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them to chase you… and these secrets will work regardless of your
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Important Note: I've
packed some powerful Push-Pull concepts and techniques into this
article. (If you don't know what Push-Pull is, read this article in
its entirety. Every guy I know who's amazing with women uses some
form of Push-Pull - even if he's not consciously aware of it. If
you're NOT currently using Push-Pull, there's a very good
possibility using it could mushroom your current success with
women).
Question & Success Story:
To the genuine Dr. of Attraction,
I have read your ebook cover-to-cover and keep going back to it for
reference. I've tried a lot of other ebooks, cds, dvds etc and wish
I'd found your ebook first. From your book I realized that EVERY
time I have got the girl, it has been because I have framed myself
as the PRIZE.
Success story: The *one* super hot girl in my department
(computing!) was sitting behind me in the lecture hall. The seats
have a gap at the bottom and she 'accidentally' touched my arse with
her foot:
ME "Can you stop touching my arse please? If you want to touch me,
tell me a funny joke or an interesting story first, I'm not just a
sausage with feet!"
She had a split second of shock on her face before bursting out
laughing and giggling with her friends periodically for the rest of
the lecture. I turned back cool as you like to continue taking
notes. As I left the lecture theatre she was walking behind me with
her friends:
ME "can you stop stalking me please? I mean all I know about you is
that you have good fashion taste, so I forgive you but you should at
least introduce yourself"
HER "ok, I'm ..."
ME "ok ..., I'm off now but you can give me your number"
HER "ok" (writes number)
Long story short: We are now buddies of the fornication variety.
Question: I have no problems with women when I am alone and all they
have to judge me on is how I act with them. However, my male friends
are natural leaders where I am not and if women see this it drops my
PRIZABILITY. I am wondering what meta-frame I should set to be the
leader I am with my girl and my friends?
The sausage with feet,
N.B, Manchester, UK.
Swinggcat's comments:
Consider yourself lucky to have natural leader friends. A woman
isn't gonna stop feeling attraction toward you because your friends
are natural leaders. Or think you're any less of a man. If anything,
having natural leader friends will increase your value in a woman
eyes. It's called "social proof."
Word of Caution: If a woman notices you acting different around your
friends or witnesses your friends disrespecting you, any attraction
she felt risks being put to its demise. Fried in the electric chair
to cinders. If your friends don't respect you, my advice, get some
new ones.
On another note: You, my friend, have mutated yourself into a
walking, talking sausage with feet. And have helped pound the myth
"computer guys can't get beautiful women" into jelly. Good job. Give
yourself a pat on the back.
"I have read your ebook cover-to-cover and keep going back to it for
reference."
I've gotten a lot of emails from guys telling me they read my book
cover-to-cover and through putting into practice the tools they
learned, their success with women exploded beyond what they use to
think was possible. Then months later they went back to my book as a
reference guide to improve on specific skill sets and sticking
points, resulting in their success with women ballooning to an even
higher level.
"From your book I realized that EVERY time I have got the girl, it
has been because I have framed myself as the PRIZE."
Me too. That's why I wrote a book on it. I've noticed that genuine
success with women is next to impossible without compelling the
woman to FEEL you're the Prize. Most guys agree with me on this. The
problem is: How do You establish yourself as the Prize when
interacting with women? Looks and money? I suppose these things
could help.
But most of us don't look like movie stars and don't sport Bill
Gates size bank accounts.
That's why I've developed a method for establishing Yourself as the
Prize without the need for good looks or a giant bank account.
Instead of feeling
manipulated, women will sigh, "Finally a real man."
This method exploits some simple psychological truths. So simple and
obvious and right in front of people's faces, most aren't aware they
exist.
"ME "Can you stop touching my arse please? If you want to touch me,
tell me a funny joke or an interesting story first, I'm not just a
sausage with feet!""
This is great. Our culture has hoisted "getting to touch women
sexually" up on a high pedestal. Some women exploit this by making
their living selling the right to "sexually" touch them for beau
coup bucks. It's called "prostitution."
What you did, my man, was bait your fishing pole with a bonbon, cast
your line up to her pedestal. And then, hot damn! - She took the
bait, chomping down on that delicious bonbon, and she was hooked.
You reeled her in down off her throne and into your reality...and
the rest is history.
Let's break down in plain English what you did:
1) Instead of acting like a dumb ass and putting value on getting to
touch her, You did the opposite. You put a value on her getting to
touch you. The subtext of your words was: "If you want to touch me
you're gonna have to earn it." You established that you're the Prize
she wants to win over.
2) You exploited one of the big secrets to comedy: doing or saying
something unexpected. Women are so used to guys putting value on
getting to "sexually" touch them that they feel surprised and
titillated when a man does the opposite: When he puts a value on
them getting to touch him. Because it's so unexpected, most women
are put in stitches. When women are laughing their guard comes
tumbling down, making the attraction process exponentially easier.
3) Women have sexual power over most men. Many women know, for
example, their sexuality compels many men to buy them gifts. In
male/female interactions, to give you another example, it's the
woman who decides, most females think, if they're gonna sleep
together. Women don't always exploit these sexual powers. But they
know they are there. And they know most men are oblivious to them.
Many a woman dream about meeting a man with sexual power over her.
Not a rapist or a wife beater. But a man that compels her to want to
surrender to him. He's aware of women's sexual power and knows how
to take it away from them in an attractive way. This is exactly what
YOU did.
Is this derisive or manipulative to do to women? Not at all. Women
are so used to men bending over backwards to get the opportunity to
sexually touch them that they're bored.
Novel and exciting for women is interacting with a man having the
gall to reverse the sexual dynamic. This takes away their sexual
power compelling them to surrender to him, and builds heaps of
emotional and sexual tension. Women love this and sexually respond
to it. It's flirting at its best.
Opportunities to reverse the sexual power of your interactions with
women are abound. In my book you'll discover the meta-frame: A tool
that gives you the eyes to recognize these sexual dynamics and then
reverse them, emotionally compelling the woman to want and reach and
chase for more of you. Just imagine one moment, a woman asking you
to buy her a drink, you applying the meta-frame, and the next, she's
offering to buy YOU a drink and can't keep her little paws off you.
There's some simple yet powerful psychology that makes the
Meta-Frame consistently successful. But I'm NOT gonna reveal this
psychology here.
"ME "can you stop stalking me please? I mean all I know about you is
that you have good fashion taste, so I forgive you but you should at
least introduce yourself"
Now that's money. Women love this. This isn't mean. It's playful
banter. You used a special type of tension loop called "Push-Pull."
A Tension Loop is when you do something to create unresolved
emotional tension inside a woman, increase it, release it by
bringing closure to it, and then spark it all over again. This will
keep her feeling the emotion of wanting and reaching and chasing for
more of you.
Soap opera writers use Tension Loops to keep women enraptured in
their fictitious dramas for months - sometimes years! The structure
is always the same. The soap starts off with some form of conflict
or drama, sparking unresolved emotional tension. Emotional tension
increases up until the point of the climax. The tension, then, is
released by bringing some resolution to the conflict or drama. And,
finally, the show ends by sparking the tension all over again,
compelling women to tune in for next week's show.
A special type of Tension Loop is called "Push-Pull." Push-Pull is
whenever you emotionally push a woman away from you...and, then,
emotionally pull her back in. Each Push creates an emotional space
for each Pull. To get a sense of what I'm getting at, think, for
example, of your favorite junk food. What if you went on a strict
diet for several weeks, depriving yourself of giving in to your urge
to eat your favorite food? What would it be like to finally give in
to your urge and indulge? I'm willing to bet it would be more
intense than if you hadn't gone on your strict diet, yes?
When You told her "Can you stop stalking me please?" you were
pushing her away from you. But then YOU grabbed her by the scruff of
her proverbial neck and pulled her into you with: "I mean all I know
about you is that you have good fashion taste, so I forgive you but
you should at least introduce yourself."
Love it. Where most guys go wrong with Push-Pull is that they're all
Push and no Pull (or, conversely, all Pull and no Push).
Some guys constantly Push women away, giving them no validation
whatsoever. Sometimes this works. But oftentimes women interpret
this as meaning the guy is a mean, manipulative, untrustworthy jerk.
Other guys incessantly try to Pull women in by showering them with
compliments and barraging them with attention. This rarely works -
especially when first meeting a woman...because it doesn't give
women any emotional space, leaving them feeling claustrophobic.
Also, it communicates to women that the man is needy for validation
and approval. When men act this way women think: "He's not the
Prize." As you know, women feel no attraction toward men who aren't
the Prize.
Women, in my experience, DON'T trust men who are all Pull. They
think, "Why's he being so nice to me? Is he, maybe, trying to get
something from me?"
I find it best to mix Push with Pull. Here and there, give her a
hard time, challenge her, bust her ball her balls...and so on, while
now and then sprinkling in compliments, giving her hints that you
like and accept her (If you've studied my book you know how to Push
a woman away from you and Pull her in, at the Exact same time.
Powerful, isn't it?). This combo is lethal, driving women to think
to themselves, "there's something dangerously sexy about this guy
but I can't put my finger on it."
Push/Pull is the crème de la crème of attraction tools. Master
Push/Pull and you'll leave women no choice but to feel attraction
toward you...even if they're repulsed by your physical appearance.
Realize that this is an article and I'm only scratching the surface
of Push/Pull. In my book, you'll learn six types of Push/Pull:
Intentional Undermining, Guilty Conscience, Emotional Rollercoaster,
Revealing & Concealing, and Good Cop/ Bad Cop. You'll discover body
language techniques for using Push/Pull and read about a powerful
Push/Pull secret for getting physical with a woman...even if she
tells you, she's not attracted to you. My book is the only place on
the planet where you'll learn about Push/Pull. This, however, only
scratches the surface of what you'll gain from my attraction guide.
It's a complete education on attracting women, giving you the tools
to transform yourself into the kind of man women feel attraction
toward. Just think what it will be like to finally have the skills
and confidence to plop your butt in the driver's seat while
interacting with women, giving you the power and choice to take your
interactions with them in the direction you want. Start getting this
area of your life taken care of right now by downloading my book.
I don’t care if you
are bald or short or fat or broke…or whatever it is you feel is
preventing you from succeeding with women. ATTRACTION is not what a
woman prefers or how she judges you. ATTRACTION is how she responds
to you establishing yourself as the Prize combined with creating the
emotion inside her of wanting and reaching for more of you. As long
as you are able to establish yourself as the Prize, get them
emotionally wanting more of you, and suck them into your reality,
success with beautiful women is in your reach. If you are ready to
master these skills and start ATTRACTING the women you desire, pick
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'Till next time,
Swinggcat
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