, "I will try something so impossible
that I won't even be able to fret over it succeeding. I am going to
attempt to sleep with her without even kissing her." So, this is
what I did: I spooned her from behind, started rubbing her thighs,
lowered her pants, and began stimulating her with my fingers. Did
she resist? Heck no! She, instead, started gyrating her hips, moving
herself up and down and around on my fingers. I, then, covered my
pecker with a Santa cap and went in for the kill. At first I was
cautious...but then her hip gyrations communicated to my pecker in
*sex* talk, "If you don't get inside I'm going to open up a can of
whoop-*ass* on you!" So, doing what every sane man's pecker would
do, it complied.
Here's what's weird:
Afterwards I tried to kiss her, but she pushed me away. Since then I
have realized, many women will sleep with a man, despite their
disinclination to get intimate with him.
This, my friends, is the crux of the issue:
Just because a woman resists being intimate with you, doesn't mean
she is not open to leeping with you. And sometimes trying to
emotionally connect with a woman will only make her resist more.
Am I saying, all women don't want an emotional connection? Not at
all - many do. There are, however, a lot of women closed to
emotionally connecting with a stranger...yet will jump into the sack
with one in a heart beat. Maybe, for example, these women are
married or on the rebound, have been hurt in a past relationship or
have a hard time trusting people they don't know, I dunno?
Nonetheless, these sorts of women not only exist but are abound.
Some women in committed
relationships are open to having sex with strangers, yet will not
kiss them. "This is because 'kissing' is meaningful, while sex is
just sex," to quote female friend of mine. Her words voice the
sentiments of a slice of the female population. This is not
something I endorse. It is important, however, to be aware that this
is the reality of some women.
The moral of the lesson is this: Attracting women is not always a
linear process. Although a lot of women need to feel comfortable and
have an emotional connection with a man before sleeping with him,
other females flee from these emotional connections. So, if you find
yourself confronted with a barrier, back up and assess the sort of
woman you are dealing with before proceeding further.
Being able to handle these barriers comes down to knowing how to set
strong frames, and read women. Both of these subjects are covered in
my book. This is information you won't find anywhere else.
Side note: I was talking to a friend of mine the other day about how
many people start off the New Year with a slew of New Year's
resolutions...yet they never follow through on any of them. I don't
know about you, but I've been guilty of this many times. The reality
is this: If you don't start working on your New Year's resolutions
right now, chances are, the year will go by without you
accomplishing any of them.
I have an intuition about you...
You really want more success with women and dating - otherwise you
wouldn't have read this far, right? So commit to making this year
the most successful year of your life you've ever had with women and
dating. Write down your goals with women and dating on paper
(research shows, writing goals down increases the likelihood that
you'll actually achieve them). And if you haven't read my book yet,
you need to do so right now. Much of the information you won't find
anywhere else. But more importantly, my book gives you a framework
to start taking immediate action on accomplishing your goals with
women and dating. So if haven't downloaded my book yet, do so right
now.
I don’t care if you
are bald or short or fat or broke…or whatever it is you feel is
preventing you from succeeding with women. ATTRACTION is not what a
woman prefers or how she judges you. ATTRACTION is how she responds
to you establishing yourself as the Prize combined with creating the
emotion inside her of wanting and reaching for more of you. As long
as you are able to establish yourself as the Prize, get them
emotionally wanting more of you, and suck them into your reality,
success with beautiful women is in your reach. If you are ready to
master these skills and start ATTRACTING the women you desire, pick
up a copy of my book today at:
this website
'Till next time,
Swinggcat
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