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How To Not Feel Lonely Over The Holidays

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David Wygant (free Mastery Series newsletter)

We're right in the midst of the busiest part of the holiday season (and one of the most stressful times of the year for MANY people)

Can you relate to this?

Everyone's scrambling to get projects finished and deadlines met before people are gone for the holidays...

It seems like the population has multiplied by a factor of at least 3 if the amount of traffic and the number of people crowding every single store is any indication...

AND of course,  Your own "to do" list is probably flooded with parties, gifts to buy and a million errands to run...

Besides all the hustle 'n bustle of this time of year, though, there's one OTHER thing that many folks tend to feel around the holiday season: LONELINESS!

Do you ever feel somehow more alone at this time of the year if you're single than you do the rest of the year?

Why is that?!

Whether it's having to answer the inevitable "how's your love life" questions at family gatherings, or some mysterious chemical that is emitted from all the mistletoe hanging up all over the place...

Being single can just seem to feel worse now.

I have good news for you, though...

IT DOESN'T HAVE TO -

- and I am going to tell you how to GET RID of that holiday lonely feeling forever,

so you can not only ENJOY your holiday season more...BUT ALSO have the opportunity to meet and attract women throughout the holiday season.

>>Note: If you want me to show you how to TRANSFORM your entire dating life step-by-step and how you can develop the true inner confidence that will allow you to effortlessly attract women every day and everywhere you go, click here to find out more.

Do you remember these poignant words which the angel Clarence said to Jimmy Stewart's character George Bailey in "It's a Wonderful Life:"

"Strange, isn't it? Each man's life touches so many other lives. When he isn't around he leaves an awful hole, doesn't he? ... Dear George, remember no man is a failure who has friends ... See George, you really had a wonderful life. Don't you see what a mistake it would be to just throw it all away?"

I know know how stressful the holiday season can be.

I will get stressed out too if I have to watch one more Zales diamond jewelry commercial. Then again, if it is followed up by the Budweiser horses then it's okay...

It's December 2008... Have you thought about how wonderful YOUR life REALLY is, or are you too busy thinking about what you don't have?

Maybe you are wishing you were better with women.

You might be thinking about how much chemistry you thought you had with the last woman you dated, yet she didn't call you back.

I suspect you are thinking about all of that MORE now at this time of year.

Here's the problem with that...

The problem that I find coaching so many people who are single, is that they are always thinking about what they DON'T have.

When I coach someone, I find that most of the time they seem to only focus on all the things that they are NOT...

... instead of embracing all the things that they ARE.

It's amazing how many people come to me who really want to learn how to approach women, but they don't want to put in the work necessary to learn how to do it.

They don't practice every single day,

AND they don't embrace the small victories that happen every day.

What so many people do is they try something once, and if it doesn't work then they quit.

I remember during last year's NFL season, Peyton Manning threw six interceptions against the Chargers.

What did he do?
He didn't quit.

He was down 21-0 and he kept coming back.

How is it he can throw six interceptions and keep going, but the average single person who learns a new approach will give it only one chance to work?

They will try it once, and if it doesn't work they'll quit and re-embrace their fears all over again.

So here's my call to action to you during this holiday season:

Give yourself permission to try new things and new approaches.

If you are only able to talk to a woman for 30 seconds, then the very next day try to talk to a woman for 35 seconds.

Learn to embrace the small victories.

When a quarterback in the NFL is drafted in the first round - and despite the fact that he's been playing football his ENTIRE life - it usually takes him three seasons to realize his potential.

When a rookie pitcher first plays in the big leagues, he usually pitches one good game and one terrible game.

How interesting...

It seems though that when people are single, they always want to know ahead of time if they are going to succeed.

They don't believe or understand that learning to approach and connect with the opposite sex is a process that will have successes and failures along the way.

***COACHING QUESTION***
Recently a student of mine said to me:

"David, I don't want to approach a woman unless I know 100% for sure that it's going to work."

***MY ANSWER***
What did I say to my student?

I threw a couple of cliched (but oh so true) sayings and analogies back at him.

I asked him "Is there anything in life that's 100%?

The only things that are 100% in life are, as they say, death and taxes."

So during this holiday season, give yourself some goals.

You just can't win the Super Bowl the first time you ever play the game.

Take a look at your life and where you are, and start embracing little gains.

In order to become a master communicator, you need to put the time and effort in to make it happen.

It's not just going to happen overnight.

(Even though I know some of you still want to believe that it can...)

Every day allow yourself some practice time.

Go out and flirt with two women today, and then maybe with three tomorrow.

Instead of getting frustrated with yourself, start accepting the small gains.

In order for somebody to share your wonderful life with you, YOU need to first realize that your life is wonderful.

For those of you who really don't understand how to powerfully communicate with women, give yourself the gift that keeps on giving: my Men's Audio Mastery Series. Click here to read more.

It is the only holiday gift actually guaranteed to fits you.

(It's also far better than that sweater your grandmother bought you on sale)

Also, be sure to watch for my future newsletters where I will be revealing more SECRETS and TIPS for creating the incredible dating life you want.

Until next time...
Your friend,
David  (More about David here)

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