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Hey guys,
I want to share a secret with you that will blow your mind. Warning:
When you first hear this secret you might feel a bit disconcerted. If
you already have truck loads of experience with women you might think
to yourself, “Wow…someone else knows about this too!” If you are a
woman reading this, you might say to yourself, “No! – Now the male
world is going to be privy to the truth.”
Most guys who have at least some experience in the “dating game” have
encountered women who were ATTRACTED to them but would not kiss them.
Almost a hundred percent of the time men respond to this barrier in
the same way, as if they were one person with one brain. They think
that if a woman won’t kiss them, she will not have sex with them.
They assume to get sexual with her they need to kiss her first, and to
kiss her they need to build an emotional connection with her.
Sometimes it’s important to build an emotional connection, making her
feel comfortable with you, before getting sexual with her. Other
times, however, it’s not.
There are situations where trying to kiss a woman or build an
emotional connection with a woman will actually deter you from having
sex with her. Most men, however, are incompetent with a dash of
stupidity in these situations. This is because men’s minds are
designed to process information in a logical and linear way. Women’s
emotions, however, don’t work in a linear fashion.
Men intuitively think that in order to sleep with a woman they have to
go through a linear sequence of steps. When women put up resistance,
many men construe it as a barrier they must break down to progress to
the next step. This usually ensues in more resistance.
So this begs the question: “What is the secret way, Swinggcat, for
handling women who like you but will not kiss you?”
I discovered this secret many years ago while out one night with this
woman who is lumbered with one of the most perfect bodies I have ever
seen. She was wearing low cut jeans. As she walked her jeans began to
slip down, down down they slipped, down around the cheeks of her rear,
a perfect rim of thing, held up by the crotch of her pants. Not only
was I aroused, but focused on my goal: To score with this luscious
babe. I managed to get her into my bedroom. We sat and talked on my
bed. I remember she was wearing this low cut top. “She’s really
working those breasts in there, bouncy bouncy,” I thought to myself.
We started to cuddle. I was aroused – indeed. I went in for the kill,
smacking my lips against hers. I was, however, unpleasantly surprised
as she pushed me away. I made a few tragic tries at connecting with
her. Then made a few more frustrating attempts at kissing her but she
kept pushing me away. This started to put my teeth on edge. To ease
the frustration I started daydreaming about a hot bath, an all you can
eat buffet …and something to keep me going – a picture of myself on a
king size bed with two really hot girls, them kissing each other, me
kissing them. Then I drifted back to reality, and started to agonize:
“It’s going to be impossible to get this girl to kiss me.”
“To ease my mind,” I thought, “I will try
something so impossible that I won’t even be able to agonize over it
succeeding. I am going to attempt to have sex with her without even
kissing her.” So, this is what I did: I spooned her from behind,
started rubbing her thighs, lowered her pants, and started stimulating
her with my fingers. This ensued in sex.
Here’s what’s weird: Afterwards I tried to kiss her, but she pushed me
away. Since then I have realized that many women will have sex with a
man, despite their disinclination to get intimate with him.
This, my friends, is the crux of the issue: Just because a woman
resists being intimate with you, doesn’t mean she is not open to
having sex with you. And sometimes trying to emotionally connect with
a woman will only make her resist more.
Am I saying that all women don’t want an emotional connection? Not at
all – many do. There are, however, a lot women who are not open to
having an emotional connection with a stranger – maybe, for example,
they are married, or have been hurt in a past relationship, or have a
hard time trusting people they don’t know well – yet they are open to
having sex with one.
There are, furthermore, a number of women in committed relationships
who are open to having sex with strangers, yet will not kiss them.
“This is because ‘kissing’ is meaningful, while sex is just sex,” to
quote female friend of mine. Her words voice the sentiments of part of
the female population. This is not something I endorse. It is
important, however, to be aware that this is the reality of some
women.
The moral of the lesson is this: Attracting women is not always a
linear process. Although a lot of women need to feel comfortable and
have an emotional connection with a man before sleeping with him,
other females flee from these emotional connections. So, if you find
yourself confronted with a barrier, back up and assess the sort of
woman you are dealing with before proceeding further.
Being able to handle these barriers comes down to knowing how to set
strong frames, and read women. Both of these subjects are covered in
my book. I’m getting ready to release a ton of mind shattering
material. To benefit the most from it, you need to have read my book.
So, if you haven’t taken the chance to pick up a copy, do so today:
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Comments:
Dude if we ever meet I owe you dinner. I used to be so shy talking to
chicks at clubs. Your book has really changed that. I used your
qualifying and challenging technique to make out with a hotty in a bar
for the first time. Swinggcat, you da man!
A from Texas
My Comments:
Hearing this makes me feel that all of my effort is worth while. I would
love to use this as a testimonial on my webpage – cool? Keep up the good
work.
Question:
hi there…i have been having some good success with your meta intent
exercise from your charisma newsletter. I have always had a hard time
getting really good looking girl to keep talking to me. but since doing
the exercise they don’t want to leave me. they just keep wanting stay
longer. but I want to turn it physical. how do I do that?
My Comments:
Good job on doing the Meta-Intent exercise. I’m going to go out on a
limb, though, and guess that you haven’t read my book – am I right?
In my book I describe in great detail how to go from talking to a woman
to getting physical with her. This is a subject that is almost entirely
neglected by other dating experts. One of the specific techniques I talk
about in my book is “physical push-pull.” This is when you “physically”
pull a woman into you, and then “physically” push her away from you.
Doing this emotionally compels women to WANT to get physical with you.
Mastering this one skill - no matter what your skill with women
currently is - will increase your success with women by a minimum of
50%.
My book is probably the only place on the planet where you can learn
physical push-pull. So, take your success with women to the next level
by picking up a copy today.
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'Till next time,
Swinggcat
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