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your current level of success with women – don’t worry! You’re about
to learn secrets for generating ATTRACTION in women, compelling them
to chase you… and these secrets will work regardless of your current
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Hey guys,
If you have been following my newsletters you probably have noticed
that I have been revealing some big pieces to the puzzle on generating
ATTRACTION in women. Today I am going to share with you something that
most guys - even guys who are good with women - don't consciously
know. Knowing this secret could very well sky rocket your success with
women.
Before moving on to this secret, I am going to review some basics. As
you probably know if you have read my book and been reading my
newsletters, ATTRACTION is not what women prefer. The collective
female prefers a baby faced, tall muscular man, blessed with a monster
sized sausage and a tongue with a gifted touch. Why do you think boy
bands rake in so much cash? Hello!! - this is what women prefer. This,
however, is not what ATTRACTION is.
ATTRACTION is what you do to a woman's mind and body. The “body” part
is creating the emotion inside her of wanting and reaching for more of
you, which in my book I call PRIZING. The “mind” part is you
establishing that you are the PRIZE to be won over, which in my book I
call PRIZABILITY.
Before you can start PRIZING a woman - generating inside her the
emotion of wanting, reaching, and chasing for more of you - you must
establish PRIZABILITY.
A powerful method for establishing PRIZABILITY with a woman is
conveying that you are of slightly higher perceived value than her.
Higher perceived value means: her believing that she has more to gain
from you than you do from her. Am I saying that you should establish
this through promising expensive gifts and buying her lots of
overpriced drinks? No!! Doing this would only establish that you are
her human ATM machine. Bad thing!
Am I suggesting that you establish PRIZABILITY by treating her like a
jerk? Not at all!
Establishing higher perceived value is about you conveying to her that
she has more to gain from you than you do from her because of who you
are.
Establishing PRIZABILITY - establishing that you are the PRIZE - sets
the groundwork for generating ATTRACTION with a woman. If you
currently are not as good as you could be at establishing PRIZABILITY
you need to get my book today. By not having mastered this skill, you
are cheating yourself out of a lot of success with women. My book goes
into painstaking detail on exactly what steps you need to take to
consistently establish PRIZABILITY with women. Start mastering the art
of PRIZABILITY now by getting my book:
this website
Another key concept for
generating massive ATTRACTION with women is having a strong intent.
Having a strong intent is having the DESIRE and the WILL to do what
needs to be done to achieve a particular outcome, coupled with the
unwavering belief that you will achieve this intended outcome.
If a person has the DESIRE and the WILL to
do what needs to be done to succeed with a woman but does not have the
BELIEF that he can, he will come across as needy. If you do not yet
have a strong intent, reread my article “Demystifying Charisma,” and
reread the chapter in my book on beliefs.
Okay, we got the basics out of the way. Now for the secret most guys
DON'T KNOW. But first, I am going to tell you how I discovered this
secret. Around three years ago while hanging out at a bookstore I met
a woman lumbered with one of the most spectacular bodies I have ever
seen. She, furthermore, happened to be bisexual and into having
threesomes!! Her and I really hit it off, and ended up having sex in
the bookstore's parking lot. Afterwards, I tried coaxing her into
having a threesome with me. She, alas, resisted. This frustrated me
and I sought advice. One guy gave me some golden advice.
To paraphrase his words, “One of the worst things you can do when
trying to get a woman to have a threesome with you is ASSUMING that it
is a big
deal. Instead assume it is NO BIG DEAL, and a lot of fun. Pitch the
idea to her the same way, for example, you would suggest that it would
be fun for the two of you to get ice cream.”
These words apply to more than having threesomes with women. Whatever
your intended outcome with a woman is - whether it is, for example,
getting her number, getting her to go on a date with you, or getting
her back to your house - ASSUME IT'S NO BIG DEAL, and a lot of fun.
Women are like professional psychics when it comes to picking up on
when MEN ASSUME that something is a big deal. Even if we don't
explicitly communicate that we think something is a big deal, women
somehow always intuitively know. I have a female friend of mine who
told me that she always knows when a guy is scared to kiss her. “When
a man thinks it is a big deal to kiss a girl he unconsciously displays
all sorts of nervous and indecisive body movements conveying his
fear,” she told me.
Assuming that something is a big deal can
stifle your chances of achieving your intended outcome in two ways.
One is that by doing this you are lowering your perceived value in her
eyes. She will stop seeing you as a PRIZE to be won over. When you
ASSUME, for example, that it is a really big deal to ask for a girl's
number, it conveys to her that she is of higher of value than you. By
doing this you are, unknowingly, ESTABLISHING that she is the PRIZE to
be won over, not you.
Two is that when women intuit you assuming that something is a big deal,
they begin to believe it is a big deal as well. How women feel about
doing something with you is oftentimes a mirror image of how you feel
about doing something with them. If you are nervous, they will become
nervous too. If you, for example, ASSUME getting a woman to go out with
you is a big deal, she will pick up on your nervous energy and feel the
same way.
When you, however, ASSUME that achieving your intended outcome with a
woman is NO BIG DEAL, your perceived value in her eyes will increase.
Furthermore, ASSUMING that your intended outcome is NO BIG DEAL will
often times put a woman at ease making her assume that your intended
outcome is no big deal. When you have perceived value in a woman's eyes
and she construes your intended outcome as no big deal, it makes it very
easy to get what you want.
There have been women I have slept with after only knowing them for a
short amount of time - in some cases, as short as twenty five minutes! I
was able to do this because I ASSUMED it was no big deal, and a lot of
fun.
Also, if a woman puts up resistance when trying to kiss her, DON'T
become distraught. Instead, keep your composure by ASSUMING it to be no
big deal. Then, try again a few minutes later using my physical
push-push technique from my book.
Of course having the mindset that achieving your intended outcome is no
big deal is easier to achieve if you have the skill sets for both
establishing yourself as the PRIZE and creating the emotion inside a
woman of her wanting, reaching, chasing for more of you. As far as I
know, my book is the only available material that goes into extreme
depth, breaking down these skill sets into a step-by-step easy to learn
system. Start living the life you deserve by picking up a copy of Real
World Seduction today:
this website
P.S., I decided to give my webpage a facelift. So, even if you already
have my book, come visit me and tell me what you think of the new look.
this website
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Swinggcat responding to emails:
Comment:
Hey, thanks for the ebook...and I'm f***ing serious. I'm loving what you
have to say in your book man. $40 was well worth it and I'm only on the
beliefs section. I've been going about figuring this stuff out on my own
for years and have definitely started formulating the ideas that you're
talking about in the book but you have just fucking put it all out there
crystal clear. Thanks.
J from NY
My response:
Thanks man! If you are finding my book useful, then you will definitely
enjoy some of the products I will be releasing in the near future. This
stuff is going to be the next level. Once
again, thanks for the praise.
Question:
I would like to go out with this chick but I have a problem. I know her
too much from her family and her current boyfriend, etc. so even if I
make a move on her she just takes it in a friendly way now I'm confused
coz I love her and I don't wanna let go.
B from South Africa
My response:
By you putting all of your focus of attention on this one special girl,
my friend, you are putting a lot of importance on your intended outcome.
Most likely this mindset will push her away from you. Putting this much
importance on a girl you have not even slept with will lower your
perceived value. Put in other words, she will not see you as the PRIZE.
And as you know if you have read my book, women are ATTRACTED to men who
are the PRIZE. Your best chance of ATTRACTING her is for you to stop
making her your world. Go out and live your life. I don't believe there
is only one ideal person for us; I think there are many. I know,
however, when we really like someone it can feel that way - I've been
there before. If you go out and start meeting other women, you will open
yourself up to all sorts of wonderful opportunities. Not only will you
be a happier person for doing this, but you will stop appearing so needy
to this girl.
Comment:
I have to say that I have been applying some of your techniques - mainly
cold readings and chicks love this. So much so that I was invited to the
home of one hottie simply after doing a cold reading - I told her "you
seem like a woman at a crossroads in life, there is a part of you that
wants and needs to let go, yet you know that it has to be with the right
person." It works like magic. I had an msn thread that I was going to
send you but I lost where I was doing this to this one hottie and she
was literally melting with desire. The push pull technique also works
extremely well. Good work man
M from Canada
My response:
Awesome man. I think cold reading is a great way of establishing
PRIZABILITY with a woman. This sets the groundwork for PRIZING:
generating the emotion inside a woman of wanting, reaching, and chasing
for more of you. Good job.
Question:
Hi
I would like to ask you how to make a chick to be attracted. How can I
get her address and phone number in 3 min? What can I talk to her about?
What should and shouldn't I say?
Igor from Chicago
My response:
I am not getting the impression you have read Real World Seduction, my
man! Do yourself a favor and pick up a copy.
Comments:
Man, I've been absorbing attraction information for the past 12months,
reading and listening to everything that's available on the net, and
nobody, f***ing NOBODY - explained this sh*t so divinely as you did.
I'm referring to STEP 1 'Defining the meta frame'
I felt it on the inside, this shift, this huge fu**ing shift and it drew
up this visual in my mind, and I saw it all so clearly. And suddenly I
get this stuff so much deeper now
Thank you.
D from United Kingdom
My Response:
Right on man! I know from experience that when a person begins having
clarity and understanding of the skills needed to ATTRACT women, his
confidence and success skyrocket. If you do not yet have the clarity and
understanding of the skills needed to generate massive ATTRACTION in
women, allowing you to harbor the confidence and experience the success
only a handful of men have, pick up a copy of my book today.
this website
'Till next time,
Swinggcat
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