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Hi Swinggcat,
I have to tell you, your book has astounded me. Since I got divorced
2 1/2 years ago, I've had one date, with a girl who told me that she
used to weigh 300 pounds before her tummy tuck surgery, and that her
father was the head of the Iranian Mafia here in Oklahoma (I shit
you not)
In other words, I've been a total chump with women. Then I read your
book at 3am Saturday night, and then went to a bridal show the next
day. I used one of your push-pull technique with some guy's
girlfriend, and she kept hanging out with me, bringing me
chocolate-covered strawberries, etc. until her boyfriend got pissed
and led her away. Later that night we all went to dinner and I ended
up sitting next to a smoking runway model from the fashion show. I
used your techniques again, and had her laughing at my jokes,
touching my arm and leg, eating off my plate, feeding me her food,
etc. I even ordered her to pay me 10 cents for the French fry she
stole, and she immediately dug into her purse and gave me a quarter.
I went home feeling like superman. This chick was 24 years old,
thin, gorgeous. I'm a 30 year old, 245 lb., glasses-wearing dude who
lives in a one room apartment.
I was saying really nice things to these chicks, compliments that I
never would have said before because I was afraid of being "too
nice." Then I'd turn around and say something to completely
undermine the compliment. I never would have done this before in
fear that I'd look like a jerk.
One of my friends was there, a nerdy looking, effeminate computer
geek who seems to have a new hot girlfriend every week.
I watched him talk to a girl, and he was very animated and had a big
smile on his face as he talked to her, but he had his arms crossed
and his body turned away from her. Just like in the book. Then he
changed to an open posture. Then back.
I tell you, your book has explained every damned question I've ever
had about women, about friends who where good with girls, and about
my own lameness. Thank you so much. It's almost scary to think of
how good I'm going to be when I've re-read the book several times
and mastered the techniques. I read it again today and saw several
more things that I could have done even better.
I from Oklahoma
My Comments:
Big round of applause for you bro. I can tell you're starting to
understand the ins-and-outs of making women tick.
"I even ordered her to pay me 10 cents for the French fry she stole,
and she immediately dug into her purse and give me a quarter. I went
home feeling like superman." Great stuff man. Love it. Hilarious.
This also reinforced to her that you're a Prize she has to earn.
Many male-female interactions go down like this: Boy meets girl.
Girl is charmed by Boy. Boy poops his pants in excitement that girl
likes him and, then, starts acting like a dilapidated ejaculate.
Not you. You kept going, reinforcing to her that you were the Prize
and if she wanted you, well, she'd have to work for it.
"I was saying really nice things to these chicks, compliments that I
never would have said before because I was afraid of being 'too
nice.' Then I'd turn around and say something to completely
undermine the compliment. I never would have done this before in
fear that I'd look like a jerk."
Amen brother! You get it. Too many people are still stuck in the
nice guy/jerk paradigm. Some think you have to act like a nice guy
to attract women. Others think you have to behave like a jerk.
Acting like a nice guy or a jerk, however, has nothing to do with
attracting women.
Those not
understanding the underlying mechanisms of generating attraction
might misinterpret playful banter and effective flirting as
mistreating a woman. But generating attraction in women is neither
nice nor mean. How you use the attraction you've generated, however,
has moral implications. My point - generating attraction in women, in and of itself, will make you neither a nice
guy nor a jerk.
You also put to use two of my techniques for attracting women:
Push/Pull and Tension Loops (If you do not know what Push/Pull or
Tension Loops are, pop me an email and I'll send you some articles
explaining these very powerful concepts. If you want a complete
education on Push/Pull and Tension Loops, well then, you need to
start reading my book).
"I tell you, your book has explained every damned question I've ever
had about women, about friends who where good with girls, and about
my own lameness. Thank you so much. It's almost scary to think of
how good I'm going to be when I've re-read the book several times
and mastered the techniques. I read it again today and saw several
more things that I could have done even better."
I don't doubt for a second that you'll become amazing with women.
You get it. Once again, good job.
Dear Swinggcat:
I like the e-book so far. I just want to mention that your
explanation of meta-frames and how to be "the prize" is worth the
price of the book alone.
This one hottie who was into me thought she'd throw in, "Oh, my
friend here, yeah, she's my girlfriend, sorry," to which I replied,
"Good, she can cook us breakfast in bed in the morning," She almost
died of laughter, attraction exploded and she was puddy in my hands.
So powerful. Love it. Just thought I'd let you know.
J from Denver
My Comments:
Glad you're getting a lot of use out of that line. This girl thought
she'd throw you a curve ball and you threw it right back at her,
establishing and maintaining that you're the Prize. Nice.
Question:
There is this girl I've fancied for ages and she also has two hot
sisters and a friend! After reading some of your newsletters, I have
put some of your strategies into action. Instead of getting the girl
I fancy to feel attraction for me. I managed to get all four girls
to feel huge attraction to me! How good is that? By asking open
questions to one girl and flirting with one of the girls, I managed
to get all the girls into competitive mode and succeeded in getting
all of these girls to feel hugely attracted to me!
However, what do I do if the really really hot girl will not go out
with me, because all the other girls also fancy and feel attracted
to me?
If you could answer this question, then I would be more than
grateful!
Thanks for your advice
K Scotland
My Comments:
"After reading some of your newsletters, I have put some of your
strategies into action. Instead of getting the girl I fancy to feel
attraction for me. I managed to get all four girls to feel huge
attraction to me! How good is that?"
You little pimp, you - good job!
"By asking open questions to one girl and flirting with one of the
girls, I managed to get all the girls into competitive mode and
succeeded in getting all of these girls to feel hugely attracted to
me!"
Ah yes...the power of social proof. I should do a whole newsletter
just on this topic.
"...what do I do if the really really hot girl will not go out with
me, because all the other girls also fancy and feel attracted to
me?"
Her friends wanting you can only increase your chances with the hot
girl. I think Chris Rock put it best when he said: "When a man
introduces his new girlfriend to his friend, when they walk away,
his friend is like 'Wow, she's nice. I gotta get me a girl like
that.' When a woman introduces her new man to her girlfriend, when
they walk away, her girlfriend is like 'I gotta get me him! And I'll
slit that bitch's throat to do it!'"
Question:
Hello Swinggcat,
I just singed up for your newsletter. I'm working on the tension
loop exercise, and I've seemed to hit a wall more or less. The
example you gave was great, and I came up with two of my own.
Accuse a woman of not being able to dance, and if she responds that
she can say, "Well let's go" (onto the dance floor) Opportunity to
get a dance, tease her and NOT grind all over her like she probably
thinks you will. After one or two songs, end the dance and
say..."Hmmm, you proved me wrong. You get an A for effort...but
really, you do need to work on a few steps"
2nd one - "I don't know about you...I like a woman that can cook..."
She responds that she can, etc etc .. Respond with..."oh yeah, so
what's your specialty? "If she responds by telling you her specialty
say, "maybe you do have some cooking skills...but can you clean
too?"
Can you let me know if these are on target or not? I'm having a hard
time thinking of other subjects to create tension loops out of.
Thanks.
Oh...I'll be purchasing your book this Friday (payday)
Thanks
M from Maryland
My Comments:
Just for a review: a tension loop is when you do something to create
unresolved emotional tension inside a woman, increase it, release it
by bringing closure to it, and then spark it all over again. This
will keep her feeling the emotion of wanting and reaching and
chasing for more of you.
Get my book. There are heaps of examples in there. You'll have a
good understanding of how to use these techniques once you've read
through it.
Your first example of a tension loop isn't bad. I like it. I might
try: "Wow, you're more adventurous than I thought. You get an A-
and...you have permission to take me out dancing sometime."
Read what I just wrote a few times. There's a lot of power
psychology in there. I published something very similar to your
second example a few years back. So, of course, I like it. You might
want to make it a bit stronger by asking her what her specialty is
and if it really is something you like say: "Mm...I love that. You
have permission to cook it for me."
Question:
I have read through your advice. I subscribed and am receiving your
newsletters. The latest news letter I got from you this morning
portrayed my encounter with a girl. I approached this girl last
year. I opened a conversation with her and she responded, but when I
asked her if she loves me, she held her word for a while, and after
2 minutes told me that she would give me the reply later. Till date
she has not given me the answer whether she loves me or not. She
comes to my house if I invite her and accepts my hugs but will not
let me kiss her. I don't know what to do, please help.
P. from Washington
My Comments:
Sounds like she's the one who's been receiving my newsletters. Are
you sure she hasn't read my book? I'm going to go out on a limb and
guess she feels no attraction toward you because...
You're acting needy and desperate, and thinking way too much about
her feelings toward you. You're brooding about her not loving you.
And fretting over why she won't kiss you back. You're dwelling on
how to win her over. Right?
"How do you know this?" you might be asking yourself. Because I've
been in this situation about a billion times. Situations where women
feel attraction toward men who are short or bald or fat or old or
poor...or whatever, are abound.
I'd really have to rack my brain, though, to think of even one case
of a woman feeling attraction toward a needy and desperate man.
Women feel attraction toward men who believe and act and establish
themselves as the Prize.
Word of caution: Letting your belief that you are the Prize hinge on
that one special girl feeling attraction toward you is worse than
tying a noose around your neck and hanging yourself. You're,
unknowingly, decreeing her as master of your desires, tribunal of
your worth, and the Goddess of your reality. By putting this much
value on her, my friend, you're depending on her to validate and
confirm your beliefs about what is possible. All of this is very
sweet and endearing and romantic. But you're serving her your
proverbial balls on a platter. Women are repulsed by men who do this
because...
It demonstrates that they are insecure and needy lost little lambs,
looking for a leader to tell them what to do, what to feel, and what
to believe.
When you look to others to confirm and validate your reality it
communicates, you don't have a reality.
Get your own reality. Then, if you want to attract women like a rock
star, develop the confidence and balls to suck others into your
reality. They'll appreciate and love you more for it.
Ninety-eight percent of the books on dating and attracting women are
chock full of skills for getting women to accept you in their
reality. Developing these skills, alas, will repel women faster than
the stench of poo and halitosis combined. Inside my book I'll
step-by-step teach you how to develop an iron cast reality, and
cultivate the skills, confidence and balls you need for sucking
women right into your reality...leaving them no choice but to want
and reach and chase for more of you. Just think what it will be like
to finally have the skills and confidence to plop your butt in the
driver's seat while interacting with women, giving you the power and
choice to take your interactions with them in the direction you
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I don’t care if you
are bald or short or fat or broke…or whatever it is you feel is
preventing you from succeeding with women. ATTRACTION is not what a
woman prefers or how she judges you. ATTRACTION is how she responds
to you establishing yourself as the Prize combined with creating the
emotion inside her of wanting and reaching for more of you. As long
as you are able to establish yourself as the Prize, get them
emotionally wanting more of you, and suck them into your reality,
success with beautiful women is in your reach. If you are ready to
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'Till next time,
Swinggcat
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