If you are unhappy
with your current level of success with women – don’t worry! You’re
about to learn secrets for generating ATTRACTION in women, compelling
them to chase you… and these secrets will work regardless of your
current weight, age, bank account, social status, or physical level of
attractiveness…(website)
Important Note: Read
this article in its entirety because you're going to learn an
attraction secret that less than one percent of the male population
knows about!
The other day I was talking to a buddy of mine, a real rock star at
attracting women, about, of all things, Bill Gates. We were
discussing how Gates's financial problems are vastly different from
the average person. Bill spends his days fretting over ways to
either make more money or sustain the money he has, while most
people concern themselves with making money in the first place. The
man lives in a completely different reality from most of us. As we
were chatting about Mr. Microsoft, something dawned on us...
When it comes to succeeding with women, we realized, we live in a
very different reality from most men. In our reality, generating
attraction in women is as easy as taking a crap - little effort, yet
feels great! The skills and tools for generating attraction are so
ingrained in us that when interacting with gorgeous women, there's
not even an iota of hemming and hawing over how to attract them. Our
focus, instead, is on: using the attraction we already know we can
generate in them to get our intended outcome. If there's a woman
we're interested in, for example, we don't stand there stiff and
stupefied, like a deer caught in headlights, wondering: "How in the
world are we going to attract her?" We know, if we just chat with
her for a few minutes, it's inevitable that she'll feel attraction
toward us. That's why our focus is entirely on, even if we haven't
yet said a word to her, using the attraction we already know we can
generate in her to get our intended outcome.
But this isn't the reality of most men. "What to do in the wake of a
woman feeling attraction toward you?" is a thought never crossing
the minds of many a man - and rightfully so...because most can't
even generate attraction inside women in the first place.
A few nights ago, for example, I was at a little bar down the street
from my house. My friend and I watched a forty-something year-old
distinguished looking business man play the big passive bottom to
the verbal gang bang of two twenty-one year old looking,
sponge-brained rhymes-with-witches. The poor bastard attempted to
attract these women the only ways he knew how: buying them drinks,
giving them lots of compliments, and, worst of all, asking them if
they thought his clothes are cool. Funny enough, the more he did
these things, the crueler the girls acted toward him. This man was a
walking, talking attraction death sentence.
Can you relate? Have you ever felt, every attempt to attract a woman
was actually turning her off? Or have you experienced the
frustration of trying to figure out why a woman was more attracted
to your friend than you? Or maybe you've brooded: Attracting women
is as difficult as a blind man trying to find a bobby pin on an open
football field. I dunno?
Each scenario represents the reality of not knowing how to attract
women. A reality I personally overstayed my welcome. I, however,
have moved far away from this reality and now reside in a place
where attracting women is cake.
I'm going to share something with you only known, for the most part,
by people living in a reality where attracting women is as easy as
turning on a light switch. This is something I don't think I've ever
talked about in a newsletter...and might never again. If you've read
my book, you'll know what this is. If you've gone out and
experimented with it, there's a good chance you understand the power
behind it.
Before I get into this I'm going to review some attraction basics.
Realize this: Most women march through life to the rhythms of some
drum most men will never hear. My job is to get you to hear those
rhythms, so, you can start experiencing massive success with women.
Attraction is neither how a woman judges you nor what she prefers.
Women prefer men who are tall and dark and lumbered with boa
constrictor sized wieners. Think of the guys featured in Calvin
Klein, Guess, and Abercrombie catalogues. That's what women prefer!
This probably isn't you, and certainly isn't me. But that's
okay...because...the men women prefer and the men they feel
attraction for are as similar as apples are to oranges. Attraction
has very little to with preference. Attraction, instead, is the
emotion of a woman wanting and reaching and chasing for more of a
man.
This is why you hear many a woman talking about her experiences of
feeling attraction toward men whom she finds ugly or as not filling
the quota for what she considers to be her type. When you've
mastered the mechanisms behind generating attraction, what a woman
physically thinks of you will be the least of your concerns.
One of the most effective ways I've found for generating massive
amounts of attraction in women, emotionally compelling them to want
and reach and chase for more of you, is what I call "Tension Loops."
The best part of using Tension Loops is that they generate heaps of
attraction in women...regardless of your current looks, social
status, or bank account.
A Tension Loop is when you do something to create unresolved
emotional tension inside a woman, increase it, release it by
bringing closure to it, and then spark it all over again. This will
keep her feeling the emotion of wanting and reaching and chasing for
more of you.
Soap opera writers use Tension Loops to keep women enraptured in
their fictitious dramas for months - sometimes years! The structure
is always the same. The soap starts off with some form of conflict
or drama, sparking unresolved emotional tension. Emotional tension
increases up until the point of the climax. The tension, then, is
released by bringing some resolution to the conflict or drama. And,
finally, the show ends by sparking the tension all over again,
compelling women to tune in for next week's show.
Mastering the Tension Loop will give you the kind of power over
women that, at first, might scare you. But if you're thinking that
this is what I wanted to share with you, you're wrong.
So keep reading...
In a minute, you're going to learn a special type of Tension Loop I
call "Push/Pull." If you aren't comfortable with the idea of having
the power to generate attraction inside the women you desire,
regardless of what they think of you, you might want to stop reading
now!
What I'm about to reveal is Jedi mind *shit*. We're talking Yoda
power! And you don't have to become Darth Vader to reap the benefits
of Push/Pull. Every guy I've come into contact with, who is good
with women, uses some form of Push/Pull.
Push/Pull is whenever you emotionally push a woman away from
you...and, then, emotionally pull her back in. Each Push creates an
emotional space for each Pull. To get a sense of what I'm getting
at, think, for example, of your favorite junk food. What if you went
on a strict diet for several weeks, depriving yourself of giving in
to your urge to eat your favorite food? What would it be like to
finally give in to your urge and indulge? I'm willing to bet it
would be more intense than if you hadn't gone on your strict diet,
yes?
Many women are natural Push/Pull artists. Over the years I've heard
dozens of stories from hapless men about women using Push/Pull to
pick them up by the scruff of their proverbial neck, slamming their
bodies with back-and-forth and side-to-side motions into the ground.
My all time favorite story is the one about the gorgeous girl
sleeping with a guy and then, after sex, putting his ego on steroids
by telling him, "You're the best lover I've ever had." Things, then,
alas, take a self-esteem crushing turn for the worse when she
undermines her praise with: "Actually, you're the fourth best lover
I've ever had." The poor bastard is crushed and he is, as if he were
a little worker bee, struggling to move up to the number three slot.
We can use these psychological mechanisms without being an A-hole or
a Jerk. The key is to make it playful and funny. Your intention
should never be to hurt a woman. Your goal is to only mess with her
a bit. Do this and women will find you charming and attractive.
Here's an example of Push/Pull I've used probably over a thousand
times...
At some point while interacting with a woman I might take her hand
and praise, "You have the most amazing smile I've seen tonight... It
makes me feel so happy inside!" She'll usually respond with, "Thank
you!" Then I'll count the fingers on my other hand and say, "You
know what: actually there were four other girls with really amazing
smiles tonight as well. Out of them, you have the fourth best smile.
I'm going to call you number four." And then I'll push away her
hand. More often than not, women demand, "No!!! I want to be number
one!" I'll usually retort with, "Alright, I'll promote you to number
three for being feisty."
Do women find this derisive and mean? Not at all (Note: once in
while you'll encounter a psychologically damaged woman who doesn't
think this is cute. She is the exception and not the rule. My
advice: run away from these types of women, quickly). Most women
find this funny, charming, and playful. More importantly, it
generates attraction: the emotion of wanting and reaching and
chasing for more of you.
Push/Pull is the crème de la crème of attraction tools. Master
Push/Pull and you'll leave women no choice but to feel attraction
toward you...even if they're repulsed by your physical appearance.
Realize that this is a newsletter and I'm only scratching the
surface of Push/Pull. In my book, you'll learn six types of
Push/Pull: Intentional Undermining, Guilty Conscience, Emotional
Rollercoaster, Revealing & Concealing, and Good Cop/ Bad Cop. You'll
discover body language techniques for using Push/Pull and read about
a powerful Push/Pull secret for getting physical with a woman...even
if she tells you, she's not attracted to you. My book is the only
place on the planet where you'll learn about Push/Pull. This,
however, only scratches the surface of what you'll gain from my
attraction guide. It's a complete education on attracting women,
giving you the tools to transform yourself into the kind of man
women feel attraction toward. Just think what it will be like to
finally have the skills and confidence to plop your butt in the
driver's seat while interacting with women, giving you the power and
choice to take your interactions with them in the direction you
want. Start getting this area of your life taken care of right now
by downloading my book.
I don’t care if you
are bald or short or fat or broke…or whatever it is you feel is
preventing you from succeeding with women. ATTRACTION is not what a
woman prefers or how she judges you. ATTRACTION is how she responds
to you establishing yourself as the Prize combined with creating the
emotion inside her of wanting and reaching for more of you. As long
as you are able to establish yourself as the Prize, get them
emotionally wanting more of you, and suck them into your reality,
success with beautiful women is in your reach. If you are ready to
master these skills and start ATTRACTING the women you desire, pick
up a copy of my book today at:
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'Till next time,
Swinggcat
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