Mindset # 3: Develop
A Willingness To Push Your Comfort Level
Maybe you've studied a library full of books on body language,
memorizing all of the signs indicating that women feel attraction
toward a man.
But perhaps when women display these attraction signals you don't
feel, in your heart of hearts, they're attracted to you. I dunno?
This used to describe me to a tee.
What I've discovered is that when women display these attraction
signals it's imperative to push your comfort level by going in for
the kiss, even if you hear your gut reaction shouting, "She feels no
attraction for YOU!" When you, for example, read or hear about these
attraction signals, it becomes a possibility in your mind that when
women display these signals, they feel attraction toward YOU.
But when a woman displays the attraction signals and YOU get up the
gall to kiss her and she kisses you back, something magical
happens...
It Becomes Your Reality That When Women Display These Signals, They
Feel Attraction Toward You.
Your belief transforms from mere possibility into your full fledged
reality. Now for the main course: Swinggcat's Method For Kissing
Women... Without Rejection.
Has a woman ever displayed attraction signals toward you - twirling
her hair, touching you, giggling like a four year old child, giving
you that "F me now you big boy" look... and so on - yet when you
dove in for the kiss, to the horror of your self-esteem, she pushed
you away?
If this hasn't happened to you, I'm willing to bet at some point
during your life it will.
Even when a woman pushes you away, there's still a good possibility
she feels attraction toward you.
"Then why would she push me away?" you might be asking yourself.
Because, my friend, she was playing a special type of attraction
game (or a mating ritual) with You. Socially and sexually adept
women intuitively grasp the rules of this game. This game is a form
of what I call "Push-Pull."
Push-Pull is whenever you emotionally push a woman away from
you...and, then, emotionally pull her back in.
Each Push creates an emotional space for each Pull.
Imagine, to get a feel for this, a teacher who's critical toward one
of his students. Once in a blue moon, however, he feeds them a
sliver of praise. The student feels elated. But if he praises the
student constantly, the emotional impact will lessen because...
He Will Not Be Creating The Needed Emotional Space.
Women understand this because this is how they get aroused.
When a man, for example, does something to stimulate a woman... and
then stops and then starts again, she becomes exponentially more
aroused. This is "Sexual Push-Pull." Let's push forward into the
attraction trenches...
GIVING WOMEN "THE LOOK"
When you want to kiss a woman, give her "the look." Do you know what
"the look" is?
It's dominant with a dash of playfulness. A carnal gesture used to
strip away all pretenses, leaving her psychically naked and
vulnerable. The dominant part reveals the little girl in her.
The playful part brings out the innocent little boy in you - think
of the enthusiasm and the excitement little kids have about going to
a toy store or to Disneyland. The look communicates to women: "No
ifs ands or buts about it, we're gonna kiss. And it is gonna be a
lot of fun for the both of us."
INTRUDING THEIR PERSONAL BUBBLE
You also need to intrude a woman's personal bubble. All women have a
personal bubble. And usually they only let people they are intimate
with or close to into their personal bubble.
If you, however, couple intruding a woman's personal bubble with
giving her "the look," she'll almost always let you in. Once a woman
accepts a man in her personal space, she views him as someone she's
intimate with or is open to becoming intimate with.
MAKING PHYSICAL CONTACT
Another piece of the puzzle is getting physical contact with a
woman. You need to be touching her in some way. For me, I like
holding their hands or putting my hand on the sacrum of their back.
When you combine "the look," with touch and with intruding her
personal bubble, something magical happens...
She feels a rush of attraction moving through her body. She's
paralyzed. Stupefied. Titillated. Aroused. In a trance like state.
You move in closer to her, suggesting you're about to kiss her. Then
you pause, yet continue to give her The Look.
You've sparked the fire of an emotional and sexual connection in her
body and mind. She's excited and compelled to move in closer to you.
Then you push her away, making her feel the moment never happened.
The emotional and sexual connection? Just a figment of her
imagination.
Then you pull her in again, bringing back that emotional and sexual
connection. Then push her away.
At this point she might feel she's crazy or think of herself as a
nut job who forgot to take her lithium. She might - and this has
happened to me many times - grab you and start ravenously kissing
you. If she doesn't grab you, grab her and start passionately
kissing her.
There's no rejection because it's a game. I've used this method
successfully on women who flat out told me from the get-go, they
felt no attraction toward me.
Some men might think this is cruel to put women through. But these
men just don't get it.
It's the moral equivalent of killing a car, chopping off the head of
a Barbie doll, or erasing a computer disk. Women love this...
because it shows them that you're in control of your desires and
demonstrates that you understand how they get aroused.
This is only a tiny tiny sliver of what you'll learn inside my
ebook. This knowledge took me many long hours of experimenting to
discover. And you won't find these secrets anywhere else in the
world.
If there's even a small part of you that wants to possess the power
to get intimate with any woman you desire, then you owe it to
yourself to get a world class education on attracting and getting
intimate with women by grabbing a copy of my ebook right now.
A final thought: Maybe you're thinking that you'll put off learning
these skills for a few months because you're bogged down at work or
financially strapped?
If you put off learning these skills now, there's a chance you'll
put them off forever. That's why my philosophy has always been:
"Live your dream life to its fullest."
That means equipping yourself with the skills and tools to live your
dream life. So take control of the life you want to start living by
getting your hands on a my ebook right now, my friend.
I don’t care if you
are bald or short or fat or broke…or whatever it is you feel is
preventing you from succeeding with women. ATTRACTION is not what a
woman prefers or how she judges you. ATTRACTION is how she responds
to you establishing yourself as the Prize combined with creating the
emotion inside her of wanting and reaching for more of you. As long
as you are able to establish yourself as the Prize, get them
emotionally wanting more of you, and suck them into your reality,
success with beautiful women is in your reach. If you are ready to
master these skills and start ATTRACTING the women you desire, pick
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'Till next time,
Swinggcat
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