If you are unhappy
with your current level of success with women – don’t worry! You’re
about to learn secrets for generating ATTRACTION in women, compelling
them to chase you… and these secrets will work regardless of your
current weight, age, bank account, social status, or physical level of
attractiveness…(website)
Hey Guys,
In this article I’m going to share with you something that I talk about in my
book. If you aren’t currently doing what I am about to tell you, DOING
IT could increase your success with women a hundred and fifty
percent…if not more.
Whether you are looking for one-night-stands, threesomes, an awesome
girlfriend…or whatever, implementing what you’re about to learn will
rebound in a giant step towards your goal.
Whether you consider yourself to be a slithering lounge lizard, a
prodigious Casanova, a stand up guy, or a dilapidated ejaculate, if
you are not yet doing what I am about to tell you, doing it will turbo
charge your current success with women.
NOT DOING what I’m about to tell you is one of the biggest roadblocks
preventing men from ATTRACTING women.
What you are about to learn is probably nothing you haven’t already
heard. It, however, is one of the most neglected skills – especially
by guys learning how to ATTRACT and be more successful with women.
Before I tell you what this secret is, I am going to share a little
story with you. When I first became serious about mastering, what I
used to perceive as, the ego bruising “social minefields,” in order to
succeed with the women I desired, I befriended many guys trying, as
well, to get this area of their life out of the way.
Some of these guys considered themselves to be spineless little worms.
Others thought of themselves as full blown Casanovas. And a few felt
like Average Joes. Some were amazing at quickly getting women into
bed; while a few, alas, couldn’t, even if their life depended on it,
talk to a woman.
All of us became really close and formed a taskforce with one goal in
mind: To become more successful with women. I made a lot of good
friends, and witnessed a few of them do some amazing things, ranging
from making out with women in bars to occasionally having sex with a
woman they had just met.
Despite what looked to be great success, there was a dark, depressing
cloud brooding over us: None of us had any female friends. Some of the
group had female friends, but got rid of them, thinking that they
would take away time from attracting women. A few had never had a
female friend. When we went out we never were just hanging out. Our
only goal was to generate attraction in women. We did not have a
single morsel of interest interacting with women we felt weren’t
ATTRACTED to us. When entering a bar, women could feel our hunter
energy, a pack wolves waiting to attack. Even if one of us made out
with a woman, the night would usually end with just us guys.
Are you starting to get what’s wrong with this picture?
Good.
In my book, Real World Seduction, I talk about the importance of
making five female friends that fit the archetype of the sort of woman
you strive to ATTRACT.
Before breaking down the reasons for making at least five female
friends, I’m going to get crystal clear about what I mean by “making
friends with women.”
If you’re someone who sits around with their female friends, giving
each other hot pink manicures and pedicures, listening to their
problems with men, you’re in big trouble. Being friends with women is
not about you playing the big passive bottom in their “bitter at men”
gang bang. The only exception to this is if you are gay. My point:
Being friends with women is about treating them exactly how you treat
your guy friends. Women know you are not their girlfriends. When you
act like you are their girlfriend, they interpret it as an
unconvincing pretense used to get into their pants.
To reiterate: Being friends with women is about acting the way you
would around your guy friends.
Let’s discuss the reasons for making friends with women.
Reason # 1: You Will Be More
Comfortable Around Women In General:
Men who don’t have female friends are usually nervous and
uncomfortable around women, causing women to feel uncomfortable
around them. When a woman picks this sort of man up by the
proverbial scruff of his neck, and mercilessly tears him apart, like
a cheaply wrought rag doll, he becomes nervous and uncomfortable in
his own skin. This results in her becoming nervous and
uncomfortable. In her book, this will take you straight to the top
of the Creep-O-Meter.
Trying to make women feel comfortable around you when you are
uncomfortable in your own skin is usually a losing battle – and
often times leads to them feeling even more uncomfortable.
The best way I know to make women feel comfortable is to become
comfortable in your own skin and around women. The quickest road I
know to becoming comfortable in your own skin and around women is to
make female friends.
Reason # 2: You Will No Longer Need An
Endless Supply Of Pick Up Lines And Memorized Material To Be Successful
With Women:
I know some guys who are amazing at approaching women and initially
getting women attracted to them but as soon as they run out of rehearsed
material, things take a floundering turn for the awkward as they buckle
completely. One common scenario is that a guy will meet a woman and
succeed in generating the emotion inside her of wanting, chasing, and
reaching for more of him through using memorized material. She willingly
gives him her number. When he calls she has jamais vu (jamais vu is the
opposite of déjà vu: it is the illusion that you are encountering
something you have already experienced for the first time). It is like
she is talking to a total stranger and the emotion of her feeling
attraction towards him is long gone. Since he doesn’t know what to do
outside the realm of using memorized material, she treats him like a
random telemarketer trying to solicit her, cutting the phone call
abnormally short and hanging up. The problem is that this guy neither
understands women nor knows how to act around them. One of the best ways
for developing these skills is by being friends with women – especially
the type you strive to succeed with. Once you have taken the time to
implement the skills you learned from my book in the real world and have
made a few female friends, you’ll start to notice something cool
happening in your interactions with women: After talking to a woman for
a few minutes you’ll know exactly how to generate attraction with her,
without having to use rehearsed material. I’m not against using
memorized material – in fact, I’m a fan of it. But if you can only
interact with women using memorized material, you are in big trouble.
Reason # 3: Women Know When A Man Is Not Frequently Around Other
Women:
Women are clairvoyant when comes to knowing whether or not a man is
frequently around women. Women assume that if other females hang around
you, then you must be a cool guy. They assume, likewise, that if no
females hang around you, something might be wrong with you – bad thing!
This is pretty much herd mentality – go figure!
One of the big problems with a lot of the material on how to attract
women is that it only focuses on making you feel more confident about
yourself. As, alas, you might know, you can do all the affirmations in
the world, but if you don’t have the social skills to attract women,
you're out of luck.
Another blunder guys make when learning how to attract women is only
memorizing material to say to women. Only memorizing material without
understanding why you are doing it is a makeshift solution to attracting
and succeeding with women. By just memorizing a few pick up lines,
you’re cheating yourself out of really learning how to attract women. My
book has hundreds of powerful things to say to women. But these are only
examples to help you learn the skills needed for attracting women. My
belief is that people learn from a combination of explanation and
examples. If you ever purchase a product on attracting women that only
gives you explanations but no examples or examples – think pick up lines
– but no explanations, you are being cheated – big time!
My book takes you through hundreds of real world examples and
painstakingly breaks down the structure and purpose of these examples.
If you put forth the effort studying my book, you will never have to
memorize another person’s pick up lines or material again. Because you
will understand the underlying structure behind generating attraction
with women, allowing you to come up with your own material and lines. So
if you haven’t picked up my book, do today!
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'Till next time,
Swinggcat
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